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🎙️ After 100+ episodes, I'm distilling EVERYTHING into one powerful episode. These 10 truths will transform your teaching career from surviving to thriving. Save this episode. Share it with every teacher you know. This is the one that changes everything. 🌟

In this episode, Grace shares the 10 most critical pieces of advice she wishes she'd known when she started teaching—and the lessons that took her years to learn the hard way. Whether you're a brand new teacher or a 20-year veteran, these truths will help you create a sustainable, joyful teaching career.

✨ #1: Your Energy > Your Lesson Plans Self-care isn't selfish—it's the foundation of great teaching. Your calm, consistent presence matters more than perfect Pinterest-worthy activities.

💪 #2: No One Is Coming to Save You The only person who can transform your teaching experience is YOU. Learn the boundary-setting and communication skills they never taught in teacher training.

🎯 #3: You Always Have a Choice Stop saying "I have no choice." You might not like your options, but denying you have them is disempowering. Focus on what you CAN control.

🚫 #4: Nobody Is Indispensable Don't sacrifice your health because you think the school can't function without you. (Spoiler: Your job will be posted on EDJOIN by 3 PM if you quit today.)

🤐 #5: Not Everyone Is Your Friend Be careful what you share and with whom. Protect your peace and privacy—especially in the age of social media.

⚽ #6: Don't Catch Every Ball Drama, complaints, and other people's battles will constantly come your way. Learn to "validate and bounce" instead of getting dragged in.

❤️ #7: You Can't Be All Things to All Students You cannot care more than everyone else in a student's life. Focus your energy where it will make the most impact.

👤 #8: Teaching Isn't Your Whole Identity You are a human first, teacher second. Cultivate interests and relationships outside the schoolhouse or risk burnout.

📉 #9: LESS Is More Do less, talk less, hold onto less. Not everything urgent is important. Learn to prioritize ruthlessly and make peace with "good enough."

🚷 #10: Ditch the Comparison Game Stop comparing your messy Tuesday to someone else's filtered Instagra

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What if one text message could save a student's life? In this powerful episode, Grace sits down with Iuri Mellow, co-founder of School Pulse, to explore a revolutionary mental health support system that's preventing tragedies in schools across America. After 7 students died by suicide in his Utah community, social worker and best-selling author, Iuri created a solution that gives students anonymous access to trained counselors via text—before and after school, 7 days a week.

⚠️ Content Warning: Brief discussion of suicidal/homicidal ideation in youth

💡 Episode Highlights

What School Pulse Offers:

• 📱 Live text-based counseling support for students (grades 6-12)
• 🆓 Free 22-topic video library (absenteeism, anxiety, vaping, grief, and more)
• 🔒 Anonymous, confidential student access to trained professionals
• ✉️ Weekly positive psychology content sent via text and email
• 👨‍👩‍👧 Parent involvement and transparency built-in

Why Teachers Need This:

• Removes the burden of being "unlicensed therapists"
• Low-lift, high-impact support system
• Multiplies school counseling capacity without adding workload
• Click-and-play resources requiring zero training
• Ridiculously affordable for schools

The Game-Changer:

• 80% of student engagement is positive conversations
• Less than 3% student opt-out rate
• Success story at minute 45-47 that will blow your mind
• Has prevented homicidal ideation, self-harm, and more
• Students stay connected even after graduating

🔗 Resources

Website: schoolpulse.org
Free Video Library: https://schoolpulse.org/student-success/

**All video content accessible without email signup

🎯 Bottom Line

Teachers can't do it all—and they shouldn't have to. This episode offers hope and practical solutions for supporting student mental health without adding to educator burnout.

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Why Campus-Wide Book Studies Might Backfire (And What to Do Instead)

In this candid episode, educator and author Grace Stevens shares an unconventional perspective: why mandating her own book for campus-wide studies might do more harm than good. She explores the psychology behind teacher resistance to mandatory professional development, the difference between gifts and assignments, and offers practical alternatives that respect teacher autonomy while genuinely supporting wellbeing and reducing burnout.

Key Points

📚 The Assignment vs. Gift Problem - When administrators mandate books for staff, even well-intentioned resources can feel like just another compliance checkbox rather than genuine support

🚫 Avoiding Toxic Positivity - Books about mindset and positivity can backfire with already overwhelmed teachers, coming across as tone-deaf rather than helpful, especially when mandated from above

✅ Teacher Autonomy Matters - Self-determination theory applies to educators too—teachers need choice and voice in their professional development, not just mandates

🎯 When Book Studies Work - Book studies are most effective when teachers choose to participate, when multiple options are offered, or when integrated into teacher credential programs where context is appropriate

💝 Better Gift Alternatives - Journals and personal reflection tools make excellent gifts for Teacher Appreciation Week or new staff without the pressure of mandatory reading or discussion

🔄 Systemic Change Over Symbolic Gestures - Real support for teacher wellbeing requires systemic changes, not just book recommendations that can feel like lip service

⚠️ Reading the Room - Administrators should survey staff needs and interests before selecting professional development materials—what works for one campus may not work for another

🎓 Teacher College Success - Pre-service teacher programs are ideal settings for books on burnout prevention and boundary-setting, as students are already in learning mode and need these foundational skills

Administrators interested in empowering teachers with real skills to help combat burnout and overwhelm are invited to watch a 5-minute video at this link:

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In this episode of the Teacher Self-Care and Life Balance Podcast, we’re diving deep into a topic every educator needs to hear: the warning signs that you need stronger, healthier boundaries.

If you’ve been feeling exhausted, resentful, or like teaching is bleeding into every corner of your life, this episode is your wake-up call. 🚨

Inside, I’ll share 17 red flags—10 from your personal life and 7 from your school life—that reveal when your boundaries are slipping. Plus, I’ll walk you through a mindset shift that will change how you see boundaries forever.

💡 Remember: boundaries aren’t selfish. They’re what allow you to protect your time, energy, and joy—so you can show up fully for yourself, your family, and your students.

🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• 🔟 10 private-life warning signs you’re neglecting your needs (like constant fatigue, guilt when resting, or short tempers at home)
• 7️⃣ school-life symptoms of burnout (from always saying yes ➡️ to losing your joy in teaching)
• 🧠 The #1 mindset shift that makes setting boundaries feel less scary and more loving
• 📚 Which past podcast episodes to binge next if you want practical scripts and strategies
• 🛑 Why “pushing through” doesn’t make you a better teacher—it makes you a burned-out one

💬 Final Takeaway

Boundaries don’t mean you care less. They mean you’re building a teaching life you can actually sustain. 🌱 Start with one small change this week—like not checking email after dinner—and notice how much lighter you feel.

Need a proven roadmap to help you set healthier teacher boundaries? Check out the Beat Teacher Burnout with Better Boundaries course at www.gracestevens.com/lifeback

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In This Episode: 🎧 Grace shares 8 powerful habits that can transform your teaching experience and help you become that "offensively cheerful" teacher who stays calm even when chaos strikes.

The 8 Happy Habits: 🌟

1. Set Healthy Boundaries 🚧 
   • Protect your energy like it's $24,000 a day
   • It's okay to disappoint people sometimes
2. Prioritize Relationships Over Perfection 💝 
   • Use the "2-10 Rule" (2 minutes for 10 days with struggling students)
   • Create student shoutout circles
   • Build inside jokes and laugh with your students
3. Practice Micro Moments of Calm 🧘‍♀️ 
   • Try "Starfish Breathing" (trace your hand while breathing)
   • Use hallway resets (pause at doors, one mindful breath)
   • Create calm classroom environments with soft music/lighting
4. Stay Organized with Simple Systems 📚 
   • Remember: "You don't rise to your goals, you fall to your systems"
   • Delegate routines to students (they're more capable than you think!)
   • Have daily reset routines before leaving
5. Reframe Your Challenges 🔄 
   • Apply growth mindset to yourself, not just students
   • See behavior issues as opportunities to reteach
   • Model mistakes and problem-solving
6. Celebrate the Small Wins 🎉 
   • Write down 3 best parts of your day before leaving
   • Use a "joy jar" in your classroom
   • Tune your radar to good stuff, not annoyances
7. Separate Your Worth from Your Work 👤 
   • Be a complete person beyond just "teacher"
   • Schedule non-negotiable time for YOUR interests
8. Run Your Own Race 🏃‍♀️ 
   • Stop comparing yourself to Pinterest perfection
   • Stay out of staff room drama that doesn't concern you
   • Protect your peace at all costs

Key Takeaway: 💡 Don't try all 8 habits at once! Pick one, make it routine, then add another. Happiness can be synthesized - it's a skill you can learn!

