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Jeremy King, co-founder and CEO of Ocean Orchestra and former CEO of Attest, shares his journey as a founder, ocean advocate, and father of two daughters.

In this episode, Jeremy opens up about building systems for both his family and his startups, why ocean conservation is personal to him, and how parenting has informed his leadership style. We discussed:

• Blending startup leadership with family life: Jeremy reveals how he and his wife, both busy professionals, use calendar “parenting time” to protect family routines. He explains why blocking time for his daughters on the calendar is non-negotiable.
• Parenting by design, not default: From food to sleep schedules, Jeremy shares how he applies science and structure to family life. He talks about the influence of the book Save Our Sleep and the “no choices on food” philosophy that’s helped his kids develop adventurous tastes.
• Impact at home and beyond: Jeremy discusses his role as chair and board member at Reach Two, a UK nonprofit transforming primary schools. He reflects on how improving outcomes for kids at scale has changed his perspective on equity, systems, and the basics that matter at home and in education.
• Adventures, travel, and core memories: The Kings’ family travels stretch from London to Melbourne, and Jeremy shares practical advice for surviving epic flights with little kids. He also highlights the moments that matter most like standing up for your child in the big moments, and creating core memories that build trust and resilience.
• Technology, ocean advocacy, and looking ahead: As a founder working at the intersection of tech and conservation, Jeremy discusses how he wants to introduce his daughters to technology, why he’s bullish on AI for ocean impact, and how parenting is shaping his approach to building solutions for the planet.

Where to find Jeremy King

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremykingjk/ 
• Website: https://www.askattest.com/ 
• Ocean Orchestra: https://www.oceanorchestra.ai 

Where to find Adam Fishman

• FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ 
• Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ 

In this episode, we cover:

(00:00) Introducing Jeremy King

(01:33) From business to marine life

(03:24) Nature's lessons for business

(06:28) Parenting strategies for busy professionals

(09:35) Improving UK education

(16:04) Long flights tips for traveling with kids

(19:53) Unique accents and vocabulary

(22:51) Parenting principles: no food choices

(24:49) Favorite foods and cultural influences

(26:11) Parenting principles: standing up for your kids

(27:05) Birthday party drama

(29:56) Technology and kids

(34:51) AI in parenting

(37:05) Playground adventures

(39:28) Sea otter presentation

(42:34) Lightning Round: Groclocks and Magic Misties Magical Crystal Ball

Resources from this episode:

Groclock: https://www.tommeetippee.com/en-gb/product/groclock-sleep-trainer-clock

Dog Man: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10954718/

The Goonies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/

Flight of the Navigator: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0091059/

Magic Mixies Magical Crystal Ball: https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Mixies-S2-Crystal-Ball/dp/B09Q4B7CZH?th=1

Anchorman: The Legend of Ron Burgundy: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0357413/ 

Attest: https://www.askattest.com/ 

Reach Two: https://www.reach2.org/ 

Ben William’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5ex9UczN5w 

Harvard: http://harvard.edu/ 

MIT: https://www.mit.edu/

Kindle: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNVCQZG1?ref_=MARS_NAVSTRIPE_desktop_kindle_kindle&th=1 

Finding Dory: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2277860/ 

Mckinsey: https://www.mckinsey.com/

Tizzie Hall, Save Our Sleep: https://www.saveoursleep.com/baby-whisperer/

Church of England: https://www.churchofengland.org/ 

Angler Fish: https://www.mbari.org/animal/deep-sea-anglerfish/

Henry VIII: https://www.royal.uk/henry-viii

Multi Academy Trust: https://alumnismat.org/multi-academy-trusts/

NFL: https://www.nfl.com/

Peppa Pig: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAOtE1V7Ots4DjM8JLlrYgg

Claude.ai

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In this episode of Startup Dad, Adam Fishman sits down with Jeff Selingo, a bestselling author, journalist and education expert, to discuss the complexities of college admissions and how parents can help their kids find their "Dream School." Jeff has spent over two decades researching higher education and is the author of Dream School: Finding the College That's Right for You, Who Gets in and Why: A Year Inside College Admissions, There Is Life After College: What Parents and Students Should Know About Navigating School to Prepare for the Jobs of Tomorrow, and College Unbound:  The Future of Higher Education and What it Means for Students.  As a dad of two nearly college-bound kids, Jeff offers a unique perspective on navigating the college decision-making process from the lens of a parent and expert. We discussed:

• Breaking down the college admissions process: Why it’s important to look beyond the Ivy League schools and focus on the best fit for your child.
• The concept of "Dream Schools": What makes a school the right fit and how to identify it.
• Parents' influence on the process: How societal pressures and the desire for prestige can shape college decisions.
• Finding value in education: The importance of ROI, Merit Aid, and balancing prestige with affordability.
• Tools for parents: Resources like the College Scorecard and how to use them to make informed decisions.

