Everyone is busy planning what they’re bringing into 2026. New goals. New strategies. New habits.

But what if the real progress comes from deciding what doesn’t make the cut?

In this episode, we flip the usual New Year conversation on its head and talk about the things solopreneurs should seriously consider leaving behind. From creating content just because it’s “trending,” to chasing passive income fairy tales, to saying yes to clients and projects that quietly drain your energy, we break down what’s no longer serving your business (or your life).

This is a practical, honest conversation about focusing on what actually works for your audience, your strengths, and your version of success. If you want to head into 2026 with more clarity, less noise, and a business that feels sustainable instead of exhausting, this episode is your permission slip to let some things go.

Episode FAQs

What should solopreneurs stop doing in 2026 to grow faster and feel less overwhelmed?

Solopreneurs should stop doing activities that don’t directly support their audience, revenue, or energy. This includes creating content without a clear strategy, chasing “passive income” shortcuts, comparing their progress to others, managing every task themselves, and saying yes to clients or projects that don’t align with their core business. Letting go of these habits creates space for focus, clarity, and sustainable growth.

Is passive income actually realistic for solopreneurs, or is it mostly hype?

Passive income is possible for solopreneurs, but it is rarely instant or effortless. Sustainable passive income usually comes from productizing services, creating courses, books, or digital products after significant upfront work. Solopreneurs should avoid “get rich quick” promises and instead focus on building offers that reduce one-on-one time while still delivering real value and support to customers.

How do solopreneurs know what to say no to without hurting their income?

Solopreneurs should say no to projects that fall outside their core expertise, disrupt their workflow, or pull them away from their ideal clients even if the opportunity seems appealing in the moment. Long-term income stability comes from focus, consistency, and repeatable offers, not from taking on one-off or misaligned work that creates stress and inefficiency.

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If the word sales makes you tense up, this episode is about to change everything.

In this conversation, sales expert Adam Cerra breaks down why most solopreneurs struggle with selling, and it’s not because they’re bad at it. It’s because they’ve been taught the wrong mindset. Instead of “closing,” Adam introduces inverse closing, a way to turn sales calls into guided conversations where prospects sell themselves without pressure, manipulation, or feeling salesy.

You’ll learn how to stop pricing your time and start pricing your wisdom, how to run discovery calls that feel collaborative (not awkward), and how to follow up without chasing or feeling desperate. Whether you’re booking your first calls or already selling high-ticket services, this episode gives you practical, confidence-boosting shifts you can apply immediately.

Episode FAQs

What is inverse closing, and why does it work for solopreneurs?

Inverse closing is a sales approach where the solopreneur acts as an assessor rather than a closer. Instead of pitching, you guide the prospect to articulate their own needs and reasons for buying. This works especially well for solopreneurs because it removes pressure, builds trust, and aligns sales with service, making conversations feel natural and collaborative.

How can solopreneurs stop feeling “salesy” on discovery calls?

Solopreneurs stop sounding salesy when they shift from trying to convince someone to helping them self-evaluate. By asking thoughtful, emotionally driven questions and listening deeply, the call becomes a guided conversation instead of a pitch. This approach positions the solopreneur as a trusted authority, not a persuader.

What’s the best follow-up strategy if a prospect doesn’t buy on the first call?

Most prospects don’t buy on the first call, and that’s normal. A strong follow-up strategy treats the second call as a continuation—not a chase. By maintaining leadership, referencing prior conversations, and removing urgency pressure, solopreneurs can increase conversions without sounding needy or desperate.

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Ever wonder which tools and services you actually need as a solopreneur, and which ones are just shiny distractions?

In this episode of The Aspiring Solopreneur, Carly and Joe revisit one of the most debated sections of their book, Solopreneur Business For Dummies: setting up your company’s tools and services.

From creating rock-solid SOPs to knowing when to outsource, to avoiding the dreaded “tool overload,” they break down how to make smarter choices that actually save you time. Plus, they share how AI can help today (and where it still falls short). If you’ve ever felt stuck between doing it all yourself, hiring help, or buying yet another app, you won’t want to miss this conversation.

Episode FAQs

Should I outsource tasks as a solopreneur or keep doing everything myself?
You don’t need employees to be a solopreneur, but you also don’t have to do everything alone. Outsourcing to contractors or companies for specific tasks can save time and prevent burnout. The key is to outsource before you’re desperate. This way, you have time to properly train someone and set up processes that work.

How do I know which tools are worth paying for?
Start by identifying the specific problem you want to solve, then choose tools that are simple, affordable, and easy to integrate with your current setup. Avoid chasing “shiny objects” that solve problems you don’t even have yet. Use free trials strategically and actually test them on a real task during the trial period, and start with monthly payments until you’re confident it’s a good fit.

What should come first: documenting processes or finding tools and services?
Always start with documenting your processes in the form of standard operating procedures (SOPs). If you try to outsource or automate a broken process, you’ll only make the problems bigger. SOPs give you a clear, repeatable checklist that works whether you do it yourself, hand it off to someone else, or use a tool to automate it.