Resources Mentioned: 🔗

• Happy Classroom Habits Course
• Positive Mindset Journal for Teach

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Beat Teacher Burnout with Better Boundaries book here

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Whether you're facing a Program Improvement Plan (PIP) or dealing with a challenging administrator, this episode provides practical strategies and mindset shifts to help you navigate these difficult situations with grace and professionalism. Grace shares her own story of working with a demanding administrator and how changing her perspective transformed the experience.

What You'll lEarn:

1. Mindset Shifts

• Other People's Experiences Don't Have to Be Yours - Don't let colleagues' negative stories shape your reality
• Focus on Facts, Not Feelings - Write down what has actually happened vs. what you've heard or assumed
• This is Temporary - A PIP is a chapter, not your whole story
• Assume Best Intentions - Approach the plan as a tool for improvement, not punishment

2. Practical Strategies

• Document Everything - Keep daily logs and confirm conversations via email
• Request Specific Feedback - Ask for concrete examples of what success looks like
• Find a Thought Partner - Get support from a trusted mentor or colleague (without gossiping)
• Focus One Thing at a Time - Don't try to overhaul everything at once
• Maintain Professionalism - Stay calm, neutral, and professional even when provoked

3. Setting Boundaries

• Time Boundaries - Don't let the PIP consume your entire life
• Emotional Boundaries - Respond, don't react; pause before responding to feedback
• Communication Boundaries - Don't overexplain, overjustify, or constantly seek reassurance

4. Growth Opportunities

• Use the experience to evaluate if this district is right for you
• Learn what you can, even if the situation isn't ideal
• Build resilience and professional skills
• Remember: most teachers outlive their administrators

Key Quotes

"Other people's experience doesn't need to be your experience.""This is not a personal indictment - it's often a reflection of a broken system or poor communication."

These aren't just for teachers on improvement plans. The strategies work for anyone dealing with workplace

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Welcome to Part 5 of our Back-to-School Series! 🎒 But let’s be real: this one isn’t just for teachers and it’s definitely not just for back-to-school season. If you’re a human navigating life, relationships, or tough workdays — this episode is for you. 🙌 Grace shares 4 powerful mindset shifts that can completely transform how you experience teaching, parenting, and life. These simple (but not always easy!) reframes will help you feel more empowered, less triggered, and more in control of your peace and purpose.

💡 In This Episode You’ll Learn:
🌟 Mindset Shift #1: Assume Best Intentions

People are doing the best they can with the skills they have in the situation they’re in. Whether it's a student meltdown, a snippy coworker, or a frustrated parent — extend grace, not judgment.

🧠 Mindset Shift #2: "That Was Then, This Is Now"

Don’t drag old stories into new chapters. Past experiences (like dental trauma or difficult parents) don’t have to dictate your future. You’re different now. Let that count.

⚠️ Mindset Shift #3: Question Your Absolutes

“These kids never try.” “Parents always complain.” 🚫 If you're hearing "always" or "never," you’re probably stuck in a limiting belief. Try this reframe:
“What else could be true?”

🤯 Mindset Shift #4: Don’t Catch Every Ball

Not every complaint, drama, or venting session requires your energy. Validate and bounce.
 You don’t have to attend every negativity party you’re invited to. 🥳🚫

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If you've ever opened an email from a parent and instantly felt your stomach drop — this episode is for you. In today’s episode, Grace unpacks practical and empowering ways to improve your communication with families — without burning out, over-explaining, or bending over backwards.

You’ll walk away with mindset shifts and strategies to help you:

• De-escalate tough parent conversations
• Communicate clearly and proactively to avoid confusion
• Set healthy boundaries without guilt
• Build trust and goodwill from day one

Grace also shares real talk about what doesn’t work, how to recover when you’ve made a mistake, and why improving parent communication makes everything — yes, everything — easier.

Whether you’re dealing with a challenging parent, hoping to reset after a rocky start, or just want to feel more confident heading into a new school year — this episode will help you reclaim your calm and lead with connection.

