Horsemanship is not about the horse—it is about the rider. Building the one-on-one relationship between you and your horse takes time and patience. It requires consistent evaluation of our own understanding and making small adjustments in the way we present ideas to our horses. 

You must use a smooth, slow, methodical process to transfer your understanding of horsemanship principles to your horse. Simple exercises facilitate a smooth, easy communication process. Pick out one or two maneuvers to focus on and build confidence in. Once you feel confident, you give your horse the opportunity to feel confident.

On the days when you are feeling overwhelmed, remind yourself to take it one step at a time and be fully aware of the unique communication style you have with each horse. One of the most difficult things about horsemanship is that no two horses are exactly alike. But, this is the exact thing that makes the horsemanship journey so rewarding. As long as you commit to never stop learning, you will never stop improving.