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Letting “blending” become our sole life’s purpose doesn’t serve anyone, especially ourselves. Continuing to push down and push through our mixed feelings and stress and frustration and uncertainty is a sure recipe for burnout.

Stepparenting is part of who you are; it’s not everything you are. And you cannot put your own needs and dreams and self-care on hold indefinitely while you’re waiting for your family to blend.

So today’s pep talk is to remind you: if you need a break, take a break. It’s okay to take a step back. It’s okay to say "Know what? Not today!" and give yourself the day off.

Stepparenting is one of the many roles we play in any given day. But you are so much more than just a stepparent. Try not to forget that. xo

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