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Finding Me with Josh Wolf — Episode 2
“Selfish, Nice, and Actually Being Kind”
In this episode, Josh digs into a word most of us were taught to feel guilty about:
selfish.
But what if being “selfish” — at least sometimes — is actually the healthiest thing you can do?
Josh breaks down the difference between being nice and being kind.
Nice usually means smoothing things over, avoiding conflict, and people-pleasing until you disappear. Kindness, though — real kindness — has to include you. Boundaries. Honesty. Saying no without apologizing for existing.
He walks through three simple things he did for himself yesterday — choices that didn’t make anyone else’s life worse, but made his life clearer, calmer, and a little more grounded. Nothing dramatic. No “life hacks.” Just intentional acts of self-respect.
We also get an inside look at Josh’s expanded Las Vegas stand-up residency — why he said yes, how it changes his creative rhythm, and what it feels like to build something new at this stage in his career.
This is an episode about rewiring the way we talk to ourselves — and refusing to confuse self-abandonment with virtue.
Connect with Finding Me with Josh Wolf
If this episode hits home, come along for the rest of the journey:
📲 Instagram & TikTok
@findingmewithjoshwolf
▶️ YouTube
Watch on the Evio YouTube Channel — or follow:
@findingmewithjoshwolf
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLRurcgmThU8M1ggQKTvgxOb34m64geTpQ
Finding Me with Josh Wolf
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Finding Me with Josh Wolf — Episode 2
“Selfish, Nice, and Actually Being Kind”
In this episode, Josh digs into a word most of us were taught to feel guilty about:
selfish.
But what if being “selfish” — at least sometimes — is actually the healthiest thing you can do?
Josh breaks down the difference between being nice and being kind.
Nice usually means smoothing things over, avoiding conflict, and people-pleasing until you disappear. Kindness, though — real kindness — has to include you. Boundaries. Honesty. Saying no without apologizing for existing.
He walks through three simple things he did for himself yesterday — choices that didn’t make anyone else’s life worse, but made his life clearer, calmer, and a little more grounded. Nothing dramatic. No “life hacks.” Just intentional acts of self-respect.
We also get an inside look at Josh’s expanded Las Vegas stand-up residency — why he said yes, how it changes his creative rhythm, and what it feels like to build something new at this stage in his career.
This is an episode about rewiring the way we talk to ourselves — and refusing to confuse self-abandonment with virtue.
Connect with Finding Me with Josh Wolf
If this episode hits home, come along for the rest of the journey:
📲 Instagram & TikTok
@findingmewithjoshwolf
▶️ YouTube
Watch on the Evio YouTube Channel — or follow:
@findingmewithjoshwolf
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLRurcgmThU8M1ggQKTvgxOb34m64geTpQ
Finding Me with Josh Wolf
Follow, share, and tell us what resonated — we’re figuring this out together.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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