In this episode Jill Pack explores why we often try to force change in the people we love and what that costs us. Drawing on a personal story with her granddaughter on a ski slope, she explains how forcing is usually a coping mechanism rooted in anxiety, family training, and cultural expectations. Jill discusses the grief that comes with choosing to allow rather than control—grieving outcomes, roles, and imagined relationships—and invites listeners to notice their patterns as the first step toward healthier connections.

To join the Conflict to Connection Challenge: https://seasons-coaching.myflodesk.com/conflict-to-connection-30-day-challenge

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About the Host: Jill Pack is a certified faith-based life + relationship coach and member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She helps women of faith navigate their seasons of life with greater purpose and joy including how to transform conflict into connection. For more resources or to work with Jill, visit www.seasons-coaching.com.

Host Jill Pack explores how our sense of worth—the "false self"—often hijacks difficult conversations and turns disagreements into battles. She explains how reconnecting with your divine identity can calm your nervous system, invite curiosity, and transform conflict into opportunities for empathy and deeper connection.

The episode offers practical steps: notice defensive reactions, pause and regulate your breathing, name the false beliefs, and re-center on the truth of being a loved, divine being. This shift helps you apologize without shame, set boundaries with compassion, and relate to loved ones from wholeness instead of fear.

To join the Conflict to Connection Challenge: https://seasons-coaching.myflodesk.com/conflict-to-connection-30-day-challenge

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About the Host: Jill Pack is a certified faith-based life + relationship coach and member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She helps women of faith navigate their seasons of life with greater purpose and joy including how to transform conflict into connection. For more resources or to work with Jill, visit www.seasons-coaching.com.

Host Jill Pack counts down the top 10 listener-favorite episodes of 2025, sharing one powerful takeaway from each conversation. Topics include navigating conflict, emotional regulation, building resilience, creating meaningful spaces, healing from betrayal, and embracing sexual wholeness in midlife.

This episode highlights practical tools and mindset shifts you can apply now, invites you to revisit episodes that resonated, and encourages growth, compassion, and connection as you move into 2026.

To join the Conflict to Connection Challenge: https://seasons-coaching.myflodesk.com/conflict-to-connection-30-day-challenge

Top 10 Episode in 2025:

10. Finding Your Fancee with Jancee Wright, Ep. 139

https://www.seasons-coaching.com/podcast/finding-your-fancee

09. Why You Keep Reacting the Way You Do, Ep. 183

https://www.seasons-coaching.com/podcast/why-you-keep-reacting-the-way-you-do

08. Divine Design: The 90-Second Reset Button, Ep. 151 https://www.seasons-coaching.com/podcast/divine-design-the-90-second-reset-button

07. Growing Your Capacity Over Time, Ep. 185 https://www.seasons-coaching.com/podcast/growing-your-capacity-over-time

06. 4 Lessons I Learned Climbing Mount Kilimanjaro, Ep. 145 https://www.seasons-coaching.com/podcast/4-lessons-learned-climbing-kilimanjaro

05. Quiet Wealth with Brooke Oniki, Ep. 147 https://www.seasons-coaching.com/podcast/quiet-wealth-with-brooke-oniki

04. The Power of 70x7: Becoming Peacemakers, Ep. 150 https://www.seasons-coaching.com/podcast/the-power-of-70x7-becoming-peacemakers

03. Happily Even After with Jennifer Townsend, Ep. 153 https://www.seasons-coaching.com/podcast/happily-even-after-with-jennifer-townsend

02. That We Might Have Joy with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, Ep. 180 https://www.seasons-coaching.com/podcast/that-we-might-have-joy

01. Embracing Your Sexual Self in Midlife with Amanda Louder, Ep. 146 https://www.seasons-coaching.com/podcast/embracing-your-sexual-self-in-midlife-with-amanda-louder

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About the Host: Jill Pack is a certified faith-based life + relationship coach and member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She helps women of faith navigate their seasons of life with greater purpose and joy including how to transform conflict into connection. For more resources or to work with Jill, visit www.seasons-coaching.com.

In this episode Jill Pack zooms out from quick regulation tools to focus on long-term nervous system resilience — why growing your capacity matters and how to practice it over time.

Practical, faith-centered, and encouraging, this episode invites you to make small, consistent choices that expand your tolerance, help you recover faster, and transform your relationships in the year ahead.

Episode 185 | Part 4 of the Nervous System Series

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About the Host: Jill Pack is a certified faith-based life + relationship coach and member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She helps women of faith navigate their seasons of life with greater purpose and joy including how to transform conflict into connection. For more resources or to work with Jill, visit www.seasons-coaching.com.

