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Have you ever been playing with a new sexual partner and the condom slips off?  How was it communicated to you?  What was your reaction?  Can you come back from this?

Instead of brushing it off as no big deal, we are going to reveal my process and outline it in our blog so it may help you address a similar situation or any situation that involves consent and violations of consent.  We are proof that you can preserve the relationship and friendship if you so desire.

OUTLINE: 

What do you do when the condom slips off during play? 

• Brush it off? 
• Address it? 
• Ghost the person?

Who is at fault?

• User?
• Recipient?

How does it happen?

• Dark room
• Sex position

Our story: 

• Type of friendship
• Length of friendship
• The situation
• Lack of disclosure

How to have the conversation:

• Tell them what happened ahead of time
• Don't blindside them
• Express you aren't ready to talk about it
• Set a date
• Gives them time to process also 

Use the Consent Academy Process when Consent is Broken

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We discovered some surprising reactions to the "NO Kissing" Rule from Swingers. Since kissing can make or break a swinging encounter find out how the "NO Kissing" rule is a hot-button in the swinger lifestyle.

To shed light on the matter, we combed through a survey involving 386 individuals, and the results were nothing short of intriguing. We discovered a wide range of opinions, showcasing both the positive and negative aspects of kissing. 

So, if you'd like to understand more and have an inclusive attitude towards swingers who have this rule, we take you through the psychology, biology, cultural influences, and personal experiences surrounding kissing. 

Whether you're a passionate pucker-upper or someone who prefers to express affection through alternative means, join us on this hilarious and informative journey as we navigate the world of kissing with compassion, understanding, and a healthy dose of humor.

Warning: Listening to this podcast may cause an irresistible urge to lock lips with someone nearby….or NOT! Kiss responsibly!

1. "NO Kissing" Rule:
   • Reasons and perspectives.
   • Psychological factors, personal experiences, and misconceptions.
   • Balancing boundaries and intimacy.
2. The Impact of Kissing on Emotional Connection and Relationship Satisfaction:
   • Emotional bonding and attachment.
   • Oxytocin and neurochemical effects.
   • Correlation and communication.
3. Navigating Diverse Preferences and Negotiating Consent:
   • Personal Boundaries and Preferences
   • Negotiating Consent
4. Respecting Others' Choices:
5. Non-judgmental attitude and empathy.
6. Conclusion
   •  Embracing Diversity and Personal Freedom
   • No universal approach.
   • Respecting desires and choices.
   • Nurturing Healthy Connections:
   • Consent, communication, and respect.
   • Emotional satisfaction.

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In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, hosts Ed and Phoebe recap the past few days of their vacation. They discuss their excursions to the waterfall and the fun they had taking sexy photos near the banyan trees. They also talk about the pole dance night at the resort, where they participated in a competition and Ed ended up winning. They share details about the routines and costumes, including Phoebe's revealing outfit. The hosts also mention the body shot roulette and their time in the hot tub with other couples. They emphasize the intimate and friendly atmosphere of the vacation, where they've had the chance to connect with everyone. The episode ends with their relaxing free day and a dinner outing with friends in town.

Highlights:

• Excursion to the waterfall and sexy photos near the banyan trees
• Pole dance night competition and Ed winning
• Phoebe's revealing outfit and fun routines
• Body shot roulette and time in the hot tub with other couples
• Intimate and friendly atmosphere of the vacation
• Relaxing free day and dinner outing with friends

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Welcome to day four of Ed and Phoebe's trip to Costa Rica. They are currently at Hotel Jaco in Jako, sitting outside the bar on a picnic table with a view of the ocean. They're enjoying their vacation and feeling relaxed. They talk about the previous day, which was a free day for the guests to do their own excursions. Many people went on a chocolate tour, where they learned about the process of making chocolate from cacao beans. Ed and Phoebe found it more interesting than expected. After the tour, they enjoyed some pool time, and things got frisky with great conversations and bonding among the guests. They mention the strip blackjack night and a flogging demonstration by a couple who brought their toys and implements. Some people participated while others relaxed in the pool. The day ended with poolside action and connections made between couples.

Highlights:

• Ed and Phoebe are enjoying their vacation in Costa Rica at Hotel Jaco.
• Guests had a free day and went on a chocolate tour, which was more interesting than expected.
• Pool time was filled with great conversations and bonding among the guests.
• There was a strip blackjack night and a flogging demonstration by a couple with a fully equipped playroom.
• The day ended with poolside action and connections made between couples.
• Guests have the freedom to choose their level of participation during the trip.

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In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, hosts Ed and Phoebe give a recap of their activities on Day 2 of their Costa Rica trip. They talk about their pool time, including pool games like a unique ring toss game involving a catcher and a gentleman throwing rings. They discuss the poolside pasties theme and the importance of consent, sharing insights on how to make consent sexy and navigate its nuances. They mention the evening's fancy, not formal theme and the lingerie party with a toy demo, including various types of toys and a Sybian demonstration. They end the episode by mentioning their plans for the following day, which include a chocolate factory tour and various excursions.