Where to find Jeff Selingo

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffselingo/ 
• X: https://x.com/jselingo
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jselingo
• Website: https://jeffselingo.com/ 

Where to find Adam Fishman

• FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ 
• X: https://x.com/fishmanaf
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ 

In this episode, we cover:

(00:00) Introducing Jeff Selingo

(02:22) Inspiration behind Dream School

(06:45) The college application boom

(08:59) The role of colleges in the application frenzy

(14:20) The Moneyball approach to college selection

(18:49) Early decision and early action explained

(23:17) Parents' role in college admissions

(25:16) Research insights from 'Dream School'

(28:54) Skipping over rankings

(29:19) The value of college prestige

(30:04) Choosing a major for the right reasons

(31:51) Defining your dream school

(33:14) Underappreciated factors in college fit

(35:15) Addressing neurodiversity in college admissions

(37:16) Examples of lesser-known dream schools

(42:43) Future outlook on college education

(50:55) Lightning Round: Quick takes on college myths and advice for parents

Resources From This Episode:

Dream School: Finding the College That's Right for You: https://jeffselingo.com/books/dreamschool/
College Confidential: https://collegeconfidential.com/
Reddit Threads on College Admissions: https://www.reddit.com/r/ApplyingToCollege/
Next Newsletter by Jeff Selingo: https://jeffselingo.com/next-newsletter/
Future U Podcast: https://www.futureupodcast.com/
Dickinson College: https://www.dickinson.edu/
St. Olaf College: https://wp.stolaf.edu/
Denison University: https://denison.edu/
Furman University: https://www.furman.edu/
Michigan State University: https://msu.edu/
Barrett Honors College at Arizona State University: https://barretthonors.asu.edu/ 

SEC: https://www.sec.gov/ 

Arizona State University: https://www.asu.edu/ 

Gordian Knot: https://www.britannica.com/topic/Gordian-knot 

Who Gets In and Why: https://jeffselingo.com/books/who-gets-in-and-why/

Common App: https://www.commonapp.org/

Us News and World Report: https://www.usnews.com/

Bill Royall: https://news.vcu.edu/article/Bill_Royall_former_vice_rector_of_the_VCU_Board_of_Visitors_and

Moneyball Book: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1301.Moneyball

Moneyball Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1210166/

New York Yankees: https://www.mlb.com/yankees

College Scorecard: https://collegescorecard.ed.gov/

UCLA: https://www.ucla.edu/

Harvard: https://www.harvard.edu/ 

Yale: https://www.yale.edu/ 

Princeton: https://www.princeton.edu/ 

Stanford: https://www.stanford.edu/

Ithaca College: https://www.ithaca.edu/

Toy Story: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114709/

Karate Kid: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087538/ 

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Peter Kazanjy is the best-selling author of Founding Sales and co-founder of Atrium. He’s also a dad to a seven-year-old son, Michael, and husband to Tracy, a designer and entrepreneur.

In this episode, Pete reflects on building companies, building capabilities, and building a family. He talks about the grit and perseverance behind their seven-round IVF journey, delivery room chaos, and how he now teaches his son to embrace responsibility, reduce entropy, and take pride in doing things well. We talked about: 

• The road to parenthood: Pete shares his seven-round IVF journey, what he wishes he’d known sooner, and why he champions fertility education.
• Making time on purpose: Pete breaks down his calendar philosophy and how he builds in quality time, from Muni rides to museum visits.
• Raising with purpose: He talks about teaching values like grit and responsibility—whether it’s cleaning up after others or training for soccer.
• Tiger Light parenting: Pete models excellence without pressure, helping his son stick with hard things and celebrate progress.
• Why sound matters: He reflects on recording audio memories—and how a child’s voice can bring back moments photos can’t.

