The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers: Dating, Relationship, Masculinity & Intimacy Guidance For Men

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She asks what's wrong — your throat locks and you say "I'm fine." Then you go quiet for hours.

If you're in your 30s or 40s and shut down right when it matters most, this Avoidant Men episode breaks down why your body stops you, how silence kills trust faster than conflict, and how you turn solvable needs into terminal verdicts.

I share what I learned as a recovering avoidant and from coaching hundreds of men, plus the magic sentence to use when you freeze: name what's happening, say it's not about her, ask for minutes and come back.

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👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes

👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page

👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page

👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide

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Every lie you tell her started long before her. In this raw conversation, I sit down with men's coach Craig White to unpack where male lying really comes from — family patterns, shame, and the survival masks we learned as boys. Craig shares how he lied to dodge anger at home then carried it into every relationship, and the relational fitness practices that finally set him free. If you hide, deflect, or shut down when truth feels risky, this will hit home. Watch to learn how to stop hiding and start leading with truth.

Key Topics:

⭐ Masculinity, Emotional Masks & The Fear of Showing Your True Self

⭐ Shame, Dishonesty & Why Men Struggle to Tell the Truth

⭐ Patriarchy, Male Conditioning & The Pressure to Dominate

⭐ Vulnerability, Emotional Range & Redefining Strength

⭐ Toxic Masculinity, Cultural Conditioning & Breaking Generational Patterns

⭐ Male Leadership, Control & The Need to Always Be Right

⭐ Intimacy, Sexual Shame & The Shift from Performance to Presence

⭐ Relationships, Defensiveness & Learning to Take Responsibility

⭐ Male Loneliness, Emotional Suppression & Reclaiming Authenticity

⭐ Presence, Self-Regulation & Building Deeper Emotional Connections

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👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes

👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page

👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page

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Feel like commitment means losing your freedom? You're not broken — your nervous system mistakes closeness for captivity.

In this Avoidant Men episode, I break down why move-in talks trigger shutdown, chest tightness and fault-finding, how childhood rules and old relationship evidence keep the trap alive, and the hidden cost of choosing freedom over connection.

You'll get the gym analogy that reframes commitment, plus 3 practical steps to stay present, say what you need, and build secure freedom without losing yourself.

Join the live workshop below to go deeper. Perfect for avoidant men ready to love without feeling trapped now.

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Check out these FREE resources:

👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway

👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes

👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page

👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page

👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide

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I sat across from a woman raised in a culture where sex was never named — and who now teaches thousands how to unlearn that shame.

Karishma Swarup joins me to unpack how culture teaches sexual shame, why South Asian men dating in the West feel labelled creepy, and how men ruin sex by performing instead of connecting.

We get into the orgasm gap, porn scripts, the double life of kids raised between two worlds, and what parents must do differently.

If you carry shame you didn't choose, this conversation will help you hand it back as a man today.

Karishma Swarup (she/her) has completed a Master's in Public Health in the Social and Behavioral Sciences concentration at the Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health. She is an internationally experienced sexuality educator and advocate who runs a sex ed Instagram page @talkyounevergot. Karishma was awarded "Influencer of the Year 2021" by UK's NHS SH:24 and Brook. In 2023, she received a grant from UNESCO and RNW Media for Digital Sex Ed creators to create a course for other content creators in sexual health. Simultaneously, Karishma also worked at a social impact consulting firm, Dalberg Advisors to design large-scale strategies for global non-profits and multilateral organisations (like the UNDP).

During her undergraduate at Brown University, she volunteered with Planned Parenthood to teach sex-Ed to high-schoolers. In India, she conducts workshops & online webinars with top educational institutions, student groups and young adults.

Karishma is passionate about destigmatizing sexual health, facilitating health communication, and understanding how public health systems can better serve sexual health needs.

