In this episode of Sex With Dr. Jess, Sexologist and Relationship Expert Dr. Jessica O'Reilly speaks about sexual compatibility and its importance to developing a healthy, happy relationship both in and out of the bedroom. She talks candidly about her exes and shares tips on improving your relationship and analyzing your compatibility.

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Episode 01: Sexual Compatibility: How to Fulfill Each Other's Needs

0:00:00 – 0:00:25

Jessica O’Reilly

Hello. My name is Jessica O'Reilly. I am a sex and relationship expert, and my focus is sexual compatibility because, without it, your relationship is doomed. I’m here to help you become sexually compatible because compatibility is something you cultivate. It's not something you necessarily find you've got to work for it.

0:00:25 - 0:03:42

Now, today I want to talk about something that's really bothering me - and that is Brangelina. They are in the news again from CNN to BBC. Everyone's covering the story - and everyone seems outraged at the speculation that Brad Pitt has cheated once again. And we are hurling stones from every glass house on the planet. And I'm here to say stop it. Cut it out. Stop shaming Brad, and stop shaming Angelina with the suggestion that its karma. Since their relationship started with an affair, to begin with, you know… When you judge Brad and Angelina; when you make all your commentary; you're not judging them. You're not defending Jen. Your attacks are really an indication that you are insecure in your own relationship. You are judging yourself or your partner. You are definitely afraid that your partner will cheat on you, or maybe - you're definitely afraid; - that you'll cheat on your partner. Either way, you are afraid. And it's your fear. It's your fear that's fueling this, I guess, so-called righteousness, and it's because your relationship is vulnerable. Now, I want to preface this by saying that I don't know if Brad cheated on Angelina. I don't really care. Honestly. It's not my relationship. It's not a marriage of anyone close to me, and they're not my clients. So, you know, if they were, I guess I'd be on a yacht somewhere in the set of France right now. But… I I have to admit, I don't read TMZ, or press Hilton or People, or; any of the publications that tend to write about celebrity relationships. So I haven't… I haven’t read all the evidence in the court of public opinion. I don't even have an opinion; about whether or not he cheated. But I do want to emphasize that we don't know for sure. I am more concerned, more interested in our reaction to the accusations, to the rumors than I am in substantiating or defying those rumors themselves. So despite the fact that we don't know for sure, as far as I know, I don't even think we know for certain; that Brad cheated on Jen with Angelina way back. I don't know that that's a fact anyhow, we’re all… despite the fact that we just don't know, we're all eager to judge. We're eager to be the judge, the jury, the executioner. From a distance, you know I'm seeing all these comments online when I read Was, and I've seen this in many permutations says, "Good, it's karma. Angelina did it first, and now it's her time to suffer." I can't even get through that without laughing. Seriously? You want someone to suffer because they did somethi...