Where to find Peter Kazanjy

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kazanjy/ 
• X:  https://x.com/kazanjy   

Where to find Adam Fishman

• FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ 
• Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ 

In this episode, we cover:

(00:00) Introducing Pete Kazanjy
(02:13) Pete’s family and personal life
(06:20) The IVF journey to parenthood
(13:00) Michael’s birth story
(17:38) Balancing fatherhood and entrepreneurship
(23:53) Instilling values and duty in children
(27:02) The importance of grit and a growth mindset
(34:53) Capturing memories: the power of audio
(37:00) Balancing professional and personal life
(41:52) Technology and parenting
(55:05) Lightning round: silly stories and smart solutions

Show references:

Founding Sales (book by Pete!): https://www.foundingsales.com/

Atrium: https://www.atriumhq.com/
UCSF Center for Reproductive Health: https://fertility.ucsf.edu/
Modern Fertility: https://modernfertility.com/
23andMe: https://www.23andme.com/
Exploratorium: https://www.exploratorium.edu/
California Academy of Sciences: https://www.calacademy.org/
The Goal by Eliyahu M. Goldratt: https://www.amazon.com/Goal-Process-Ongoing-Improvement/dp/0884271951/
The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni: https://www.tablegroup.com/product/the-five-dysfunctions-of-a-team/
The Phoenix Project: https://itrevolution.com/product/the-phoenix-project/
Use of Knowledge in Society by Friedrich Hayek: https://fee.org/articles/the-use-of-knowledge-in-society/
Brain Flakes: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00N8GWZ4M
Lego: https://www.lego.com/
Blippi: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5PYHgAzJ1wLEidB58SK6Xw
Avatar: The Last Airbender: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0417299/
Ghostbusters: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087332/ 

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James Currier is a serial entrepreneur, founding partner at NFX, and a father of 4 boys. Known for his sharp insights into human behavior and startup dynamics, James brings that same clarity and intention to his parenting. He’s not just raising kids, he’s cultivating creators, adventurers, and independent thinkers.

In this episode, James shares how he designed his family life with the same care and foresight as he would a startup. From helping his son sail solo across the Atlantic at 16, to building secret passageways in their home, James offers a deeply personal and practical look into parenting with purpose. We discussed:

• Parenting with realism and intention: James explains why he doesn’t take too much credit as a parent, and how genetics, not just parenting techniques, shape a child’s destiny. Parenting inevitably includes heartbreak, so embrace the ride without trying to control every outcome.
• Fostering entrepreneurship and self-reliance: James never gave allowances. Instead, he paid his kids a dollar for every new business idea and had them pitch startup concepts at the dinner table. 
• Adventure and risk as tools for growth: Rather than shielding his kids from danger, James leaned into it. He saw risk as a necessary ingredient for confidence. His boys climbed 80-foot trees, explored Burning Man, and one even became the youngest person to sail solo across the Atlantic. The goal? Face the wild and learn who you are.
• The seven-to-one rule for feedback: James shares a powerful framework for encouraging positive behavior. For every one piece of correction, offer seven moments of genuine, specific positive reinforcement. It works for parenting and leadership.
• On technology, phones, and the limits of control: Despite thoughtful efforts, James admits that his kids were guinea pigs for the smartphone era. He reflects honestly on what worked, what didn’t, and why he believes delaying access to tech, and encouraging real-world adventure is more important than ever.

Where to find James Currier

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamescurrier/ 
• X: https://x.com/jamescurrier 

Where to find Adam Fishman

• FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ 
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ 

In this episode, we cover:

(00:00) Introducing James Currier, general partner at NFX and dad of four

(02:52) Fostering entrepreneurship in kids

(05:19) The neuro camp initiative

(06:47) Teaching kids about money and avoiding entitlement

(14:12) The importance of a strong marriage

(27:39) The importance of wilderness experiences

(28:15) Learning new skills with your kids

(29:50) Prioritizing individual time with each child

(31:44) Building projects and secret layers

(34:25) Focusing on who your kids hang out with

(36:05) Positive reinforcement over reprimanding

(38:59) Talking to kids like adults

(42:03) The role of a dog in the family

(43:20) Managing technology in the household

(47:12) Lightning Round: Parenting insights and embarrassing moments

Resources From This Episode:

300 (Graphic Novel): https://www.amazon.com/300-Frank-Miller/dp/1569714029 

300 (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0416449/ 

White Noise Machine: https://a.co/d/6YqDwMM

Baby Einstein: https://www.kids2.com/pages/baby-einstein
Madagascar: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0351283/
Star Wars Episode IV: A New Hope: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0351283/

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Mike Malloy is the founder of Malloy Industries, a firm that connects scaling entrepreneurs with vetted fractional executives. He's also a Georgetown professor, a husband, and the father of Max, the company's self-declared Chief Cuteness Officer. Mike’s life is an intersection of serious business systems and silly dad jokes, all woven together by an intentional approach to work-life integration.