Key Topics:

⭐ Sex Education, Sexual Shame & Breaking Cultural Taboos

⭐ South Asian Culture, Family Expectations & Dating Restrictions

⭐ Patriarchy, Gender Roles & Redefining Masculinity

⭐ Consent, Rejection & Why Persistence Is Mistaken for Romance

⭐ Pornography, Unrealistic Expectations & Sexual Insecurity

⭐ Male Loneliness, Vulnerability & The Fear of Asking Questions

⭐ Body Image, Performance Anxiety & Sexual Confidence

⭐ Communication, Emotional Connection & Being Present During Sex

⭐ Female Pleasure, The Orgasm Gap & Mutual Satisfaction

⭐ Colonialism, Religion & The Cultural Roots of Sexual Repression

⭐ Harmful Dating Scripts, Media Influence & Changing Relationship Norms

⭐ Comprehensive Sex Education, Digital Access & Empowering the Next Generation

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👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway

👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes

👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page

👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page

👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide

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1️⃣ Work with me by emailing me "99" 👉🏽 [email protected] 2️⃣ How I went from avoidant to secure: From Avoidant Attachment to Intimacy: A Guide for Men 3️⃣ Why you keep pulling away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page Feel lonely in a relationship you actually want? If you're an avoidant man with voidant attachment , that distance isn't proof she's wrong — it's the pattern. David Chambers breaks why you shut down, create a chasm, and end up feeling like a ghost in your own home — and the damage: sadness, blame, her feeling on the outside, intimacy dying. Learn 5 steps to reconnect: name the moment, trace it to childhood, shadow work, emotional mastery, emotional risk-taking. Stop thinking your way out. Start feeling your way back. Get freebie Why You Pull Away + RELATE workshop details below. _____________

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Check out these FREE resources:

👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway

👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes

👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page

👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page

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Two recovering avoidants sit down for an honest conversation most avoidant men never hear.

If you've ever felt like the victim in your relationship, shut down during conflict, or used self-development to win arguments, this is for you.

David and Drew share how they stopped blaming their wives, took 100% responsibility, and learned vulnerability, empathy and emotional regulation to build secure, connected marriages.

This isn't theory — it's what healing actually looks like from the other side. Watch to see your patterns clearly and learn practical tools to change them.

Drew Daniels is a Relationship Coach who specializes in healing Anxious/Avoidant relationship dynamics for partners who feel doomed to repeat the same fights until they forfeit the relationship.

Drew has owned his Coaching Practice as a Certified Life & Trauma-Informed coach since 2021 and helped hundreds of partners embody a Secure Attachment Style. Prior to his practice he spent 10 years as a professional speaker in the faith & spirituality space, speaking to over 100,000 live audience members, while leading a weekly in-person community of over 200 young adults.

As a guy with a Fearful-Avoidant Attachment Style, Drew spent years of his marriage failing to create emotional safety because of his Avoidant patterns. As a child of divorce himself, he made it his mission to heal his attachment style and give voice to Avoidant Partners who fear they will never be good enough to fulfill their partners desire for emotional intimacy and connection.

Key Topics:

⭐ Avoidant Attachment, Emotional Withdrawal & Relationship Patterns ⭐ Vulnerability, Emotional Courage & Opening the Heart ⭐ Conflict Resolution, Healthy Repair & Rebuilding Trust ⭐ Accountability, Personal Responsibility & Lasting Change ⭐ Emotional Regulation, Nervous System Awareness & Self-Soothing ⭐ Defensiveness, Intellectualizing & Weaponized Psychology ⭐ Perspective Taking, Empathy & Understanding Your Partner's Experience ⭐ Shame, Fear of Not Being Enough & Core Relationship Wounds ⭐ Communication Skills, Honest Expression & Difficult Conversations ⭐ Self-Leadership, Emotional Maturity & Growth for Men ⭐ Intimacy, Connection & Creating Secure Relationships ⭐ Childhood Conditioning, Family Dynamics & Attachment Formation

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Check out these FREE resources:

👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway

👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes

👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page

👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page

👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide

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You end it, feel huge relief, then weeks later the regret hits. If you keep ending good relationships then missing her, this is the avoidant breakup cycle. In this Avoidant Men Series episode, David Chambers breaks down the avoidant attachment breakup pattern — why relief lies to you, why stress feels like incompatibility, plus the car analogy and Matt's story of getting back together. Learn 6 steps to break the cycle: see the pattern, label feelings, meet your protector, turn concerns into conversations, build emotional capacity, focus on the good. Stop ending good relationships. Watch now to build secure love. ______________

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Check out these FREE resources:

👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway

👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes

👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page

👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page

👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide

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How to be a great dad when you never had one? I sat across from a man who was terrified he'd become his absent father — and turned that fear into The Dad Edge, now 40M+ downloads of fatherhood advice for men.

