Sun salutations, Tantra, the inner goddess... and kink. Sound like a strange mix? Not for Alice and Pau, two yoga coaches and instructors bringing kinky yoga to women and couples looking to do some self-discovery. They tell Anna and Gregor why yoga and BDSM are a heady mix that opens up the sensual and sexual self.

Timestamps:

0000:00 - Intro
00:04:40 - Discovery of Kinky Yoga
00:07:29 - Rise Women Rise Collective and Retreats
00:08:46 - Concept of Holy Whore Retreat
00:11:30 - Explaining Tantra
00:14:53 - Hosts' Background in Kink
00:18:03 - Creating Safe Spaces in Kinky Workshops
00:19:17 - Consent and Boundaries in Workshops
00:20:01 - Introducing Toys in Kinky Yoga
00:23:01 - Demystifying Feminine Sexuality
00:25:29 - Empowerment and Performance in Sexuality
00:26:12 - Kinky Yoga Experience for Newcomers
00:27:48 - Partner Work in Kinky Yoga
00:29:00 - Feedback from Workshop Participants
00:32:06 - Aftercare and Upcoming Workshops
00:33:49 - Inviting Experts to Kinky Workshops
00:34:07 - Hosts' Interest in Attending a Workshop
00:35:00 - Accessibility of Kinky Yoga for Beginners
00:37:42 - Where to Find Kinky Yoga and Contact Info
00:39:32 - Barcelona's Sex-Positive Scene
00:40:03 - Mainstreaming BDSM and Sensual Kink
00:41:16 - Importance of Communication in Sex
00:42:10 - Closing Remarks and Podcast Promotion

Attend their next kinky yoga retreat in Barcelona on 21st January by signing up here. Also, check out their Wholly Whore retreats and Rise Women Rise collective and retreats. 

For more info about the founders, visit Alice's website and Pau's website. 

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Dominatrix and kinky influencer Eva Oh is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about her fascinating journey to sex work. She went from working in strategic consulting to becoming a highly successful dominatrix, now earning up to $10,000 a day with an online following in the hundreds of thousands. Eva shares the psychological aspects of her work – particularly her interest in power dynamics and emotional masochism – and misconceptions surrounding sex work and the BDSM community.

Timestamps:

00:06:12 - Learning the Ropes of Domination
00:07:59 - First Session Experience
00:09:08 - Emotional Connection in Domination
00:10:23 - The Financial Aspects of Being a Dominatrix
00:12:05 - Rates and Earnings as a Dominatrix
00:14:32 - Transitioning from Dungeon to Online Presence
00:16:32 - Personal Life and Boundaries
00:18:25 - Misconceptions About Sex Work and Domination
00:20:03 - Communication and Societal Expectations
00:21:07 - Prejudices and Learning New Kinks
00:23:30 - Understanding Age Play
00:24:13 - Public Perception and Acceptance of Kink
00:25:09 - Family Reactions to Sex Work
00:27:54 - Mainstream Interest in Fetish and BDSM
00:29:30 - Career Limitations After Sex Work
00:30:57 - Promoting Eva O's Podcast and Work
00:32:24 - Post-Interview Reflections
00:34:23 - Podcast Outro and Credits

Visit Eva's official website here. You can also follow her on Instagram and Twitter and listen to her podcast #teakink wherever you get your podcasts. 

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BDSM often gets a bad rap in pop culture, notably exacerbated by the problematic portrayal in 'Fifty Shades of Grey'. Determined to shift the narrative, Anna and Gregor sit down with kinky documentary director Todd Max Carey to talk about his latest project, 'Touch Kink,' a film that explores real-world BDSM and fetishism. Carey tells the story of how he got into BDSM and why it was so important for him to bring the stories of other kinky people to the big screen. Tune in as they navigate through Carey's personal journey, the importance of authentic representation, and the impact of his work in normalizing kink within the community.

Timestamps: 
00:01:14 Istanbul and LGBTQ+ experiences.
00:03:40 Kink in conservative countries.
00:09:07 Discovering personal identity.
00:11:38 Touch Kink documentary and characters.
00:15:27 Stigmatization of kink.
00:20:10 Kinky fashion throughout history.
00:20:41 Fetish and desires.
00:24:21 Building trust in the community.
00:27:35 Male vs. female Dom ratios.
00:33:08 Normalizing kink in mainstream media.
00:34:53 BDSM training school on fetish.com.