In this episode, Mike shares how building a business around his family values helped him show up better both as a parent and as a professional. We discussed:

• Parenting in public: From potty training during a client call to his son interrupting meetings to demand frisbee time, Mike embraces the chaos of parenting while working from home, and sometimes those interruptions help close deals.
• The transition to camp and growing independence: Mike opens up about the emotional milestone of sending his son to camp for the first time after three years of full-time care. 
• Designing a business with family in mind: Mike started Malloy Industries not just to serve founders, but to reclaim his own time. After losing his mom and learning he was about to become a dad, he redesigned his business to run without relying solely on him, and has since built a network of 400+ fractional executives.
• Time-blocking and nightly maps: Mike walks us through his framework for managing energy and focus throughout the week, including why he blocks off Wednesday mornings for uninterrupted dad adventures.
• Dad jokes, magnet tiles, and parenting hacks: Whether he’s swapping jokes at the library or bringing a second monitor to Panera for a “crush-it day,” Mike brings levity and intentionality to every corner of life as a founder and a father.

Where to find Mike Malloy

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mwmalloy/ 
• X: https://x.com/mwmalloy
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mwmalloy/
• Website: https://malloyindustries.com/ 

Where to find Adam Fishman

• FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ 
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ 

In this episode, we cover:

(00:00) Introducing Mike Malloy

(02:35) Max the deal-closer and executive artist

(04:50) First day of camp and emotional milestones

(07:17) Starting Malloy Industries and the fractional future

(10:07) Grieving his mom and preparing for fatherhood

(14:28) The "who not how" mindset shift

(15:35) Be where your feet are and present parenting

(19:35) The great cheese stick negotiation

(23:28) Pro dad hacks for books and lullabies

(24:36) Time blocking and scheduling around energy

(29:16) Monthly “crush it” days and managing flow

(30:54) Nightly maps and intentional daily planning

(34:37) The wooden box and tech boundaries

(38:08) Chef Jacques and using AI to plan meals

(41:18) Modeling tech habits and setting rules

(43:56) Advice to his pre-dad self during nap traps

(46:23) Lightning round: parenting quirks and dad jokes

Resources From This Episode:

Daddy and Me: https://www.amazon.com/Daddy-Me-Tiya-Hall/dp/1680524526

Never Touch a Porcupine: https://www.amazon.com/Never-Touch-Porcupine-Believe-Ideas/dp/1788439856

A Crack in the Track (Thomas and Friends): https://www.amazon.com/Crack-Track-Thomas-Friends/dp/0375827552

Fox is Coming!: https://www.amazon.com/Fox-Coming-James-Patterson/dp/0316572837

Like a Boss Play Kit: https://shopping.mattel.com/en-gb/products/fisher-price-2-in-1-like-a-boss-activity-center-hbm26-en-gb

Lewis Library Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/lewisulibrary/
Zootopia: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2948356/
Mickey Mouse Clubhouse: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0784896/

Cars: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0317219/

Blank Check: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0109287/

Empire Records: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0112950/

Santa Clause: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0111070/ 

Cal Newport: https://calnewport.com/

Georgetown U: https://www.georgetown.edu/

Who Not How: The Formula to Achieve Bigger Goals Through Accelerating Teamwork

by Dan Sullivan, Benjamin Hardy: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/who-not-how-dan-sullivan/1136703973

The Daily Dad: 366 Meditations on Parenting, Love, and Raising Great Kids

by Ryan Holiday: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-daily-dad-ryan-holiday/1141941652

Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be

by Becky Kennedy: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/good-inside-becky-kennedy/1140501121

Nir Eyal’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GqogSRDhzeU

Notion: https://www.notion.com/

Door knob safety cover: https://www.amazon.com/Door-Knob-Covers-Child-Safety/dp/B071GWJX4D