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Why is it so hard to explain what you do, even when you’re really good at it? 

In this episode, messaging strategist Damian Vallelonga breaks down why solopreneurs struggle with clarity, confidence, and consistency in their messaging, and what to do about it.

We talk about why referrals aren’t a strategy, how vague language quietly kills opportunities, and the exact framework Damian uses to help solopreneurs create elevator pitches, website headlines, and LinkedIn bios that actually make sense to other humans. 

If you’ve ever said, “I know what I do, I just don’t know how to explain it,” this episode is for you.

Episode FAQs

Why do solopreneurs struggle to clearly explain what they do?

Solopreneurs struggle to explain what they do because they know too much. Years of experience, details, and expertise live in their heads, making it hard to simplify their message for someone hearing it for the first time. Clear messaging requires stepping outside your own perspective and focusing on what your audience needs to understand, not everything you know.

What is the simplest framework for creating an effective elevator pitch?

An effective elevator pitch has three parts:

1. The common problem your ideal client is struggling with
2. What you do to help solve that problem
3. The outcome or transformation they experience as a result

This structure keeps your message focused, relatable, and easy to remember, without turning it into a list of credentials or services.

How often should solopreneurs update their messaging?

Solopreneurs should revisit their messaging any time their business changes in a meaningful way. This includes adding or removing services, narrowing a niche, shifting strategy, or changing who they serve. Messaging should always follow business strategy, because outdated or unclear messaging creates confusion, and confusion is one of the biggest barriers to growth.

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After years of working alongside solopreneurs, 2025 finally gave us something new: real data, real patterns, and real lessons we couldn’t ignore. In this episode, Carly and Joe step back from the nonstop AI conversation to unpack what actually moved the needle for solopreneurs this year, and what didn’t. 

From why “human-first” marketing is outperforming polished automation, to the growing importance of personal brand, systems, community, diversified income, and mental health, this is a practical, honest look at what it truly takes to build a sustainable solo business.

If you’re heading into the next year wanting less stress, more clarity, and a business that works with your life instead of against it, this episode breaks down the biggest solopreneur lessons of 2025, and how to apply them moving forward.

Episode FAQs

What were the biggest solopreneur lessons learned in 2025?

The biggest solopreneur lessons from 2025 were that human-first marketing outperforms automation, strong personal brands build more trust than “company-style” positioning, and long-term success depends on systems, community, diversified income streams, and mental health. Solopreneurs who focused on authentic connection, clear processes, and sustainable work-life balance were more resilient and experienced less stress than those chasing trends or over-relying on a single client or revenue source. 

Why does a human-first approach matter more than ever for solopreneurs?

A human-first approach matters because audiences are increasingly skeptical of overly automated, impersonal content. In 2025, solopreneurs saw stronger engagement and trust when they showed up as real people, sharing their perspective, personality, and lived experience instead of hiding behind polished brand language. Being authentic, transparent, and emotionally relatable helps solopreneurs stand out and build meaningful relationships, especially in an AI-saturated market.

How can solopreneurs reduce stress while growing their business?

Solopreneurs can reduce stress by building systems and processes, diversifying income streams, avoiding over-dependence on one or two clients, and intentionally protecting mental health and work-life balance. Investing time in documentation, automation, and community support creates long-term efficiency, while multiple revenue streams and customers reduce financial risk. Treating mental health as part of the business plan helps ensure the solopreneur, and the business, remain sustainable. 

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What if the reason your business feels stressful isn’t more work, it’s how you’re handling your money?

In this episode, Megan Schwan pulls back the curtain on the financial mistakes almost every solopreneur makes (especially early on) and how to fix them without becoming a numbers nerd.

We’re talking pricing mistakes, scope creep, avoiding your books, fearing taxes, and why most solopreneurs are unknowingly treating themselves like underpaid employees. Megan breaks down bookkeeping systems, tax strategies, and the Profit First method in a way that actually makes sense, and helps you step fully into the CEO role.

If you’ve ever said, “I’ll look at my numbers next month,” this episode is for you.

Episode FAQs

What bookkeeping systems do solopreneurs really need to stay organized?

You don’t need complicated spreadsheets or expensive tools, but you do need structure. Megan recommends:

• A real accounting software (like Wave, QuickBooks Online, Zoho Books, or Xero)
• A mileage and receipt tracking system to capture deductions
• A cash flow management system like Profit First to prioritize paying yourself, saving for taxes, and stabilizing cash flow

These systems help you treat your business like a business, not a side project.

What’s the first step if finances feel overwhelming or intimidating?

Start doing your bookkeeping consistently. Megan emphasizes scheduling regular time to work on your business, not just in it. Reviewing your reports and understanding where your money is going builds confidence, clarity, and better decision-making. Avoiding the numbers only makes problems bigger later.

How can solopreneurs become more recession-proof?

Two big moves:

• Create a budget so you have a plan for your money and can ask smarter questions when numbers don’t match expectations.
• Save for taxes proactively (about 8–15% of sales) so tax bills don’t derail your cash flow or peace of mind.

