Sari Swears

Over the past 4 months my mind has gone over and over the "What if" question

"What if the cancer comes back?" "What if I don't live to see my kid grow up?" What if…?"

I bet you ask this question too. "What if the jury returns a defense verdict?" "What if I screw this up?"

I tried shutting down the "what if" questions in my brain. It didn't work. Then my husband Kevin said something that COMPLETELY shifted my outlook on this question.

Give this episode a listen to learn what it was and how to change the what if question in your life!

In this recent FB Live, Sari discusses how teaching during opening statement is very different than storytelling and how, if you don't get the difference, you run the risk of confusing the jury. On Thursday 5/6/21 she discussed the difference between the two and helps you excel at both in your next trial.

One of the questions I get most often is, "How do I transition?"

There always comes that awkward moment in a presentation where you're not sure how to start the next bit of content.

In this podcast episode I share the one thing you're doing too much of and two things that can help you transition like a pro.

Give this episode a listen to transition with ease in any presentation!

What happens if you're objected to? Or lose your train of thought? Or say something that turns the jury off? How do you recover?

There's a GREAT skill you can use to get the jury (and yourself) refocused.

Give this podcast a listen to learn how you to "decontaminate" the space after something unexpected happens.

-Sari

This is a special FB Live episode from 4/12/21. We're getting ready to open up enrollment for the H2H Crew! So, it's time to talk about all things H2H as we prep for the 4/16-4/22 launch. For more information about the H2H Crew and to join the waiting list, visit www.fromhostagetohero.com/h2hcrewinfo

If you're a trial lawyer, you argue for a living.

But there's one person you should be arguing with and probably aren't.

You.

Give this podcast a listen to learn why arguing with yourself is a necessary skill to live a fulfilling life.

Get ready for a rant.

I have a HUGE problem with the word "humble" and I'm going to share it with you in today's episode.

Give this podcast a listen to learn why I think telling people to stay "humble" is a huge mistake and what to do instead.

-Sari

On one hand, I kinda hate "positive" thinking. It just doesn't feel authentic sometimes.

On the other hand, I know that our thoughts create our results, so choosing our thoughts carefully really, really matters.

But what happens when you choose to think positively and -don't- get the result you want? Is it a cosmic fuck you from the universe?

Give this podcast a listen to learn the point of positive thinking and what to do when you feel like you've just been kicked in the gut.

-Sari

One of my client's favorite things about my work is what I call the Trial Dialogue.

What is the Trial Dialogue you ask?

It's sourcing your opening from jurors in voir dire. It's genius if I may say so myself, and moves jurors from information to investment.

Give this special FB LIVE podcast a listen to learn how the Trial Dialogue works and how to use it in your next case!

-Sari

We've added a new coach to the SariDLM team: Coach Joonho Hong!

In this podcast episode we learn a little bit about Joon, how he stalked Sari, and why he's gone "all in" with SariDLM.

We'll also talk about something Joon is passionate about: creating habits that support him (and you!) as a trial lawyer.

Give this podcast a listen to learn the three truths about creating habits that LAST.

-Sari