Muppet Babies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0086764/

Super Wings: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3600266/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0_tt_8_nm_0_in_0_q_suoper%2520wings

Toy Story: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114709/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_1_tt_7_nm_0_in_0_q_toy%2520story

Goofy Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0113198/?ref_=fn_all_ttl_1

Mini Magnatiles: https://magnatiles.com/products/micromags-travel-set?srsltid=AfmBOopwJyPjVfhLblqNFq2f1QIUtupBKjvD0tqIrY8kydu8LlX00XYH

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Michael Leibovich is the Head of Growth at Adobe, but at home, he’s dad to a curious two-and-a-half-year-old and husband to a full-time working partner. With a previous career as a touring musician and a current career in creative tech leadership at companies like Vimeo and Abstract, Michael brings an emotionally grounded, inventive lens to fatherhood.

In this episode, Michael shares how parenting has reshaped his worldview from his leadership style at work to his daily routines at home. 

• Patience in parenting and work: Michael reflects on the contrast between startup urgency and toddler-paced mornings. Learning to slow down and “trust the process” has become a guiding principle both at home and professionally.
• Changing the channel: One of Michael’s favorite frameworks for toddler meltdowns is simple: change the channel. Whether it’s bath-time resistance or cereal drama, he shares how quick pivots can shift the energy and restore peace.
• Tech meets parenting: Michael talks about building a custom AI-powered meal-planning app called Picky Eater to handle his daughter’s shifting food preferences, and how it's just one example of tech meeting real-life parenting.
• Parenting without Google: Instead of doomscrolling for answers, Michael and his wife formed a text thread with parents they admire. It’s a real-time advisory board filled with insight, lived experience, and calm advice.
• Music, creativity, and messy art: A former touring musician, Michael is intentional about nurturing creativity at home. From drum time to digitizing toddler scribbles, he shares how he’s creating space for curiosity.

Where to find Mike Leibovich

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelleibovich/ 

Where to find Adam Fishman

• FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ 
• Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ 

In this episode, we cover:

(00:00) Introducing Michael Leibovich

(02:02) The patience of parenting a toddler

(03:41) Balancing work and family life

(05:13) Navigating toddler tantrums

(07:44) Caring for aging parents

(11:09) Nurturing creativity in children

(14:41) The torrent of preschool artwork

(16:38) Michael's musical journey

(19:47) Transition from music to tech

(20:38) Unique parenting advice approach

(28:43) Emergency c-section and complications

(31:55) First moments with daughter

(34:40) Advice for expecting parents

(42:23) Balancing parenting approaches

(46:03) Technology and parenting

(48:07) AI Solution for picky eaters

(51:26) Advice to younger self

(54:43) Lightning Round: Parenting products and hacks

Resources From This Episode:

Fidget Spinner Suction Cup: https://www.amazon.com/Suction-Spinner-Sensory-Popping-Auditory/dp/B0BVGZGN3Q
NoseFrida: https://frida.com/products/nosefrida 

The Goonies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/
Back to the Future: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088763/

Adobe: https://www.adobe.com/

Behance: https://www.behance.net/

AppFolio: https://www.appfolio.com/
Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/

Abstract: https://www.abstract.us/

Ben Erez Episode: youtube.com/watch?v=st2qxaybgw8

Severance: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11280740/

Adobe Fresco: https://www.adobe.com/products/fresco.html

Pure Volume: https://www.purevolume.com/

Napster: https://www.napster.com/us/

Limewire: https://limewire.com/

Cal Poly: https://www.calpoly.edu/

Myspace Records: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MySpace_Records

Hanson: https://hanson.net/home

Gin Blossoms: https://www.ginblossoms.net/

Jimmy Eat World: https://www.jimmyeatworld.com/

The Curious Case of Benjamin Button: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0421715/

The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-giving-tree-shel-silverstein/1100830900

Lovable: https://lovable.dev/

Bolt: https://bolt.new/

https://open.spotify.com/

Crocs: https://www.crocs.com/

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Lauren Dugan and Neil Vidyarthi are the husband-and-wife co-founders of Feel Good Games, creators of Little Magic Stories, an AI storytelling platform designed to spark creativity and independence in kids. They’re also parents of two boys (ages 3 and 8), longtime partners in both life and work, and startup veterans bringing a playful, grounded perspective to the founder-parent journey.