Megan also explains how Profit First helps solopreneurs build “real profit” and spot issues before they become emergencies.

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If the holidays feel like a chaotic mash-up of family gatherings, last-minute tasks, and pressure to magically “figure out next year,” this episode is your breath of fresh air.

Carly and Joe break down why December is actually the perfect time to prep your business, without overhauling your life, and how reconnecting with your why can completely change the way you enter 2026. They’ll walk you through mini-detox habits that clear mental clutter, lifestyle-first planning that puts joy back on the calendar, and small routines you can start now to build real momentum before January even arrives.

FAQs From The Episode

How early should I start planning for the new year?

Earlier than you think, but not in an overwhelming way. December is a great month to ease into planning by reconnecting with your personal and professional “why,” cleaning up digital clutter, and building tiny habits you want to bring into 2026. You don’t need a full-year plan, focus on your first 90 days, because it’s specific enough to take action but flexible enough to pivot as things change.

What should I prioritize during a December “business detox”?

Stick to high-impact clean-ups that reduce mental load: unsubscribe from emails you never read, unfollow accounts that drain your energy, organize your workspace, clear your desktop, and gather scattered to-dos into one place. These small resets set the stage for clearer thinking and a calmer January, without requiring hours of work.

How do I build new habits for 2026 without burning out before the year even starts?

Start practicing them now in micro-form. If you want to wake up earlier, try doing it one or two days a week in December. If you want to spend 10 minutes engaging on LinkedIn every morning, start this week. If you want to guard your deep-work hours, experiment with checking email later in the day. You’re not aiming for perfection, just building familiarity so January doesn’t feel like a hard reset.

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In this episode, Will Simpson gets honest about the moment he realized he didn’t want a boss. He breaks down the identity crisis that hit after leaving decades of COO/CTO life, the surprising advantage founders over 40 actually have, why solopreneurs must unlearn corporate thinking, and how embracing “good enough” is the key to launching anything.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re too late, too structured, too corporate, or too unsure to build something of your own…this conversation is the permission slip you’ve been waiting for.

FAQs From The Episode

What makes this episode valuable for solopreneurs who come from the corporate world?

Will explains exactly why corporate experience does translate, just not in the ways you think. He talks through the mindset traps, the “ambient stress” you leave behind, and how to rewire yourself for small-ball thinking, fast execution, and building something that actually energizes you.

Does Will think it’s harder to become a founder after 40?

Not at all, he argues the opposite. According to Will, founders over 40 bring unmatched domain expertise, resilience, and clarity. The data supports it, and he shares why experience gives mid-career professionals an overlooked edge that younger founders simply can’t replicate.

What’s Will’s top advice for solopreneurs who want to use AI or no-code tools?

He stresses that AI can help you build prototypes fast, but not without structure, constraints, and actual expertise guiding it. He breaks down why you can’t “speak” a fully functional app into existence, how to think like a builder instead of a coder, and why you should ship an MVP that’s slightly embarrassing.

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If you’re ready to create a business that supports your life instead of running it, this is the episode you need.

Carly and Joe dive into Step Zero of the Solopreneur Success Cycle: Defining Your Goals, and spoiler alert: it’s way deeper than “make money” or “gain freedom.”

You’ll learn how to uncover your true why, build goals that actually guide your decisions, and avoid creating a business you secretly resent. From toddler-style questioning to "change charts" and accountability hacks, this episode is your blueprint for building a business you actually like.

Whether you're dreaming, pivoting, or feeling stuck, press play before you plan another move.

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Okay friends, buckle up, because today’s episode is one of those “wait… why has no one explained success like THIS before?” moments. We’re talking with Kyle Austin Young who breaks down success not as a magical personality trait, but as something you can literally math your way into.

Kyle takes us into the world of probability hacking, a shockingly simple way to figure out your real chances of success in anything (launching a business, writing a book, running a marathon) and then shows you how to change those odds in your favor.

If you’ve ever wondered why some goals finally click, and others fall apart even when you want them just as much…this conversation is going to change how you think forever.

FAQs from the Episode
What exactly is probability hacking, and do I need to be good at math to use it?

Nope! Probability hacking is simply listing out everything that has to go right for your goal to succeed…then calculating your actual chances instead of relying on vibes and wishful thinking. Kyle walks through it using basic numbers you can do on your phone, no spreadsheets, and no formulas that look like they escaped from NASA.

How does this help me as a solopreneur?

Because solopreneurs love goals…but often underestimate how many things have to align to actually hit them. Kyle’s framework helps you see where your plan is fragile, what’s likely to derail it, and, most importantly, how to systematically remove risk so your odds of success jump dramatically.

How do I know whether to keep pushing or quit a goal?

Kyle doesn’t believe in quitting, he believes in pausing strategically. If your odds still look terrible even after removing risk, he suggests exploring alternate paths that may get you to your real underlying goal more efficiently. It’s not giving up; it’s probability-based pivoting.

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