Swing Theory

In Episode 5 of Swing Theory, Tink and Tiffany hold a ladies-only conversation about their preferences for male and female play partners, what turns them on and off, and how they navigate the swinging lifestyle.

They discuss size and vibes, labels like bisexual and unicorn (and even the term "mermaid"), spontaneous vs. planned play, house parties versus clubs and hotel takeovers, and finish with a playful "This or That" segment.

Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany unpack the real challenges of non-monogamy after forming a throuple—frustration, jealousy, logistics, and how the swinger scene has shifted since COVID. They talk candidly about feeling sidelined, changing priorities, and the work of communicating boundaries and support.

By the end of the episode they outline a new plan: prioritizing couple play with enthusiastic cheerleading for solo partners, staying social at events, and keeping the conversation open as they navigate what a sustainable, satisfying lifestyle looks like for all three of them.

Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany recount their chaotic week at Paradise Lakes Resort — from tense relationship conversations to unexpected sexual firsts, heavy poolside partying, and meeting new friends. The trio navigates communication breakdowns, playroom experiments, and the ups and downs of non-monogamy.

Highlights include honest talk about dynamics and testing, wild pool and play deck moments, multiple physical firsts, and a renewed sense that they’re on the right track together. A candid, messy, and intimate episode about connection, community, and growing together.

In this episode the hosts unpack a cancelled Hedo trip after Hurricane Melissa, call out poor communication and refund problems with the event organizer, and explain how they scrambled for alternatives.

They recount booking Paradise Lakes as a last-minute replacement, describe the resort experience (fees, staff, play areas), and share personal stories from the week—including first-time play experiences, throuple dynamics, and candid reflections on the lifestyle community.

On this weeks episode the trio talks about a recent hotel take over experience and the struggles we faced. Asking the questions of what is happening in the lifestyle, and how we can keep these dud's from happening.

Welcome to Swing Theory! This is the first episode of our re-brand, where we will be focusing on the swinging lifestyle nearly 100% of the time. With A new co-host, our amazing girlfriend Tiffany. You can expect more in depth conversations, spicy stories and laughter.

On this week’s episode, we go back to the basics of swinging 101 for newbies. Pedro helps a long time friend navigate the lifestyle with tips on how to interact with others and how to get okay happening. Tiff brings her perspective from being a unicorn and what she can sense from a couple with how they interact with each other.

We talk about the key points to keeping your relationship healthy so that you can have a successful play experience in the LS.

We brought back a fun segment!

This time we each told a descriptive sexy encounter we had in the LS and all 3 stories are very hot!

On this week’s episode Tink has rejoined us to discuss our bucket list fantasies. Tiff’s fantasy is wild and crazy and full of possibilities yet could be hard to get all together. Pedro’s is getting the ultimate hot husband surprise, while Tink wants to cream-pied all over.

Tink asks the question many poly people struggle with and that is How was the one on one time? We discussed the missing of each other, difference in communication and how each one of us handled not being all together.

In our BDSM, Tiff and Pedro discuss her journey into becoming a submissive and what she will want to get out of submission and the growth submission can give her.

n this weeks episode we are missing our beloved Tink, but Tiff and Pedro discuss preferences in the swing lifestyle and how there is a double standard with women having preferences versus men having  preferences .

In our Poly segment Tiff talks equality in a throuple as the new addition to an existing relationship. Can equality be reached? Find out what she has to say and let us know on the Facebook page what your thoughts are.

And to wrap the show up Pedro talks to Tiff about her new desire to learn about the BDSM lifestyle and where she may want to take it. Will it just be a play scenario or will she dive deep into the world of submission?

We can’t believe it but we hit 100 episodes! It landed perfectly for us to talk about our first hotel takeover as a throuple with our gf and new co-host Tiffany! All 3 of us recapped on our overall experience at Delco Degenerates 1st hotel takeover. There was lots of fun, amazing people, tons of vendors and activities.

We were surprised to have met some other swingers who happened to be poly as well and how they navigated swinging with their relationship. Many amazing people reached out to us for some guidance or questions they had.

The Haus of Carmine put on a wonderful seminar on BDSM with their amazing tastings they offered for anyone interested in rope play, electric play, fire play and impact.