Say It Out Loud with Vasavi Kumar

ORIGINALLY AIRED IN 2020:

Let’s be honest - we know there are things that have been weighing us down, especially in the year we’ve had. Well, today’s episode of The Being Human Podcast is the first in a 4-part series during December, where I’m sharing the Top 4 Things to Walk Away From in 2020.

We're always talking about setting goals for 2021, which is very important. I'm all for goal setting, but if we're still carrying baggage (especially from the havoc that was this year and the stories of our past), it's a lot harder to accomplish those goals. It's harder to even set those goals when you have so much weighing you down. 

So many of us stay in bad situations when we're dying on the inside. We want to run the other way, but we are so psychologically and emotionally dependent on the (false) sense of security that this thing - this person, this place, this job - gives us that we think we can’t leave. 

But we can.

You CAN.

It sometimes feels terrifying, but I know that deep down, you know you deserve more. You deserve to walk away and right into something better.

Today I’m sharing what I personally walked away from (that I may have stayed way too long in) and how to start figuring that out for yourself. 

Let’s dive in.

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Key moments to tune in for:

• [5:00] Knowing your self worth: Walk away from feeling like it's your job to stay
• [11:00] Assessing value in your life and how your priorities are contributing to it
• [19:42] How to be okay with walking away and focus on the areas of life that you’ve been neglecting

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Vasavi Kumar leads the coaching industry with 10 years of experience and has helped thousands of women overcome major life obstacles to create new heights of success. Her work is known internationally from speaking engagements in India and across the USA. Vasavi is recognized for getting to the bottom of the intersection of self and business roadblocks and her methods teach clients how to master the art of getting what you want, by mastering their mind.

Vasavi holds dual Masters degrees in Special Education from Hofstra University and Social Work from Columbia University. She’s the host of the Being Human with Vasavi Podcast and Former Co-Host of Studio 512, a lifestyle and entertainment morning show in Austin, TX. She's been featured in The Wall Street Journal, FOX, VH1, and was a regular on NBC’s Kansas City Live as the “Keepin’ It Real Guru.” She believes that when you cultivate a solid relationship with yourself, you can be, do, and create anything you want.

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Links mentioned:

SAY IT OUT LOUD GROUP begins January 16th! Join us here: vasavikumar.com/sayitoutloud

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ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
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STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
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Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

Try this one "conversational risk" today and watch as your confidence goes up!

Important Links:

1. Book: vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

2. Group program: vasavikumarcom/sayitoutloud

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ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
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STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
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Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

Hello Hello! Recording this from my phone. Felt called to share this message with you. Talk soon xoxo Vasavi

Links mentioned:

1. Book: vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

2. Group program: vasavikumarcom/sayitoutloud

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ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
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STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

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The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

Originally aired on the Miracle Morning Podcast with Hal Elrod

Pause for a moment and listen to that little voice in your head. What’s it saying right now? Is it lifting you up and encouraging you or stressing you out? 

How you talk to yourself can make or break your dreams, and nobody knows this better than today’s guest, Vasavi Kumar, author of the book Say It Out Loud. In today’s episode, she shares her process for dealing with negative self-talk. And it’s not just about silencing those pesky thoughts.

We go one step further. You’ll discover the transformational power of saying them out loud and how that can help you understand and process your emotions better.

Vasavi will guide you through the specific steps of this process. By the end, you’ll be able to talk to yourself to build trust, heal past wounds, strengthen your relationships, and find the courage to go after your deepest, most profound goals.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• How to be brutally honest without alienating people.
• What others think about you is not your story.
• You set the standard for how everyone – including yourself – treats you.
• Raising compassionately curious kids.
• A mindset shift to connect with people in any room you enter easily.
• The best “parenting hack” I learned from Joe Rogan.
• Getting comfortable with hearing ourselves talk out loud.

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ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
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STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
Website → https://www.vasavikumar.com
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

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ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
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STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
Website → https://www.vasavikumar.com
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

Wanna get more of these straight to your inbox?

