The Best of You

The Ache of Feeling Unseen or Overlooked


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Today's Scripture: 1 Samuel 16:1–7

Have you ever felt overlooked— not chosen, not noticed, not even considered?

In today’s episode, we look at the story of Samuel anointing David and what it reveals about how easily we evaluate ourselves and others by what is visible. We explore:

*How the halo effect shapes who gets noticed, chosen, or valued

*Why external validation is a shaky foundation for your identity

*How to stop measuring your worth by systems that were never designed to see you clearly

*What David’s story reveals about hidden faithfulness, quiet seasons, and the God who sees what others miss

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Dr. Alison shares her journey through feeling unseen in The Secure Soul. Click here to read the first 3 chapters & join free masterclass on the wounds that shape you

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