In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the complexities of motherhood, particularly in the context of mental health and adoption. She emphasizes that struggling with mental health does not equate to being a bad parent and highlights the importance of seeking help. The conversation also touches on the mental health challenges faced by adopted children and the necessity for adoptive parents to be proactive in addressing these issues. Additionally, Rebecca introduces the Adoption Collective community, aimed at providing support and resources for adoptive parents, fostering a sense of belonging and shared experience.

Important Links

- Healing Begins in the Body: The Somatic Side of Adoption w/Julie Brumley

- Accessing Early Intervention Support w/Maureen Dykinga

- Join the Waitlist for 'The Adoption Collective Community'

- RG Adoption Consulting

Chapters

00:00 Embracing Imperfection in Motherhood

04:53 Understanding Mental Health in Adoption

07:47 Introducing the Adoption Collective Community

11:28 The Importance of Community Support in Adoption

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In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan is joined by Kelly Ellison, founder of Your Adoption Finance Coach, to demystify the financial side of adoption. Together, they break down the real costs of adoption and explore how to fund your journey using a powerful combination of cash, loans, grants, fundraising, and tax credits. Kelly shares strategies that have helped over 17,000 families raise more than $18 million, and explains why timing matters when applying for grants, what foundations are actually looking for, and how to avoid leaving money on the table.

If you're wondering how you'll afford adoption—or when to start planning financially—this episode is your step-by-step guide.

Mentioned in this episode:
– Your Adoption Finance Coach
– HelpUsAdopt.org
– Gift of Adoption Fund
– Lifesong for Orphans
– ABBA Fund
– A Child Waits Foundation
– AdoptTogether
– America’s Christian Credit Union
– My Egg Fund
– Our Chosen Child
– RG Adoption Consulting
– Take the 'Am I Ready to Adopt?' QUIZ

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Adoption Finalization and Placement

02:52 Introduction to Adoption Financing Challenges

06:03 Breaking Down Adoption Financing: The Thirds Rule

08:51 Exploring Cash Contributions and Family Support

12:01 Navigating Loans for Adoption

18:09 Understanding Grants and Financial Aid for Adoption

33:20 Understanding Crowdfunding in Adoption

39:19 Building a Successful Fundraising Campaign

42:02 Navigating the Adoption Tax Credit

46:38 Insights on Grant Applications and Funding

55:07 Leveraging Social Media for Adoption Fundraising

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In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the unique and complex journey of adoption, highlighting common mistakes that hopeful adoptive parents often make. She emphasizes the importance of understanding individual circumstances, the pitfalls of relying on social media for information, and the need to explore various agency options beyond local choices. The conversation aims to provide clarity and support for those navigating the adoption process.

Important Links

RG Adoption Consulting

Take the 'Am I Ready to Adopt?' QUIZ

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Adoption Journey

02:05 Common Mistakes in Adoption Process

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In this powerful episode, adoptee, trauma coach, and therapist Julie Brumley joins Rebecca to explore how adoption trauma shows up in the body—and how somatic healing can help. Julie shares her personal journey from survival to self-discovery, the moment that changed everything, and how early trauma can shape physical and emotional responses. They dive into the seven phases of healing, nervous system regulation, and tools for holding space without trying to "fix." A must-listen for adoptive parents and adoptees alike.

Important Links

- Julie Brumley IG

- Julie Brumley FB

- Coming Home to Self – Julie’s Coaching Platform

- Processing Emotions Exercise

- Saboteur assessment

- Positive Intelligence by Shirzad Chamine (Amazon)

- The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk (Amazon)

- Brené Brown – Official Website

- Sweet Peachtree Marketplace – Use code ROADMAP10 for 10% off

- RG Adoption Consulting

- Take the “Are You Ready to Adopt?” Quiz

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Adoption and Self-Worth

02:52 Finding Worth Through Community Engagement

05:49 Navigating Identity and Belonging

08:51 The Impact of Open Communication in Adoption

11:58 Rewriting the Narrative of Adoption

15:07 The Role of Friends in Support

18:02 Transforming Scars into Symbols of Hope

20:59 The Journey of Self-Discovery

24:12 The Importance of Sharing Stories

26:57 Lessons for Adoptive Parents

30:03 The Struggle with Self-Worth

32:54 Finding Purpose and Passion

37:29 Cultural Exposure in Adoption

40:36 Understanding Identity and Culture

43:42 The Complexity of Cultural Identity

45:46 Finding a Voice as an Advocate

49:10 Testifying for Adoption Support

52:37 Creating a Supportive Community

55:28 Designing a National Adoption Blueprint

01:00:00 Writing for Change

01:02:15 Emotional Challenges in Writing

01:06:45 The Importance of Compassion and Understanding

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In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the current state of adoption, highlighting a decrease in families wanting to adopt despite the number of adoptions remaining stable. She shares insights from RG Adoption Consulting's quarterly meeting, emphasizing the company's core values and service pillars, including education, community, ethics, and collaboration. The conversation also touches on trends and challenges in the adoption landscape, including the impact of societal fears and economic uncertainty on prospective adoptive families. Finally, Rebecca celebrates the growth of the podcast and the importance of community engagement in supporting adoptive families.

Important Links

In this powerful episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, host Rebecca Gruenspan sits down with 19-year-old adoptee, author, and advocate Wilson Munsterman to explore identity, self-worth, and healing through the lens of adoption. Wilson opens up about his adoption from China, the scar that shaped his early beliefs about himself, and the moment he chose to rewrite his internal narrative.

