Sexism contributes to fewer, poorer orgasms! If you want bigger, better, more frequent orgasms, you need to let go of your sexist beliefs and take matters into your own hands first. In this episode of Sex With Dr. Jess, with Sexologist and Relationship, Expert Jessica O’Reilly addresses everyone - men and women alike - and challenges them to look at how sexism is taking a toll on their sexual relationship all in the name of the Big Ohhh!

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Episode 03: Sexism Has No Place in Sex

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Jessica O’Reilly

Hello. My name is Jessica O'Reilly, and I am a sex and relationship expert, and my focus is sexual compatibility, because sexual compatibility is essential to a lasting, happy relationship. I'm here to help you become sexually compatible because compatibility is something you cultivate. It's not something you find you've got to work for it, and it will be worth it once you're living happily ever after.

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Today I stumbled upon a kind of saddening poll. So, this poll suggests that most of us are settling in our relationships. We're not happy, but we're staying anyway. So according to the Daily Mail's report let’s…  let me run down this poll a little. So, 23% of people polled, only 23% believe that they found Mr. Or Mrs. right and that they'll remain their sole lifetime companion. So, the majority of us, the rest of us are dating. We're in relationships. And we're even in love with individuals that we admit are very definitely not the one. Hm… Interesting. And a third of these believe oh, this drives me bananas. A third of these believe that destiny will intervene, and they will meet their one true love at some point in the future. So, they're in relationships. We're in relationships. We're not happy. We don't think this person is the one. But somehow, we believe that fate is going to intervene and we're going to find our soulmate. So, I guess we're just using these people. And this is absurd.

Now, another poll of 1000 women found that nearly half of us who are in relationships have a backup plan. A plan B man. So, we're looking at hetero… hetero women with this poll. So according to Medical Daily, this Plan B man is likely to be one of our friends, someone that we've had around for several years. And more than 40% admitted that they got to know this Plan B man while they were with their partner. And another 40% basically said that he was actually on the scene before the relationship. So, we're just holding this guy kind of in the back closet. And now a quarter of these ladies admitted that they have very strong feelings for their plan B man. So, the feelings are just as strong as they have for their current partner. And 15% said they actually feel more for the Plan B man than they do for the significant other. And I think it's easy to feel things. I think we treat feelings like there's something authentic about them, so much so that we've got to do something about it. But feeling something for someone definitely doesn't mean you can be with them or be happy with them. Feelings are just feelings. Sometimes I think we pay too much credence to them.

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Now. Oh, I look at these polls and I think this has got to stop. You cannot have a happy,