In this episode, Neil and Lauren talk about how parenting fuels their creativity, how they’ve evolved their marriage while running a company together, and why their son insists he’s the real CEO. We discussed:

• From bedtime stories to startup idea: How their son’s early-morning storytelling sessions inspired the vision for Little Magic Stories, and why they included him as “co-creators” from day one.
• Building a company with your spouse: What Neil and Lauren have learned about navigating startup stress, creative tension, and parenting chaos as co-founders and partners and the systems they use to stay grounded.
• Parenting with freedom and play: Why they embrace a “gardener not engineer” model of parenting, how they balance screen time and independence, and the moments that made them rethink control and creativity.
• The case for structured chaos: From timeboxing and project boards to flexible rituals and tag-team parenting, Neil and Lauren share the habits that help them stay focused while juggling business, marriage, and raising two kids.
• Redefining success as parent-founders: Why they believe having children has made them more ambitious, not less, and how they’ve reshaped their values around creativity, joy, and freedom.

Where to find Lauren Dugan

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurendugan/ 
• X: https://x.com/lauren_dugan?lang=en
• https://www.instagram.com/laurencdugan/

Where to find Neil Vidyarthi

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neilv/
• X: https://x.com/neilvidyarthi
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neilv9999/

Where to find Adam Fishman

• FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ 
• Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ 

In this episode, we cover:
(00:00) Introducing Neil Vidyarthi and Lauren Dugan
(02:56) The dynamics of working with family
(05:29) Balancing work and family life
(13:52) Inspiration behind Feel Good Games
(18:30) Advice for founders and parents
(33:30) Parenting challenges and social media
(34:20) Ash's CEO video
(36:09) Parenting philosophies and boundaries
(39:20) Kids and technology
(43:12) Creative uses of AI in parenting
(44:50) Parenting mistakes and lessons
(47:59) Connecting with Feel Good Games
(49:43) Lightning round: routines, quirks, and family time

Show references:

Yoto: https://eu.yotoplay.com/
Wipes Warmer: https://urbanessentials.com.ph/products/prince-lionheart-ultimate-wipes-warmer-dispenser
Great Wolf Lodge: https://www.greatwolf.com/
Super Mario Brothers: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6718170/
My Neighbor Totoro: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0096283/
The Karate Kid: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087538/
Beetlejuice: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0094721/

Todoist: https://www.todoist.com/

Polygon: https://www.polygon.com/

Avail: https://www.avail.co/landlords/features

Feel Good Games: https://www.feelgoodgames.xyz/

Little Magic Stories: https://www.littlemagicstories.com/

Robert Wolfe’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9bsi-iOjodM

Pokemon: https://www.pokemon.com/us

Pomodoro: https://pomofocus.io/

Time Boxing: https://clockify.me/timeboxing

The Freedom App: https://freedom.to/

Jay Vidyarthi - Reclaim Your Mind: https://www.jayvidyarthi.com/

Game of Thrones: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0944947/

Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/

Reed Hastings: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reed_Hastings

Arachnaphobia: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0099052/

The Tao of Parenting The Ageless Wisdom of Taoism and the Art of Raising Children By Greta K. Nagel: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/331083/the-tao-of-parenting-by-greta-k-nagel/

Cry Babies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11067738/

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Aaron White, founder of six companies including Appy People, Profitwell, Boundless and Blissfully discusses the intersection of startup life and fatherhood. 

In this episode, he shares how the challenges of becoming a parent have reshaped his approach to leadership, the unexpected lessons he's learned, and his evolving perspective on success. We discussed:

• The unpredictable journey of parenthood: Aaron talks about the trauma of his son’s premature birth, the shock of an emergency C-section, and the mental toll of navigating the NICU. Through it all, Aaron reflects on how he and his wife adapted, growing through the challenges and celebrating their son’s healthy arrival.
• The realities of modern parenting: With no extended family nearby, Aaron describes the strain of modern, nuclear family dynamics. He discusses the unnatural pressure on parents to "do it all" and the importance of asking for help, especially in those exhausting first few months. His mantra: don’t feel guilty about getting help.
• Learning new strengths as a parent: Parenting has brought out a new side of Aaron that he didn’t expect. He shares how he’s surprised himself with his patience, endurance, and the emotional connection he has developed with his son. Parenting has tested him in ways far beyond his previous experiences with endurance sports.
• Just say yes: Whether it’s career, parenthood, or life, Aaron advocates saying yes to opportunities. From taking on new projects to engaging with his son, he believes saying yes to difficult things leads to growth.
• Your child becomes who you believe them to be: Aaron explains how a positive perspective and belief in his son’s potential have shaped their relationship and how he approaches fatherhood.