Wilson shares how he went from struggling in silence to finding his voice—and using it to uplift others. Together, Rebecca and Wilson dive into the realities of transracial adoption, the unique identity challenges adoptees face, and what adoptive parents really need to know. This episode is packed with wisdom for adoptive parents raising teens, adoptees seeking healing, and anyone who’s ever questioned their worth.

Important Links

- Sweet Peachtree Marketplace (Use code ROADMAP10 for 10% off)

- RG Adoption Consulting

- Take the “Are You Ready to Adopt?” Quiz

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan shares her personal journey through adoption, highlighting the challenges and emotional experiences she faced. She discusses the importance of having an adoption consultant to guide hopeful parents through the complex process of adoption. Rebecca reflects on her own experiences with fertility treatments, the transition to adoption, and the support she received along the way. The episode emphasizes the need for community and guidance in the adoption journey, as well as the joy and fulfillment that comes with becoming a parent through adoption.

Important Links

- RG Adoption Consulting

- Book A Free Call With Us TODAY

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Adoption Journey

08:14 The Role of an Adoption Consultant

12:05 Personal Adoption Experience and Insights

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For adoption questions, episode suggestions, or to appear as a guest, email [email protected].

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, host Rebecca Gruenspan and Dr. Sara Silvestri discuss the complexities of health and medical concerns in adoption. They explore the definition of 'healthy' in the context of adopted children, the impact of prenatal substance exposure, the importance of prenatal care, and the challenges faced by adoptive parents. The conversation also covers the risks associated with STDs and gestational diabetes, as well as practical advice for selecting a pediatrician who understands the unique needs of adopted children.

Important Links

- ⁠Dr. Sara Silvestri⁠

- ⁠American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP)⁠

- ⁠RG Adoption Consulting⁠

- ⁠Take the “Are You Ready to Adopt?” Quiz⁠

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Health in Adoption

02:53 The Fear of the Unknown in Adoption

06:09 Defining Healthy Babies in Adoption

09:00 Trends in Maternal Health and Substance Use

12:11 Navigating the Adoption Checklist

14:53 The Importance of Prenatal Care

17:53 Risks of Substance Exposure During Pregnancy

21:02 Understanding Opioids and Their Risks

23:48 The Impact of Alcohol on Pregnancy

26:50 The Nuances of Marijuana Use During Pregnancy

36:11 Understanding Hepatitis Risks in Pregnancy

39:21 The Impact of Substance Use on Hepatitis Transmission

42:25 Neonatal Abstinence Syndrome: Causes and Care

46:48 The Long-Term Effects of Substance Exposure on Children

53:11 STDs and Gestational Diabetes in Adoption Situations

01:00:43 Navigating Medical Records for Adoptive Parents

01:05:40 Choosing the Right Pediatrician for Adoptive Families

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In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan shares real-time insights from her community on a topic many hopeful adoptive parents overlook: traveling home with your baby. From car seats and baby-wearing tips to what not to pack, Rebecca dives into what actually matters during this emotional and life-changing trip.

She also touches on passport application quirks, gives a well-deserved shoutout to adoption social workers during Social Work Month, and reminds families that consulting is about more than just matching—it's about feeling supported every step of the way.

Whether you're mid-process or preparing for placement, this episode is full of helpful gems and feel-good moments from the community.

Important Links

• Duna Car Seat & Stroller Combo

• Lalabu Babywearing Shirts

In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan sits down with Jessie Mattos—a birth mother, passionate advocate, and director of birth mother programs at Abiding Love Charities. Known online as @ittakesatriad, Jessie brings raw honesty and powerful insight into what it truly means to support every member of the adoption triad.

Jessie bravely shares her own adoption journey, the complex emotions that followed placement, and how her healing truly began years later—after discovering the power of community and education. She dives into the realities of informed consent, post-adoption grief, and why love is not enough when it comes to ethical adoption.

Together, Rebecca and Jessie explore how hopeful adoptive parents can show up with intentionality, humility, and a willingness to listen—even when it’s uncomfortable. They also unpack red flags to look for when choosing an adoption agency, the do’s and don’ts of pre-placement communication, and how open adoption requires effort and honesty from both sides.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone hoping to adopt—and who wants to do it ethically, compassionately, and with long-term success in mind.

Important Links

• Abiding Love Charities

• BraveLove

• RG Adoption Consulting

• Follow Jessie on Instagram: @ittakesatriad

• • Take the “Are You Ready to Adopt?” Quiz

  
  

  ⏰ Chapters

  00:00 Intro – Why Every Side of the Triad Matters

  02:17 Who Is a Birth Mother, Really?

  05:11 Informed Consent & Risks Every Mom Deserves to Know

  07:26 Healing Through Education & Community

  11:20 Post-Placement Regret: What Causes It

  16:44 Understanding Birth Mom “Responsibilities”

  21:06 Red Flags in Adoption Agencies

  27:50 Toxic Positivity & Manipulative Language

  35:30 Grief After Placement: What Hopeful Parents Need to Expect

  40:11 Birth Fathers, Silence, and Support

  43:00 Language in Profile Books: What NOT to Say

  48:35 Communicating Directly with Expectant Moms

  55:44 How Adoptive Parents Can Truly Support a Birth Mom

  01:03:27 Double Standards in Adoption

  01:06:41 What Jessie’s Most Proud Of

  01:13:10 What Every Adoptive Parent Should Know

  
  

  Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I’d appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review! 💙 THANK YOU!

  For adoption questions, episode suggestions, or to appear as a guest, email [email protected]