Learn 10 powerful nervous system regulation tools you can use anywhere, anytime to stay calm during difficult conversations, stressful situations, and triggering moments. Life coach Jill Pack shares evidence-based techniques including the physiological sigh, peripheral vision, belly breathing, cold water therapy, and more to help you shift from anxious and activated to grounded and present.

Perfect for navigating family dynamics during the holidays, managing conflict, or finding calm in everyday stress. These simple tools take seconds to use and nobody needs to know you're doing them.

Episode 184 | Part 3 of the Nervous System Series

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About the Host: Jill Pack is a certified faith-based life + relationship coach and member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She helps women of faith navigate their seasons of life with greater purpose and joy including how to transform conflict into connection. For more resources or to work with Jill, visit www.seasons-coaching.com.

Can't think clearly when triggered? Learn why safety is the foundation for everything else. In Episode 183, life coach Jill Pack guides you through creating your personal safety anchor, teaches Leah Davidson's simple safety sequence for moments of dysregulation, and reveals the 5 daily fundamentals that support your nervous system. Perfect for midlife women navigating difficult relationships and wanting to respond with

Episode 183 | Part 2 of the Nervous System Series

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About the Host: Jill Pack is a certified faith-based life + relationship coach and member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She helps women of faith navigate their seasons of life with greater purpose and joy including how to transform conflict into connection. For more resources or to work with Jill, visit www.seasons-coaching.com.

Ever wonder why you react in ways you don't want to—especially with your adult children or spouse? The answer is in your nervous system, and understanding it will change everything.

In this episode, learn: ✨ The 3 states your nervous system operates in (and which one you're in right now) ✨ Why you can't think clearly when you're triggered ✨ What trauma actually is (it's probably not what you think) ✨ Why this isn't a willpower problem—it's a nervous system problem

Perfect for midlife women navigating challenging relationships with adult children.

Episode 182 | Part 1 of the Nervous System Series

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About the Host: Jill Pack is a certified faith-based life + relationship coach and member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She helps women of faith navigate their seasons of life with greater purpose and joy including how to transform conflict into connection. For more resources or to work with Jill, visit www.seasons-coaching.com.

This episode explores the three questions that keep us awake at night: Who am I really? Can I change? And why is this so hard? Drawing on three powerful conference talks, Jill Pack shows how the answers connect — you are God’s beloved child, change is possible through new beginnings, and hard seasons refine and strengthen you.

Jill offers practical invitations: commune with God to internalize your identity, embrace daily new beginnings, and reframe trials as growth. A hopeful, faith-centered guide for women navigating difficult seasons.

Mentioned in the podcast:

Elder Brik V. Eyre

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2025/10/15eyre?lang=eng

Elder Patrick Kearon

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2025/10/31kearon?lang=eng

Elder Henry B. Eyring https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2025/10/47eyring?lang=eng

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About the Host: Jill Pack is a certified faith-based life + relationship coach and member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She helps women of faith navigate their seasons of life with greater purpose and joy including how to transform conflict into connection. For more resources or to work with Jill, visit www.seasons-coaching.com.

In episode 180, Jill shares her conversation with therapist and author Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife as she discusses her book That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity, and Intimate Love. Exploring how desire and eroticism can be spiritual forces that deepen marriage and personal growth.

They cover moving from role-based marriages to collaborative partnerships, cultivating self-authorship for women, overcoming shame around sexuality, and practical steps—truth-telling, courage, and compassionate conflict—to rebuild attraction and intimacy in midlife relationships.

To learn more about Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife or to purchase her book visit https://www.finlayson-fife.com.

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About the Host: Jill Pack is a certified faith-based life + relationship coach and member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She helps women of faith navigate their seasons of life with greater purpose and joy including how to transform conflict into connection. For more resources or to work with Jill, visit www.seasons-coaching.com.

In this episode, learn how to transform stressful holiday gatherings into meaningful connections. Discover 4 powerful strategies to choose connection over control this Thanksgiving and Christmas season.

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Click on the following links to learn more about Seasons Coaching and the  Seasons of Joy Community Facebook Group.

To contact Jill about speaking to your group or business, email her at [email protected].

Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and rate and leave a review! Help spread these tools!

About the Host: Jill Pack is a certified faith-based life + relationship coach and member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She helps women of faith navigate their seasons of life with greater purpose and joy including how to transform conflict into connection. For more resources or to work with Jill, visit www.seasons-coaching.com.