She Said What?

Vibrators? Pleasure rings?? Suction??!? Dual stimulation???? Amazing orgasms???!!? 

This weeks episode is a full on HOW TO for all things sex toys! Whether you've never had an orgasm or you're looking to expand your collection, this episode is for you. Let's get spicy!

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RECCS

VIBRATORS

Zee by Dame (bullet)

Majesty 2 by VUSH (wand)

Crave Vesper (necklace vibrator)

Pom by Dame (palm vibrator)

SUCTION

Aer by Dame (oval opening)

We Vibe Melt (oval opening & my #1 fave)

Empress 2 by VUSH (circle opening)

Sila by Lelo (wider contact point)

Pipedream Fantasy for Her (vibrating pump + tongue attachment)

Fin Finger Vibrator by Dame

OTHER

Womanizer by Lovehoney (suction + penetration)

Pure Wand by NJOY (curve edge dildo)

Shimmy by Unbound Babes (vibrating butt plug)

Hugo Male by Lelo (prostate massager)

In this episode, I share about the lessons I've learned over the last 5 years that have given me better relationships, a stronger connection to my authentic self and have even helped me receive the things that I want in my life (friendships, job, lifestyle, etc.). You're going to hear a bunch of fun stories and walk away feeling encouraged. This is the advice I wish I had when I was younger!

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Resources:

Binaural Beats

Teach People How to Treat You Podcast

If your sex education in school was as bad as mine, this episode is for you. In this episode, we talk all things consent, virginity, orgasms and blue balls??? We also get to hear some tips from the SSW listener community! Educated sex is fun, pleasurable and shame-free, so let’s get up to speed.

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Resources:

The Courage to Be Disliked - Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga (Book)

Come As You Are - Emly Nagoski

VUSH - Lube & Toys & Other Fun Things

MAX BLACK (AUS, stores or online)

THIS IS THE CONFIDENCE BOOST YOU NEED. In this episode, through a mix of encouragement and tough love, you'll learn how to increase your self esteem, have a better relationship with your body and how to put your authentic self out there! Let this episode be your turning point.

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The Courage to Be Disliked - Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga (Book)

Imogen Ivy (Insta)

Riley Hemson (Insta)

May Ridts (Insta)

Jamie Zella (Insta)

This episode is for the following people:

• someone who wants to unlearn toxic beliefs & mindsets they’ve been taught (by family, the church, or even just general societal norms that are harmful)

• someone who wants to re-establish their overall mindset on themselves and the world; establish their true values

• someone who feels lost after leaving the church (wants to fill the gaps)

• advice for those who have different beliefs to their friends & family + how to manage these relationships

Disclaimer: This episode is not here to encourage you that this is the path YOU should take but to educate on deconstructing and how to even begin this process. I hope that the conclusions you may come to after listening to this episode speaks to YOU and gives you the framework to explore YOUR truth. I do not wish to offend anyone and know that this is just my personal journey, as I hope to encourage and help others in this process.

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Resources/Creators to Follow

Values Quiz

The Courage to Be Disliked - Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga (Book)

God is Grey - Youtube

God is Grey - Instagram

The Naked Pastor - Website

The Naked Pastor - Instagram

Do you have questions about bisexuality? Maybe you're bisexual or thinking you might be. Maybe you're in a relationship with somebody who identifies as bi and you simply want to educate yourself. In this episode, we discuss the reality of being bisexual: why it's something to be proud of, coming out, common mental health struggles, intersectionality, threesomes and more!

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Bi by Julia Shaw

Greedy by Jen Winston

Joining us is Sex and Relationship Coach, Alyssa Ljub, answering the super juicy anonymous questions sent in by you guys! In this episode, we touch on: exploring your sexual self & sexuality without shame exploring relationships with women for the first time (as a woman) open relationships/non-monogamy religious beliefs and sex ethical porn  how to stop having pain during sex enthusiastic consent & communicating your wants/needs in the bedroom 

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Have you felt like you're never the one to initiate? Do you want to have sex more, but you don't want to wait around to be asked? Has your partner asked you to initiate more but you don't know how? If you said yes to ANY of these questions: this episode is for you!

We all want our partners to feel wanted, but being the one to initiate sex can be challenging if you're not used to doing it. You might think it needs to be a grand gesture, but it doesn't! In this episode, I explain the different types of desire and how to apply it to your relationship (understanding this changed my sex life)! Plus, I give you 10 different ways to initiate sex, whether you're confident in this area or not. It's time to try something new and prioritize your pleasure!

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Want to know all my secrets? Not related to me? Great! Because in this episode, you'll get to know me a little better (or a lot better) and hear my advice on the messages you guys sent in! Enjoy hearing me overshare for an hour. Buckle up.

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Resources:

Fight The New Drug

Greedy by Jen Winston

God is Grey

Naked Pastor

Kosas - Deodorant

Aveda Hair

Dermalogica

Max Black Sex Shop

Have you ever tried to do it all at once? Have you ever been overwhelmed by the layers of everything you're trying to accomplish? This episode is about acknowledging the current season you're living in so that you can get the most out of your every day life. In this episode, you will get a step-by-step journalling practice that will help change the way you manage your goals and passions. 

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