Say It Out Loud with Vasavi Kumar

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ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
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STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
Website → https://www.vasavikumar.com
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

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ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
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STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
Website → https://www.vasavikumar.com
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

Go to https://betterhelp.com/vasavi for 10% off your first month of therapy with 

BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored 

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Support the show

ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
Send me the question you can't ask anybody else. I answer one on every episode. Anonymously, always.
https://vasavikumar.com/askvasavi

STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
Website → https://www.vasavikumar.com
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

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ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
Send me the question you can't ask anybody else. I answer one on every episode. Anonymously, always.
https://vasavikumar.com/askvasavi

STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
Website → https://www.vasavikumar.com
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

Hello! This episode is unscripted and unedited. It's important to me that this is a space where we allow ourselves to #sayitoutloud.

Thank you as always for listening and tuning in. 

LOVE
VASAVI

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ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
Send me the question you can't ask anybody else. I answer one on every episode. Anonymously, always.
https://vasavikumar.com/askvasavi

STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
Website → https://www.vasavikumar.com
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

Decided to re-air from 2020 because it was too good not to!

If you care too much what people think of you, then this episode is a MUST-LISTEN. This is the first official episode of the Being Human with Vasavi Podcast. You'll learn the three ways to overcome ANY challenge that life throws your way. If you know it's time for a change but don't where to begin, you'll walk away knowing exactly how to feel in control of your life and reclaim your power. 

Connect with Me @mynameisvasavi

Grab my FREE Guide on 10 Must-Have Habits of Ultra-Confident Women: www.vasavikumar.com/freeguide

Get Mentored by Me: www.vasavikumar.com

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ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
Send me the question you can't ask anybody else. I answer one on every episode. Anonymously, always.
https://vasavikumar.com/askvasavi

STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
Website → https://www.vasavikumar.com
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

ORIGINALLY AIRED IN 2020 BUT STILL HELLA RELEVANT:

Today’s episode of The Being Human Podcast is the fourth and final part in this letting go series during December, where I’m sharing the Top 4 Things to Walk Away From in 2020, and we’re going to chat about the number one mistake we ALL make: 

Not trusting ourselves.

Your intuition is your inner compass, the decision-maker that nudges you in the right direction, and the solution to every problem you face, but we can’t access that superpower when our boundaries are in ruin and we aren’t listening to what our intuition is telling us.

We aren’t trusting what it’s saying or where it’s guiding us.

Trust. Is. Key.

That’s why this is going to be the year we see what happens when you finally start accepting yourself, walking away from the things that don’t serve you, and making what you need non-negotiable.

Resources and Links from the Show: 

• Listen to Part 1 of this 4-Part Series
• Listen to Part 2 of this 4-Part Series
• Listen to Part 3 of this 4-Part Series

Take my FREE quiz to find out how well you know yourself and where to start using that to skyrocket your biz success: https://www.vasavikumar.com/takethequiz

Join the MIND Your Own BUSINESS community here: http://vasavikumar.com/membership

Connect with Vasavi on Instagram: @mynameisvasavi

Key moments to tune in for:

• [3:12] What happens when you finally start accepting and trusting yourself
• [7:06] Assessing value in your life and how your priorities are contributing to it
• [10:20] Trusting your intuition and solidifying your foundation

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Vasavi Kumar leads the coaching industry with 10 years of experience and has helped thousands of women overcome major life obstacles to create new heights of success. Her work is known internationally from speaking engagements in India and across the USA. Vasavi is recognized for getting to the bottom of the intersection of self and business roadblocks and her methods teach clients how to master the art of getting what you want, by mastering their mind.

Vasavi holds dual Masters degrees in Special Education from Hofstra University and Social Work from Columbia University. She’s the host of the Being Human with Vasavi Podcast and Former Co-Host of Studio 512, a lifestyle and entertainment morning show in Austin, TX. She's been featured in The Wall Street Journal, FOX, VH1, and was a regular on NBC’s Kansas City Live as the “Keepin’ It Real Guru.” She believes that when you cultivate a solid relationship with yourself, you can be, do, and create anything you want.

Send us Fan Mail

Support the show

ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
Send me the question you can't ask anybody else. I answer one on every episode. Anonymously, always.
https://vasavikumar.com/askvasavi

STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
Website → https://www.vasavikumar.com
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

ORIGINALLY AIRED IN 2020:

Listen, this episode of The Being Human podcast has one of the biggest lessons I’ve ever learned, and it’s the third of the top 4 things I’m walking away from in 2020 because of how damaging it can be.

Do you realize how much time and energy we spend trying to convince or force something to work? 