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It's all about leather in this episode of Spank U, Next... and quite frankly, it's long overdue. The leather fetish community is perhaps the most well-known aesthetic of the queer kinky community – but where is at today? Once thriving leather bars in New York, San Francisco and beyond have closed their doors as dating apps fill the supply and demand of queer and kinky sex. Artist Steven Harwick, a Brooklyn-based artist, has been photographing modern leather kink culture and how the subculture has evolved in his zine Bound Leather and on his Instagram page. He is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about his work, as well as his personal experiences as a member of the queer leather community.

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It's the spooky season – the demons are among us. So Anna and Gregor dive into the realm of vampire fetishism and blood play in this special Halloween episode. They talk Buffy the Vampire Slayer and gothic influences, how vampire fetishists play with their prey, and their recent trip to New Orleans, a city with a vibrant vampire community.

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Listen to an old fan favourite about the world of full-time BDSM with fellow podcasters and IRL couple Kayla Lords and John Brownstone (JB). The husband and wife duo met on the internet before sparking up a 24/7 Daddy Dom/sub dynamic in their shared home in Florida. Hosts Anna & Gregor get the lowdown on what it takes to make a kinky partnership work all day – every day. From the domestic to the downright dirty, Kayla (affectionately dubbed the ‘coffee sub’) and JB lift the lid on round-the-clock BDSM.

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Spank U, Next is back after a summer hiatus and you're in for a treat. World-renowned sex therapist and kink specialist Dr. Stefani Goerlich is in the studio to talk about BDSM and psychology. Early into her work, Stefani was struck by the kink-shaming she saw among other sex therapists and decided to do things differently. She takes an empathetic and non-stigmatising approach to help kinky people (and their partners) enjoy good sexual health and happiness. In this episode, Stefani tells Anna and Gregor about how BDSM is pathologised in mainstream therapy, ways to practice good communication with a vanilla partner, and the perks and pitfalls of polyamory.

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All anyone is talking about is AI. How it’s coming for our jobs, our minds, and our sex lives. But does ChatGPT know a thing or two about BDSM? It appears so. New AI tools tend to swerve sexual and adult content – including anything about kinks – but Anna & Gregor hacked ChatGPT to become a curious kinkster. They were surprised about its sophistication – as you will be, too.

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In this episode of BDSM Basics, Anna and Gregor explore the world of foot fetishes and how the allure of feet may be tied to their taboo nature, often associated with dirt and sweat. Listen as they make biblical references to foot worship and discuss the symbolism of submission and adoration tied up with these fetishes. If 1 in 3 people have a fetish, and foot fetishes are the most common, that's a lot of people into feet. 

Timestamps:

• Intro [00:00:00] 
• Why sexualizing feet feels taboo [00:03:17] 
• Foot fetishes as the gateway drug [00:05:58] 
• How to communicate your foot fetish [00:12:30]
• BDSM and feet [00:16:15] 

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Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where sex goes from hot to hardly ever? It's a tale as old as the orgasm gap, but there's actually a lot you can do about it. The UK’s leading psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about desire, sex and the therapist's couch. They dive into topics like why sex dwindles in long-term relationships, how mums can get their groove back after maternity, prioritising pleasure over penetration, and exploring BDSM with the help of a therapist.

Timestamps:

00:05:00 Why sex therapy is crucial and ever-evolving
00:07:08 How psychosexual therapy is nuanced and individual
00:14:01 The importance of communication to enjoy a better sex life
00:15:12 Prioritise physical intimacy and pleasure even if you don't feel like it
00:20:00 On how to reconnect sexually after childbirth
00:27:43 Sexual satisfaction is subjective and individual
00:34:25 There is no objective measure of good sex
00:39:31 Why kink-aware therapists are so vital

Check out Kate's website here. You can also listen to her podcast The Sexual Wellness Sessions on Apple and Spotify.  And follow her on Instagram.

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