I find it helpful to be clear on how I measure success. I hope my example inspires you to be clear and focused on what "success" means to you.

When we die to self, we no longer experience ourself as a separate and individual being. We experience evelasting peace. One of the reasons the peace is everlasting is there is no time. When we die to thinking of ourself as being separate, we disengage from the mind. It's the mind that creates time and the differenciated world.

How does this help us get through the day? It gives us perspective to see things more clearly and thereby make better choices. It also give us a perspective to retreat to where suffering does not exist because the mind is disengaged. After a "time out" we can re engage with the world with renewed energy and clarity.

This undifferentiated state is also described as "being present", "being in the flow", "being in the zone". In every case the mind has been disengaged. Ask yourself or anyone else if. they were thinking when they were in flow. It's spontaneous expression of BEING. There is no "self consciousness" because there is no individual self. The individual self is a construct of the mind. When the mind is not engaged (conscious and subconscious mind both) there is no creation.

When we're in the state of being, we are already all that could ever exist. There is no differentiation. The idea of being separate is gone along with every other idea.

Of course it is a challenge to describe what is beyond words. We can point in that direction though.

If you think you'd benefit from engaging with me in the differentiated world to gain greater clarity and acceptance in the world of the mind, contact me at [email protected] and we'll discuss what benefit we can create in this world.

My books, including "Being ONE" are available on Amazon. You can find links to them on my website, www.thoughtcoachingbyscott.com

If you'd like to share a win/win experience from your life as a podcast, let me know and we'll do that'. Part of what I want to do in the differentiated world is promote win/win as a way to help us experience being ONE.

Much of our life is spent working to experience more of being ONE while thinking of ourself as being separate. We value close relationships. We want to spend time with people who "get" us. We gravitate to people who are "like" us. All of this is an attempt to experience more of being ONE.

In fact we're happiest when we're spontaneous and not self conscious. That is when we're experiencing being ONE. When we're in the flow, in the present moment, we are experiencing being ONE. There are more ways to expeience being ONE. One of them is to recognize that when we heal ourself, we heal everyone else. That's something I'm working on being aware of.

Letting go of thinking of myself as separate and replacing that with experiencing myself as ONE with all that exists is a process. In some ways I think of it as using my mind to go beyond my mind. When I'm ONE I'm not thinking in the familiar sense. I'm spontaneous and their is no self consciousness (thinking of myself as separate). I offer thought coaching to help use our mind to go beyond our mind. If you'd like to explore if this is something that would be good for you, contact me at [email protected] and we'll figure it out.

My books are avaialble on Amazon. You can find links to them on my website, www.thoughtcoachingbyscott.com

If you'd like to share a win/win experience from your life in a podcast, contact me at [email protected] and we'll schedule a time to record and share a podcast of your inspiring example.

The habit of seeing others as being separate from me is deeply ingrained. I know that we are all ONE, and am working on finding ways to relate to that more.

One insight I had in recording this podcast is that when I heal myself, I heal the world. That makes sense to me when I realize that when I'm expressing joy and am in the flow, I'm lifting up myself and others. When I observe others being immersed in joy, I feel that joy.

The more I aware of being present, the more energy and clarity I have to increasingly relate to being ONE. My understanding and acceptance of being ONE continues to grow as I increasingly focus on that.

One way to experience more of being ONE is to focus on win/win solutions. If you have a win/win solution you've been part of and want to be an inspiring example for others, contact me at [email protected] to schedule a podcast sharing your experience.

I offer thought coaching. To find more about that, contac me at [email protected]

My books are avaialble on Amazon. You can find links to them on my website, www.thoughtcoachingbyscott.com

I believe how we view close relationships is a vey clear reflection of ourself.

I see the people I'm close to as life long learners. I see their belief in themselves.

Anything that helps me more fully and honestly accept myself is beneficial.

I offer thought coaching to assist in using our mind to create what we consciously direct it to create. If that's of interest to you, contact me at [email protected]

If you have a win/win experience you'd be willing to share, contact me and we'll devote a podcast to sharing your inspiring example.