We want people to respond a certain way, see us, and understand our perspective, yet we tend to spend an enormous amount of our energy trying to make them see us or give us the love we desire so much… and it’s time to stop.

It’s amazing how light I’ve felt since making the decision to stop begging for love and attention, and it may have taken me a long time, but it created a massive shift in my energy when I realized it. I have so much extra space, time, energy, and myself to share with the right people now that I’ve done this and I hope that by listening to this episodes you can feel the same.

Let’s get started. 

Resources and Links from the Show: 

• Listen to Part 1 of this 4-Part Series
• Listen to Part 2 of this 4-Part Series

Take my FREE quiz to find out how well you know yourself and where to start using that to skyrocket your biz success: https://www.vasavikumar.com/takethequiz

Join the MIND Your Own BUSINESS community here: http://vasavikumar.com/membership

Connect with Vasavi on Instagram: @mynameisvasavi

Key moments to tune in for:

• [5:22] The soul-crushing personal experience of begging for love and attention
• [10:11] Shifting the mindset to self-love and how begging for love and attention negatively affects your life
• [14:48] The steps toward valuing and validating yourself

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Vasavi Kumar leads the coaching industry with 10 years of experience and has helped thousands of women overcome major life obstacles to create new heights of success. Her work is known internationally from speaking engagements in India and across the USA. Vasavi is recognized for getting to the bottom of the intersection of self and business roadblocks and her methods teach clients how to master the art of getting what you want, by mastering their mind.

Vasavi holds dual Masters degrees in Special Education from Hofstra University and Social Work from Columbia University. She’s the host of the Being Human with Vasavi Podcast and Former Co-Host of Studio 512, a lifestyle and entertainment morning show in Austin, TX. She's been featured in The Wall Street Journal, FOX, VH1, and was a regular on NBC’s Kansas City Live as the “Keepin’ It Real Guru.” She believes that when you cultivate a solid relationship with yourself, you can be, do, and create anything you want.

Send us Fan Mail

Support the show

ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
Send me the question you can't ask anybody else. I answer one on every episode. Anonymously, always.
https://vasavikumar.com/askvasavi

STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
Website → https://www.vasavikumar.com
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

ORIGINALLY AIRED IN 2020 BUT STILL HELLA RELEVANT:

Has anyone ever told you to “calm down” or that you’re “making a big deal out of nothing” when you tried to express how you feel? 

We often lack emotional validation from the people we love and are told to bury the very thing that makes us human by putting on a mask of emotional perfection. In today’s episode we’re discussing how emotional perfectionism is actually creating a cascade of negative perceptions and beliefs. 

This is one of the things I’m walking away from in 2020 because like you, it’s been something that’s holding me back from experiencing all life has to offer - from relationships to my business.

We’re diving into the messy-ness that is… well… us, and how we can ignite conscious relationships with our partners, friends, coworkers, and family.

This is the second in a 4-part series during December on The Being Human podcast.

Resources and Links from the Show: 

Listen to Part 1 of this 4-Part Series

45 minute clarity consultation for $100: https://www.vasavikumar.com/booknow 

2021 Intentional Planning Session: https://www.vasavikumar.com/intention

Take my FREE quiz to find out how well you know yourself and where to start using that to skyrocket your biz success: https://www.vasavikumar.com/takethequiz

Join the MIND Your Own BUSINESS community here: http://vasavikumar.com/membership

Connect with Vasavi on Instagram: @mynameisvasavi

Key moments to tune in for:

• [4:05] Feeling invalidated and how emotional perfectionism standards are screwing up or slowing down your life 
• [11:35] Allowing yourself to feel your emotions and be messy as a transformational tool
• [16:48] How to validate yourself and experience what it means to be human

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Vasavi Kumar leads the coaching industry with 10 years of experience and has helped thousands of women overcome major life obstacles to create new heights of success. Her work is known internationally from speaking engagements in India and across the USA. Vasavi is recognized for getting to the bottom of the intersection of self and business roadblocks and her methods teach clients how to master the art of getting what you want, by mastering their mind.

Vasavi holds dual Masters degrees in Special Education from Hofstra University and Social Work from Columbia University. She’s the host of the Being Human with Vasavi Podcast and Former Co-Host of Studio 512, a lifestyle and entertainment morning show in Austin, TX. She's been featured in The Wall Street Journal, FOX, VH1, and was a regular on NBC’s Kansas City Live as the “Keepin’ It Real Guru.” She believes that when you cultivate a solid relationship with yourself, you can be, do, and create anything you want.

Send us Fan Mail

Support the show

ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
Send me the question you can't ask anybody else. I answer one on every episode. Anonymously, always.
https://vasavikumar.com/askvasavi

STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
Website → https://www.vasavikumar.com
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook