That Sex Chick

In this episode, Neeta Bhushan joins Alexa to discuss her new book "That Sucked, Now What?" which offers a practical five-stage framework to embrace the possibilities in chaos, overcome setbacks with grace, and fly forward every time. They discuss toxic positivity, personal responsibility, radical self-awareness, emotional capacity, and embodiment practices to cultivate resilience and bounce back from difficult situations.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Giving yourself permission to acknowledge when things go wrong
• Understanding how to bounce back quickly from setbacks
• Evaluating your relationships and phase of life
• Personal responsibility & radical self-awareness
• Developing the ability to handle difficult emotions

This show is sponsored by:

• Yoni Pleasure Palace | Visit yonipleasurepalace.com and get 15% off with the code THATSEXCHICK.
• Learn more about Couples Goals here

Connect with Neeta:

• Website: neetabhushan.com 
• Instagram: @neetabhushan 
• Book: That Sucked, Now What?
• Podcast: The Brave Table

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: sexandlove.co
• Free resources: sexandlove.co/resources
• Facebook Group: Sex & Love Co Community 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

“Intimacy Doctor” Alexandra Stockwell joins Alexa for a juicy conversation on being fully self-expressed in your relationship and uncompromising in your intimacy. Alexandra unpacks ways we compromise in our intimacy and how it can lead to a bland and unfulfilling relationship, while also sharing insights on how to practice awareness to begin speaking up about your needs. Tune in as they explore how to cultivate curiosity and create more connection in your communication with your partner, and unlock your deepest desires to build a beautiful and long-lasting relationship.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Understanding the fixed vs. growth mindset in relationships
• Why compromise can lead to a lackluster relationship
• The benefits of being uncompromising in intimacy and sex
• Cultivating curiosity and speaking up about your desires
• How to create more connection in communication with your partner
• Unlocking your desires and exploring your own needs in a relationship

This show is sponsored by:

• Yoni Pleasure Palace | Visit yonipleasurepalace.com and get 15% off with the code THATSEXCHICK.
• Learn more about Couples Goals here

Connect with Alexandra:

• Website: alexandrastockwell.com 
• Instagram: @alexandrastockwellmd 
• Podcast: The Intimate Marriage Podcast

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: sexandlove.co
• Free resources: sexandlove.co/resources
• Facebook Group: Sex & Love Co Community 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Join Alexa and Jordan in this episode as Jordan shares his journey of learning to embrace his dominant side. You’ll hear how it was a difficult path, as Jordan struggled with feelings of inadequacy while Alexa felt like her kinkiness was too much for him to handle. But they found a way to navigate through the tension and dissonance, pushing past the honeymoon phase and exploring things they hadn't done before. Jordan prioritized his sexual development and found ways to lean into his dominant side, adding flavor and spice to their sex life by challenging each other and learning to follow and lead. He shares key experiences such as taking the erotic blueprint quiz and creating a Will/Want/Won't list, leading to a humbling journey of sexual self-discovery that transformed their relationship and sex life.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• The discomfort & challenges in sexual exploration
• Overcoming inadequacy & how Jordan leaned into dominance
• Key experiences & resources that helped Jordan on his path
• How Alexa & Jordan learned to challenge and support each other
• The importance of prioritizing your intimacy & sex life

This show is sponsored by:

• Yoni Pleasure Palace | Visit yonipleasurepalace.com and get 15% off with the code THATSEXCHICK.

Resources:

• Learn more about Couples Goals here
• Want/Will/Won’t List: sexandlove.co/resources
• Erotic Blueprint: missjaiya.com 
• Kenneth Play: https://kennethplay.com 
• Books: The Way of the Superior Man ; Pussy ; Diary of a Submissive

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: sexandlove.co
• Free resources: sexandlove.co/resources
• Facebook Group: Sex & Love Co Community 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Talia Koren, the ultimate dating guru, joins Alexa to share her tantalizing insights on dating intentionally and with confidence. With 61 first dates under her belt in just 10 months, Talia dishes out the juicy lessons of her journey, along with what she learned from exiting a 6-year relationship. Get ready to savor her tips on crafting a dating app bio, setting boundaries and desires, and indulging in a healthier mindset towards dating. The goal? To help you have a positive and enjoyable dating experience, learn more about yourself, and ultimately attract a fulfilling and satisfying love.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Talia’s dating journey: 61 dates in 10 months
• Common pitfalls to avoid in the early stages of dating
• Building a positive and empowered attitude towards using dating apps
• Presenting your authentic self in your dating app bio and clearly stating your preferences
• Keeping to your standards while releasing expectations
• Navigating the timing of sex in a new relationship

This show is sponsored by:

• Yoni Pleasure Palace | Visit yonipleasurepalace.com and get 15% off with the code THATSEXCHICK.
• Learn more about Couples Goals here

Connect with Talia:

• Instagram: @dating.intentionally 
• Podcast: Dating Intentionally

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: sexandlove.co
• Free resources: sexandlove.co/resources
• Facebook Group: Sex & Love Co Community 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Get ready to up your sexual game and close the orgasm gap! In this juicy episode, we welcome Dr. Laurie Mintz, a leading expert in the field of sex therapy and the author of "A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex" and "Becoming Cliterate." She explains the differences between men and women when it comes to orgasm and shares her expertise on teaching female orgasm. The orgasm gap is a cultural problem, and Dr. Mintz provides practical solutions to close it, including the use of lube, vibrators, and external stimulation. Dr. Mintz shares practical tips and tricks on how to stimulate the clitoris, harness the power of responsive and receptive desire, and bring mindfulness into the bedroom. Get ready to ignite your senses and leave your old sexual habits behind, as Dr. Mintz helps us close the orgasm gap and achieve the sex life we deserve.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• The orgasm gap and strategies to close it
• Masturbation for understanding your body & communicating desires
• The role of toys and stimulators in enhancing female orgasm
• Debunking myths around vibrators & desensitization
• Letting go of societal expectations of libido and sexual desire
• Mindfulness and yoga for better sex

This show is sponsored by:

• Yoni Pleasure Palace | Visit yonipleasurepalace.com and get 15% off with the code THATSEXCHICK.
• Learn more about Couples Goals here

Connect with Dr. Laurie:

• Website: drlauriemintz.com 
• Instagram: @drlauriemintz 
• Books: A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex ; Becoming Cliterate
• Referenced: Rev Bev 

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: sexandlove.co
• Free resources: sexandlove.co/resources
• Facebook Group: Sex & Love Co Community 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Josh and Katy Whalen, the founders of Blokes for Him and Joi for Her, join the show to discuss the powerful impact of hormone optimization and peptide therapy on health and fertility. You’ll hear their personal story of how peptides not only healed their health but also their marriage. The conversation delves into the impact of hormone optimization on fertility and relationships, and the importance of being proactive and preventative in our approach to health care. Josh and Katy share their fertility journey, including their experiences with miscarriages and the importance of open and honest communication. To wrap up, they unpack common stories and symptoms that peptides and hormones can treat, what to know about progesterone, testosterone and cortisol, and the services they offer to address gaps in health.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Personal story of how peptides healed the founders' health and their marriage
• The impact of hormone optimization on fertility and relationships
• Josh & Katy’s fertility journey and the importance of open communication
• Optimal health vs. “normal" health: the proactive approach
• What to know about progesterone, testosterone, & cortisol
• Being your own advocate and navigating the healthcare system

This show is sponsored by:

• Yoni Pleasure Palace | Visit yonipleasurepalace.com and get 15% off with the code THATSEXCHICK.