My books are avaialble on Amazon. You can find links to the books on my website, www.thoghtcoachingbyscott.com

Kris Land is an accomplished entrepreneur and author. He's created more than 10 high tech companies and written many books. His latest book, "The Infinity Within" is an inspirational fictional story that validates many of the "unusual" occurrences most of us have experienced. "The Infinity Within" is being sold through out the world.

We've created everything in our life, including our family. Like everything else in our life, our family is part of us. Like all parts of us, we want our family to thrive at the highest level possible. Fortunately, I've discovered how to do that. When we grow in our acceptance of the joy we are, we see that joy reflected in the part of us that is our family.

Watch what happens when we go into a room bursting with joy. Everyone experiences more joy. That's because they're part of us, we're all ONE. When we experience this in action, it's both exciting and motivating to do this more.

Please contact me with a win/win experience you would like to share so your example can further uplift you and inspire others. Contact me at [email protected] to set it up.

I also offer coaching to become more conscious of how we create so we can more effectively choose the world we create for ourselves. Again, contact me at [email protected] to find out if this is for you.

My books are available on Amazon. You can find links to them on my website, www.thoughtcoachingbyscott.com

We are always creating perfectly all the time. To gain greater conscious mastery over this process we can study more of the details of how we've created our current world. Once we understand that, we can choose the world we want to create.

The creative process is that first we create what we want in our mind. We know we've created what we want in our mind when we can communicate it. For example, in my mind I have $100 Million after tax dollars in my bank account. I'm using that money to promote win/win thinking by buying brodcast time on TV having myself and others share how we've implemented win/win thinking. That example is inspiring others to create win/win solutions in their mind and allow their mind to make those thoughts physically apparent. I've already created all of this in my mind. I couldn't be sharing it with you if I hadn't.

We create our world every instant. The more attention we pay to how we do that, the greater is our capacity to choose what we create.

I offer thought coaching. If you'd like to investigate that, contact me at [email protected]

My books are avaialble on Amazon. You can find links to them on my website, www.thoughtcoachingbyscott.com

We can be better at using our mind to create the world we want when we understand that our mind is a small part of who we are. We are ALL THAT EXISTS. I like to call in Being All. In that state there is no diferentiation because everything is me. Below that state there is will. Will creates and directs the mnd. The mind creates time and differentiation.

Acceptance is healing. When I accept the existense of a negative thouht, I give myself the gift of choice. I can choose to believe the negative thought and allow it to stop me. I can investigage the negative thought and determine if it is true, which in almost all cases it isn't. I can acknowledge the positive thought and choose to do all I can to act on that positive thought, inspite of the negative thought.

Every time we acknowledge the existence of the negative thought and choose not to act on it, we claim more of our infinite power.

Here's an example because example is the most powerful form of leadership.

My energy and enthusiasm go off the charts when I think about advancing win/win thinking in the world. Along with that come thoughts including, who do you think you are, you can't do that; you don't have the resources to do that; you don't have the communication skills to do that; what makes you think you can do that when so many before you have failed; even if you had the power to do that, you'd probably misuse that power; and so on.

Now accepting the thoughts in my mind, it's up to me to decide which to act on. I choosed to advance win/win thinking in the world to the point where it is the dominant thinking in the world. I have the drive, conviction, determation and strength to pick myself up and try again and again until I create that world. I've created what I've been committed to despite negative thoughts to the contrary over and over. I have the energy to do it again.

Find what you're totally and completely committed to in your life and go after it with all you've got. That's how to experience being vitally alive. The gift of being vitally alive is the greatest gift you could ever give yourself and the world.

I offer thought coaching where you are supported in achieving your most treasured goals. You don't pay until your goal is achieved. To find out if we're a fit, contact me at [email protected]

My books are available on Amazon. You can find links to the books on my website, www.thoughcoachingbyscott.com