Secrets of Happily Ever After: Marriage and Intimacy Tips for Couples

This week's episode is designed to help you avoid the BIGGEST mistake I see couples make around Valentine's Day every single year. I'll tell you what the the mistake is and exactly how to avoid it, so you can enjoy a stress free Valentine's Day and get everything you want from your partner.

This episode is packed with resources to make Valentine's Day special this year and strengthen your relationship and deepen your intimacy in the process. I promise, you're going to love this one!

If you haven't confirmed your partner's primary love language in a while, check out my FREE Love Language Challenge Here: https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/lovelanguagechallenge

Check out the Offensive Playbook Challenge for Husbands and the Complete Intimacy Challenge for Wives, both 25% off until Valentine's Day. https://offensiveplaybookchallenge.com  or  https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/14daychallenge

Give your Sweetheart the gift of your time and attention by committing to dating every single week and document your love story one date at a time with a Date Night Journal here:  https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/journal

Join the Sextimacy Challenge for fun intimacy building prompts and the opportunity to win great prizes by downloading the app here:  https://r.intimately.us/otbs

Join us for Training in the Art of Connection starting on Monday, February 13th. Get all the details here:  https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/gettrained

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In today's episode I'm revealing the truth of why so many couples are unhappy and the common misconception that is fueling this unhappiness. Make sure you tune in so you don't make this costly mistake in your marriage.

With Valentine's Day coming up, we're offering 25% off our 2 most popular challenges. Learn more here:

Offensive Playbook Challenge for Husbands:  https://offensiveplaybookchallenge.com

Complete Intimacy Challenge for Wives:  https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/14daychallenge

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In today's episode, we're celebrating National Hugging Day a little early. Did you know that there is tons of research showing the benefits of hugging on your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health? A simple 20 second hug each day has the power to transform your health and your relationship. Take my hugging challenge and see how you feel this time next week.

Join us for the Become the Hero Husband Challenge starting on Monday, January 23rd. Get all the details and register here: https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/husband-challenge.

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In today's episode, I'm talking with Jennifer and Christopher Vos about thier experience going through my 12 week program, Training in the Art of Connection (formerly known as Sexpionage). Chris and Jen have been married for 29 years and have 9 children. Jen works full-time for the school distict and Chris is an entrepreneur with a passion for relationship building.

Listen in to find out all about Training in the Art of Connection and the power of Return on Relationships, which is how Christopher and Jennifer have been able to turn their heros into their real-life friends. Christopher shares some touching stories at the end about how his business came to be and a relationship saved his life...literally.

If you are ready for more attention, affection and appreciation from your wife, make sure you join us starting January 23rd for my 5 Day Become the Hero Challenge. Register HERE: https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/husband-challenge.

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This episode is based on an article published in Bestlife which featured a quote by me. I loved the article and thought it would be a great tool to use to prioritize our marriage this year. I go over the 7 things divorced people wish they had done differently when they were married as compiled by journalist, Lauren Jarvis-Gibson.

If you are interested in participating in a Gottman 7 Principles of Making Marriage Work Workshop lead by me, please reach out via email or social media and let me know, so I can schedule a workshop in your area.

Husbands who are ready for more attention, affection and appreciation from their wife, sign up for my 5 Day Become the Hero Husband Challenge. Register HERE: https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/husband-challenge

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In this week's episode, I'm talking about the BEST gift you could ever give your children on this holiday or any other time of the year. That gift is a blueprint of a healthy, thriving marriage and a glimpse at your happily ever after.

I go over 4 ways you can give that gift to your children, your grandchildren and their children for generations. This episode is a step by step guide to creating that blueprint and a wonderful way to check the progress you are making as you strive to give your children the best possible chance for a happy, healthy relationship in the future.

If you are struggling with any of the concepts we talked about in this episode, please sign up for a complementary relationship breakthrough by going to https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/apply.

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In today's episode, I'm debunking the myth that sacrificing more of what you want will eventually bring you happiness. In fact, the opposite is true. If you keep sacrificing for the sake of your marriage or your family, you will just get resentful and that kills any chance you have of ever being happy.

If you want to know what to do when you have sacrificed too much and you feel resentful, be sure to register for the Ditch Decades of Resentment Webclass I'm hosting on Thursday, December 8th. Get all the details and sign up here: https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/resentmentwebclass.

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In today's episode, I'm talking about how compromise is holding you back and destroying your intimacy and connection. Everytime you compromise, you are giving away a small piece of yourself or something that is important to you. Compromise doesn't honor you or your partner. Nobody wins and the result is resentment, the number one killer of all intimacy and connection.

So, what do we do instead of compromise when we are dealing with a disagreement or conflict? I'm teaching you what to do instead and exactly how to do it. Tune in for a step by step process where everyone wins.

Join us on Thursday, December 8th for a live webclass on Ditching Decades of Resentment and Get Busy Writing Your Happily Ever After. Register here:  https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/resentmentwebclass

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In today's episode, I'm talking about the power gratitude has to change the way we feel about another person. We don't even need to share our gratitude with that person in order to benefit from feeling it and looking for ways that person is blessing our life.

My favorite quote from this episode is to imagine if we could only have tomorrow the things we were grateful for today. That one sentament would forever change the way we thought about our blessings. I challenge you to think about all the ways in which your partner is blessing your life and share that list with them this Thanksgiving.

Check out my new YouTube channel for more great, FREE tips and trainings and interviews on how to improve the intimacy and connection in your marriage.  https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

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In today's episode, I'm sharing 3 ways you can make sure you have more pease and joy rather than stress and overwhelm this holiday season.

You can start by setting your intentions. Ask yourself how you really want to feel. Then planning with your spouse around traditions, budget and schedules ensures that you are both on the same page. Finally maintaining your regular routines and rythms such as working out and date nights will help ease the tention between you.

If you haven't already, you can save $500 by grabbing your tickets to the Valentine's Day Power Couple Retreat in McCall, Idaho by December 1st. Spots are filling up fast. https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/vdayretreat.

Apply for your FREE Relationship Breakthrough by going to https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/apply.

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