Connect with Josh and Katy:

• Instagram: @getblokes / @joiwomenswellness 
• Website: blokes.co / choosejoi.co (Use code THATSEXCHICK for 10% off)

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: sexandlove.co
• Free resources: sexandlove.co/resources
• Facebook Group: Sex & Love Co Community 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

In this episode, Lex and Jordan guide listeners through their process of setting a New Year’s theme and intention for their relationship. They talk about intentional reflection on where they have been and where they are going, as well as milestones, celebrations, and hard moments. The couple shares their method of choosing a word for their relationship and using it as a guide for practices and goal-setting, along with ways to hold each other accountable. Lex and Jordan also discuss the importance of date nights, deep dives, and check-ins to achieve what is important to them individually and in their relationship.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Lex & Jordan’s method for reflecting on their previous year
• Choosing a word for yourself & relationship as a North Star for your year ahead
• Creating actionable goals & practices related to your intention and theme
• How Lex & Jordan map out their calendars & hold each other accountable
• Incorporating date nights, deep dives, & check-ins

Resources:

• Learn more about Couples Goals here
• Follow Jordan: @conscious.bro 
• Listen: Sex Magick: 6 Steps for Creating an Abundance Ritual

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: sexandlove.co
• Free resources: sexandlove.co/resources
• Facebook Group: Sex & Love Co Community 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Jessica Zweig is the CEO of The SimplyBe. Agency and a personal branding expert. Today, she and Alexa divulge what it’s like to be in business with your significant other. Jess shares how aligning as one team with the same mission, values, and dream transformed her marriage. She shares how she and her husband create conscious boundaries between their marriage and working relationship, and ways they shift from their CEO and CFO energy into husband and wife intimacy.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• What it’s like being in business with your partner
• Conscious boundaries, sacred weekends, & scheduled intimacy
• Shifting from business mode to sexy time
• How working with her husband healed Jess’s marriage
• How your relationship deepens when you work together
• Advice for couples going into business together

Connect with Jessica:

• IG: @jessicazweig / @simplybeagency
• Podcast: The SimplyBe. Podcast
• Buy Jessica’s Book “Be.” here
• Visit simplybeagency.com
• Visit jessicazweig.com

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: sexandlove.co
• Free resources: sexandlove.co/resources
• Facebook Group: Sex & Love Co Community 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Wendy Perkins is on the show to unpack how anxiety and ADHD impact sex, connection, and navigating the world. She provides a look into the mind of someone with ADHD, and shares simple practices for calming the mind, feeling safe in your body, and increasing dopamine production. Whether you struggle with anxiety and ADHD or love someone who does, may this episode provide insight and tools for navigating this invisible challenge.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• Anxiety addiction & dopamine’s role
• How ADHD impacts sex, intimacy, & navigating life
• Using pleasure to rewire the brain
• Daily embodiment practice for helping ADHD
• Yoni de-armoring & releasing stored energy

Connect with Wendy:

• Instagram: @owningyouro 

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: sexandlove.co
• Free resources: sexandlove.co/resources
• Facebook Group: Sex & Love Co Community 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Today’s conversation with Johnathan White is all about semen retention and non-ejaculatory orgasms for men, and how this can impact sex, love, and relationships. Learn why men would want to embark on this journey of separating their orgasms from ejaculation, and simple practices to begin. You’ll gain insight into the benefits like connecting deeper to yourself and your partner, shortening the orgasm gap, improving energy levels, and no longing experiencing the refractory period.

Today on That Sex Chick:

• How men can separate orgasm and ejaculation
• Shorten the orgasm gap & connect more deeply in sex
• How men can experience more pleasure & eliminate the refractory period
• Simple practices for non-ejaculatory orgasms
• Feeling satisfied at the end of sex without ejaculating

Connect with Johnathan:

• Instagram: @sexual.kungfu 
• Website: johnathanwhitelifestyle.com 
• Referenced book: The Multi-Orgasmic Man

Connect with Alexa:

• Instagram: @thatsexchick
• Website: sexandlove.co
• Free resources: sexandlove.co/resources
• Facebook Group: Sex & Love Co Community 

Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 

This show is produced by Soulfire Productions