Where to find Aaron White

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronmwhite/ 
• X: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronmwhite/ 
• Website: www.appy.ai

Where to find Adam Fishman

• FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ 
• Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ 

In this episode, we cover:

(00:00) Introducing Aaron White

(01:50) Diving into API AI and building businesses with AI

(02:52) The future of AI and its impact

(05:43) Balancing startup life and parenthood

(16:41) Modern parenting and embracing help

(20:14) Surprising discoveries of fatherhood

(29:18) Reengaging with the world as a parent

(33:26) Empathy and Leadership as a Parent

(40:25) The importance of partnership in parenting

(44:23) Technology and parenting in the modern age

(47:02) Creative uses of AI for parenting

(48:40) Advice for future founders and dads
(51:02) Lightning round: wipe warmers and hatch nightlights

Show references:

Wipe warmers: https://www.amazon.com/Best-Sellers-Diaper-Wipe-Warmers/zgbs/baby-products/677976011

Hatch Nightlights: https://www.amazon.com/Hatch-Baby-Machine-Trainer-Soother/dp/B08QVG9759?th=1

Mushed Parnips: https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/239206/mashed-parsnips/

What Does The Fox Say?: https://youtu.be/jofNR_WkoCE?si=Glykjvv2W3wP0OaJ
The Goonies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/

The Ewok Adventure: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087225/

Kilimanjaro: https://education.nationalgeographic.org/resource/kilimanjaro/

Suno: Suno.com

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Olav Sindre Kriken is a four-time founder, husband, and father of three who’s currently leading Tana, an AI-powered productivity startup. Originally from a small town in Norway, Olav now lives in Palo Alto, and splits his time between scaling a company and staying deeply present for his family. He believes his family is the most important startup he’ll ever build.

In this episode, Olav reflects on what it means to raise resilient, independent kids in a tech-saturated world, how parenting frameworks shape his decisions as a founder, and why being a dad made him rethink everything about success and legacy. We discussed:

• From dad dates to startup deadlines: Why Olav sets aside sacred, tech-free time with each of his kids every week, and how that ritual strengthens their relationships, even during long stretches apart.
• Parenting with one voice: Olav shares how he and his wife approach disagreements as co-founders of their family, and why behind-the-scenes alignment helps create stability for their kids.
• Letting kids struggle: How growing up in Norway taught Olav that adversity is essential, and why he believes challenge, failure, and independence are some of the greatest gifts you can give your children.
• The power of modeling: From bedtime story world-building to watching their dad lead a company, Olav’s kids are already writing business plans and experimenting with entrepreneurship, all without being told to.
• Tech is not the enemy: Olav makes the case for embracing technology at home, from ChatGPT storytime to self-taught art via YouTube. He explains how AI can support creativity and learning when paired with values and conversation.

Where to find Olav Sindre Kriken

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kriken/ 
• X: https://x.com/OlavSindre
  
  

Where to find Adam Fishman

• FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ 
• Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ 

In this episode, we cover:
(00:00) Introducing Olav Sindre Kriken
(00:58) Kids come through You, not from you
(01:54) Parenting in Norway vs. the US
(08:36) Dad Dates are quality time with kids
(10:39) Balancing startup life and family time
(12:38) Unified parenting approach with one voice
(22:23) Parenting frameworks and philosophies
(29:38) Modeling entrepreneurship for kids
(32:00) Daughter's mask business
(32:46) Parenting through example
(33:36) Embracing technology for kids
(36:57) Creative uses of AI in parenting
(39:08) The story of the son and the window
(41:12) Say “Yes” More
(44:57) Lightning Round
(49:28) Funniest and Most Embarrassing Parenting Moments

Show references:

Rocking chair with vibration: https://www.amazon.com/Massage-Recliner-Vibration-Ergonomic-Overstuffed/dp/B0D41M8TRV?th=1
First Time Dad by Jason Petterson: https://www.amazon.com/First-Time-Dad-Understanding-Parenthood/dp/1088045677