Subscribe here for free: vasavikumar.com

Today's weekly voice note is all about my BOLD VOICE program.

Enrolling today for the Fall! Save $1000 as an early bird from now until Aug 15th!

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ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
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https://vasavikumar.com/askvasavi

STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

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The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

This episode was originally aired on my very dear friend Ajit's podcast, Master Coaching!!!

How many times have you caught yourself telling yourself that you’re stupid, incompetent, or not worthy?

My guest today is Vasavi Kumar, author of “Say It Out Loud: Using the Power of Your Voice to Listen to Your Deepest Thoughts and Courageously Pursue Your Dreams”

In this powerful conversation, Vasavi and I unpack the ways in which we all talk to ourselves without really paying attention to what we’re saying. Most of what we tell ourselves is negative, unhelpful, counterproductive, and straight up abusive. But as you will hear, it is your divine duty to learn how to love yourself exactly the way you need to be loved and become the person you want to be.

Key Insights:

• How growing up in an Indian family affected her self-talk
• Naming the different parts of yourself
• How to get out of your head
• How to stop believing your own inner lies
• The power of small goals
• Silencing yourself is self-abandonment
• Bipolar disorder and depression
• Why our mind is not always an ally to our goals

Pre-Order Vasavi’s new book “Say It Out Loud” here

To connect with Vasavi Kumar, follow them on Instagram @mynameisvasavi

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Thank you so much for checking out this episode of Master Coaching with Ajit. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on your favorite podcast app, and don’t forget to subscribe to enjoy every new episode, every single week.

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STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

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The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

This episode was originally aired on the This is Bipolar podcast hosted by Shaley Hoogendoorn who has become a dear friend of mine! I share my very personal story about living with bipolar disorder.

In this episode of 'Conversations With" Mental Health Advocate, Shaley Hoogendoorn talks to author and therapist Vasavi Kumar about all things therapy. Vasavi takes us back to when bipolar disorder presented in her life and then walks us through her ups and downs along the way. Vasavi has years of real lived experience with addiction and the high highs and low lows of  bipolar disorder. 

Vasavi shares her insight on how healing it is to not only listen to your own thoughts but to talk back to yourself. It is a powerful tool to be able to speak out loud to the different parts of yourself. Vasavi gives us practical tips on how we can use this tool to understand ourselves and our bipolar brains better. Listening to all parts of ourselves helps us have more empathy and compassion for ourselves. 

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ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
Send me the question you can't ask anybody else. I answer one on every episode. Anonymously, always.
https://vasavikumar.com/askvasavi

STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
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Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook

Today's episode is all about breaking free from the barriers that hold us back, including struggling with confidence, past traumas, anxiety, and the infamous imposter syndrome. We'll dive deep into how these challenges can impact various aspects of our lives, from public speaking to setting boundaries and expanding our careers.

We're flipping the script on the "living small" mentality and stepping into the spotlight with the "I could listen to them all day" vibe. Get ready to tap into your inner charisma and authenticity as we share powerful insights, tips, and personal stories to help you embrace your true voice.

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Enroll in BOLD VOICE: vasavikumar.com/boldvoice

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Support the show

ASK VASAVI A QUESTION
Send me the question you can't ask anybody else. I answer one on every episode. Anonymously, always.
https://vasavikumar.com/askvasavi

STOP WATERING YOURSELF DOWN
 My training on how to say what you actually think out loud and get paid for it.
 https://vasavikumar.com/training

THE OUT LOUD SCHOOL
My membership community. Holistic on camera training, inside and outside. Most training only works on how you sound. This one starts with what your body is doing before you open your mouth.
https://vasavikumar.com/theoutloudschool

🎧 LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/say-it-out-loud-with-vasavi/id1366384837
Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/40Gh9jTmDUpc4x8GMR5IyH

📲 FIND ME
Website → https://www.vasavikumar.com
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
The book → https://www.vasavikumar.com/orderthebook