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Check out the best-selling Positive Mindset Habits for Teachers book here
Beat Teacher Burnout with Better Boundaries book here

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Hey teacher friend — you’re back in school, and guess what’s making its rounds again? Yep… the dreaded adjunct duty list 😬

In Part 2 of our Back-to-School 2025–2026 series, we’re tackling one of the most exhausting parts of a teacher’s year: having to sign up for extra duties you didn’t actually sign up for. From lunch supervision to leading yearbook, organizing graduation, or being “voluntold” to coach a sport, these adjunct duties can quickly turn your week upside down.

But it doesn’t have to be that way. 🙅‍♀️

In this episode, I’ll show you how to strategically approach the adjunct duty list so you can:

✅ Align duties with your passions
 ✅ Avoid energy-draining commitments
 ✅ Use your voice (and contracts!) to advocate for better boundaries
 ✅ Learn to say "yes" with limitations or confidently say "no" without guilt
 ✅ Shift your mindset from “I have to” ➡️ “I get to”

Plus, I’ll tell you the true story of how I unknowingly gave up YEARS of unpaid extra work… only for someone else to get a stipend and a sub when I finally stepped away. (Yep. That one stung.) 😅

🎯 This isn’t about being difficult — it’s about being intentional. You deserve to feel fulfilled, not frustrated.

🔥 You’ll Also Learn:

• Why saying no is actually saying yes to something better
• How to reframe the “martyr teacher” mindset
• The “Tale of Two Duties”: how one teacher’s dream duty is another’s nightmare (and vice versa)
• How to advocate for equitable duty distribution (especially if you're the newbie 🐣)
• What to do if you’ve always had the same duty and want OUT
• Scripts + mindset tips for negotiating your way to better balance 💬🧠

🎯 Binge These Related Episodes:

• 🎙️ Ep 2: How to Say No Without Sounding Like a Jerk (And Still Be Student-Focused)
• 🎙️ Ep 48: How to Say Yes With Limitations and Keep Your Sanity
• 🎙️ Ep 60: What to Do When Your Class List Feels Totally Unfair
• 🎙️ Ep 62: Why You Must Double Down on Classroom Management NOW

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Check out the best-selling Positive Mindset Habits for Teachers book here
Beat Teacher Burnout with Better Boundaries book here

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Welcome to part one of our five-episode Back to School Special for the 2025-26 school year! In this foundational episode, Grace breaks down her proven ECHO Framework for Educator Empowerment - four essential pillars that will help you crush this school year, create your own path, and bring your own sunshine no matter what challenges come your way.

The ECHO Framework Explained

Grace introduces her comprehensive framework that encompasses everything she's taught over 12 years of writing, speaking, and podcasting about teacher empowerment.

E - Energy Teaches More Than Your Lesson Plans

• How you show up matters more than perfect lesson plans or classroom decor
• The power of co-regulation in the classroom
• Creating a positive vibe that promotes learning and risk-taking
• Self-care as a professional responsibility, not selfishness

C - Control What You Can Control

• Stop wasting energy on things outside your influence
• The connection to Mel Robbins' "Let Them Theory" and Stephen Covey's timeless principles
• Focusing on your responsibilities rather than managing everyone else
• Creating empowerment through intentional focus

H - Happiness Can Be Synthesized

• Research-backed truth: Only 50% of happiness is genetic baseline
• Life circumstances contribute just 10% to your happiness quotient
• The powerful 40%: intentional habits you can cultivate and control
• Reference to Harvard research and happiness experts

O - Other People's Experience Doesn't Need to Be Your Experience

• Creating your own path despite difficult narratives in education
• Why teachers in the same building can have vastly different experiences
• Taking responsibility for your unique teaching journey

Key Takeaways

• You can change your "operating terms and conditions" anytime - don't wait for next year
• Personal development is YOUR responsibility (it won't come from admin PD)
• Your energy and presence impact student learning more

➡️ To get your FREE 🎁 PDF Guide The Professional Teacher's Guide to Saying "No" visit: www.gracestevens.com/sayno

Want to truly thrive in teaching without sacrificing your personal life?
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📘 My latest (and greatest!) book:
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Check out the best-selling Positive Mindset Habits for Teachers book here
Beat Teacher Burnout with Better Boundaries book here

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