Salish: https://www.youtube.com/@salishmatter

Cars: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0317219/

Star Wars: https://www.imdb.com/list/ls070150896/

Tana: https://tana.inc/

Magnus Hillestad: https://www.linkedin.com/in/magnushillestad/

Sanity: https://www.sanity.io/

The Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable, 20th Anniversary Edition by Patrick M. Lencioni: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-five-dysfunctions-of-a-team-patrick-m-lencioni/1100520484

The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-prophet-kahlil-gibran/1116648147

Home Depot: https://www.homedepot.com/

Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/

ChatGPT: Chatgpt.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/

YouTube Kids: https://www.youtubekids.com/

The Catcher in the Rye by J. D. Salinger: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-catcher-in-the-rye-j-d-salinger/1100192775

Liverpool FC: https://www.liverpoolfc.com/

Manchester United: https://www.manutd.com/

Frozen: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2294629/

Richard Branson: https://www.virgin.com/branson-family/richard-branson

Beyonce: https://beyonce.com/

Capybara: https://www.nationalgeographic.com/animals/mammals/facts/cabybara-facts

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Roger Einstoss is the founder of Braintly, a software development company specializing in helping U.S.-based companies build and scale their engineering teams in Latin America. He's also a husband, father of two young kids, and passionate about balancing work and family while maintaining emotional intelligence in his parenting.

In this episode, Roger shares his unique perspective on parenting in Argentina, how he approaches fatherhood as a team effort with his wife, and how his entrepreneurial journey allowed him the flexibility to be present for his family. We discussed:

• Parenting as a team: Roger and his wife approach parenting as a true partnership, where both share responsibilities equally. He discusses how their teamwork allows them to stay present in their children’s lives, even while both manage demanding careers.
• Parenting in Argentina vs. the U.S.: Roger compares parenting styles between Argentina and the U.S., noting key differences in how children leave home for university and how families prioritize close-knit bonds.
• The importance of emotional intelligence: Growing up without a focus on emotional intelligence, Roger reflects on how he learned to model it for his own children. He shares practical strategies for fostering emotional awareness and resilience in his kids.
• Work-life balance and quality time: With two young kids and a demanding job, Roger discusses how he maximizes quality time with his family, including how he manages travel and work commitments while staying emotionally connected.
• Entrepreneurship and family flexibility: Roger explains why he chose to build his own company to gain the freedom to be a present father, emphasizing the importance of flexibility in both work and family life.

Where to find Roger Einstoss

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rogereinstoss/ 
• X: https://x.com/reinstoss

Where to find Adam Fishman

• FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ 
• Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ 

In this episode, we cover:

(00:00) Introducing Roger Einstoss, founder of Brantley and dad of two

(02:00) Growing up in Argentina and starting coding at 15

(04:30) Family inspiration and advice from Roger’s uncle

(05:01) Balancing family and business life

(06:33) Parenting differences between Argentina and the U.S.

(08:00) The importance of living near extended family in Argentina

(09:00) Shared parenting responsibilities with Karina

(11:20) Both parents working from home: Balancing family and career

(16:21) Economic challenges in Argentina and the impact on families

(18:34) Starting Brantley and connecting Argentine talent with U.S.

(21:08) Roger’s approach to teaching emotional intelligence to kids

(23:48) Advice to his younger self: Relax, and embrace flexibility in parenting

(25:30) Defining quality time with kids and staying present

(28:30) Staying connected with family while traveling for work

(32:10) Struggles and rewards of balancing business travel and family life

(36:15) Parenting through the eyes of an entrepreneur

(38:40) The role of emotional intelligence in shaping family dynamics

(40:00) Roger’s perspective on being a present, involved dad

(44:30) Lightning round: Parenting must-haves and quirks

Resources From This Episode:

Skibidi Toilet: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt27814427/ 
Skibidi Toilet: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skibidi_Toilet

Diana and Roma / Kids Diana Show:https://www.youtube.com/c/KidsDianaShow
Inside Out: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2096673/

Braintly: https://www.braintly.com/

Lionel Messi: https://www.intermiamicf.com/players/lionel-messi/

The Simpsons: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0096697/

Mercado Libre: https://mercadolibre.com/

Lego: https://www.lego.com/en-us

WhatsApp: https://www.whatsapp.com/

ChatGPT: www.chatgpt.com

Bath kneeler: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09Y3YP5FT

Diana and Roma: https://www.youtube.com/@KidsRomaShow

Marvel Series: https://www.marvel.com/

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