Highlights:

• Pool time with socializing, friskiness, and pool games
• Unique ring toss game with a catcher and a gentleman throwing rings
• Poolside pasties theme and the importance of consent
• Fancy, not formal theme for the evening with a lingerie party and toy demo
• Excursions planned for the following day, including a chocolate factory tour and crocodile tours

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In this episode of the Swinger University podcast, Ed and Phoebe share their experiences on day 1 of their Costa Rica Takeover. They talk about the orientation day, a unique speed dating event where participants match nuts and bolts, and their delicious dinner. They also discuss their bar-hopping adventure in town, including visits to the Own Bar and the Black Marlin. The hosts mention the lively atmosphere, dancing, and even their encounter with the local sex work industry. They conclude with a mention of pool time, including the inflatable bull ride competition.

Highlights:

• Orientation day and speed dating with nuts and bolts matching
• Delicious dinner with fish, rice, beans, and plantains
• Bar-hopping in town, including visits to the Own Bar and the Black Marlin
• Lively atmosphere, dancing, and TikTok videos
• Observing the local sex work industry and the unique dynamics in Costa Rica
• Pool time, including the inflatable bull ride competition

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Ed and Phoebe, the hosts of the Swinger University podcast, are in Costa Rica to celebrate their anniversary. They talk about their experiences in Costa Rica, including their visit to Arenal Volcano and the hot springs, excursions to waterfalls, and exploring the town of Jaco. They mention the affordable prices, family-friendly resorts, and the fun they had with a group of friends. They also tease some spicy details from a card game they played but mention that those details can only be found on their Patreon episode.

Highlights:

• Ed and Phoebe celebrate their anniversary in Costa Rica.
• They explore Arenal Volcano and enjoy the hot springs.
• They visit waterfalls and take excursions with a tour guide.
• They have fun in Jaco, enjoying seafood restaurants and beach views.
• Ed and Phoebe's group hijacks a taxi and has an adventurous ride home.
• They play a card game involving truth or dare, leading to some spicy moments.
• They mention the upcoming activities, including a meet and greet, dinner, and a tour of the town.
• Prostitution is legal in Costa Rica, and they talk about the Cocal hotel.
• They express excitement about the upcoming playroom activities and the expectations of the group.

 #swingerpodcast #resorttakeover #swingervacation #costarica

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In my 20’s I was nervous about getting tattoos so I decided to get piercings instead. At the time getting a Prince Albert Piercing sounded like it would feel really good, so I went for it! Do I still stand by my decision?

OUTLINE: 

What is a Prince Alert or PA?

• Genital piercings
• Describe the PA
• Origin - Urban legends (chastity, hygiene) 
• Most popular origin

Benefits

• Stimulation for both partners
• Certain position work better
• Reverse PA for other positions
• Mileage may vary
• Visually appealing, if your into it
• Rings and bent barbells for interesting looks
• Wands - for sounding! 
• Party trick - Happy to show
• Phoebe’s experience

Healing

• Pretty quick 2-4 weeks Sometimes longer (6-8)
• No sex while healing
• Clean and care - talk to piercer
• I started with a 10 gauge, stretched to a 6 gauge
• Thicker jewelry usually migrates less

Downsides

• Some partners don’t even notice, or worse, it annoys them
• Teeth and jewelry painful
• Painful to get
• Nerve damage
• Increased risk of infections
• Condom breakage
• Irritation of urethra and piercing site
• UTIs
• Rejection
• Jewelry collisions (ouch) and entanglements
• Ed’s #1 - peeing is weird

Ask Your Piercer

• Interview them 
  • how long in business
  • Reputation online
  • Shop conditions - cleanliness
• Get their run down on 
  • Cost
  • Healing
  • After care
  • Size of jewelry to start with
  • Recommended final size

REFERENCES: 

How Does A Prince Albert Work?

Prince Albert Piercings

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We explore two intriguing topics: why the heck "cunt" is so controversial, and why women feel the need to shave their pubic hair to look like children down there!  So get ready for a deep dive as we shed some light on their history and cultural significance.

SOURCES

A Brief History Of The C-Word

Cultural History of Pubic Hair

How Hair Removal Becam A Beauty Standard

History of Sex & Sexuality

What's So Bad About the C-Word?

When Did Women Start Shaving?

The History of Female Hair Removal

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In this episode, we explore the benefits of moaning during sex and foreplay. Moaning is a natural sound that can create a sense of intimacy and vulnerability between partners, transport us to a place of heightened sensory pleasure, and drop us into our core sexual energy. It's also a form of communication that tells your partner what feels good and what doesn't, resulting in a more pleasurable experience for both partners. However, faking a moan can set up miscommunication in the bedroom, so it's essential to own your moans and express your pleasure authentically. If you're feeling self-conscious about moaning, we provide some tips to help you gain confidence in your self-expression, including starting off with some mood lighting, talking to your partner ahead of time, incorporating different elements during foreplay, and practicing in front of the mirror. Tune in to discover how moaning can create a more pleasurable experience for both you and your partner.

• Sound = Important Role in Life
• Form of communication
• Faking = wrong road map!
• Tips for those feeling self-conscious

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