Larry Hagner, founder of The Dad Edge and author of The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood, grew up with an absent, abusive father figure. In this conversation he breaks down the "drift" that pulls good men out of their marriage and fatherhood without them noticing, why marriage has to come before kids, and the 3 things your wife actually needs from you to feel seen, heard and safe.

If you grew up without a model for this and you're scared you're repeating it, this is the map for how to break it.

In this episode:

• Why high-performing men drift from their families even when they're "doing everything right"

• How to prioritize your marriage without neglecting your kids

• The skills gap no one taught men about love vs. the feeling of love

• How to build psychological safety so your kids tell you the truth

• Why male friendship is non-negotiable for fatherhood

Guest: Larry Hagner — Founder of The Dad Edge (40M+ downloads), author

Key Topics:

⭐ Fatherhood, Parenting Skills & Becoming a Better Dad ⭐ Breaking Generational Patterns, Childhood Wounds & Family Legacy ⭐ Absent Fathers, Father Hunger & Identity Formation ⭐ Emotional Regulation, Anger Management & Psychological Safety ⭐ Marriage, Partnership & Intentional Relationship Building ⭐ Masculinity, Personal Growth & Self-Leadership ⭐ Vulnerability, Courage & Emotional Honesty for Men ⭐ Men's Loneliness, Brotherhood & Meaningful Male Friendships ⭐ Community, Accountability & Iron-Sharpens-Iron Relationships ⭐ Presence, Connection & Emotionally Available Fatherhood ⭐ The Drift, Disconnection & Reclaiming Purpose in Family Life ⭐ Joy, Wellbeing & Creating a Fulfilling Life Beyond Work

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Larry Website: https://thedadedge.com

Larry Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheDadEdge

The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood ebook - https://thedadedge.com/legendary-fatherhood-book/

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👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway

👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes

👉🏽 30 Dating App Conversation Starters: https://www.theauthenticman.net/app-openers-landing-page

👉🏽 Why You Keep Pulling Away: https://www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page

👉🏽 Why you are REALLY fighting - https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/why-you-keep-fighting?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=conflict-guide

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Why do avoidant men get stuck in fault finding? If you have dismissive avoidant attachment you meet a good woman, then start flaw finding over how she texts, eats, laughs.

It's not standards. It's deactivation — fear spikes when she gets close, so you scan for faults to justify leaving.

In this Avoidant Men episode I break down why you do it, the damage to you and her, the wrinkles story that exposes what your criticism means, and 5 steps to stop binning women: reflect, name it, find the need, have the conversation, add praise.

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Check out these FREE resources:

👉🏽 5 mistakes in embodying healthy masculinity: https://mailchi.mp/theauthenticman/masculinity-mistakes-in-dating-giveaway

👉🏽 The Hidden Mistakes Men Make in Dating & Relationships: https://mailchi.mp/faaf98ceedd8/hiddenmistakes

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She can't open up to you — and it's not because she's broken.

I sat across from a woman who rebuilt trust with her own body after rape, domestic violence and years of chronic pain — and what she taught me about safety changed how I coach men.

In this episode, Sarah Carter reveals why male reactivity and shame shut women down sexually, why disconnection from your body kills attunement, and what true embodied presence actually feels like.

If she goes quiet, pulls away, or says 'it's fine' — this is why.

Watch to the end for the shift that creates real sexual safety.

Sara Carter is a Dance Artist, Embodiment Coach, Therapist and Mother who supports people in reconnecting with the wisdom of their bodies- beyond intellectual understanding into direct lived experience, through movement, meditation, creativity, and somatic inquiry. Her work weaves together embodiment practices, self awareness, creative exploration, and relational intimacy to help individuals cultivate greater authenticity, presence, well being and self-trust. Sara works with artists, performers, creatives, and purpose-driven individuals seeking deeper connection to themselves, their expression, and their lives.

Sara is especially passionate about empowering woman through her transformative offerings, to move from surviving to thriving, to living with embodied confidence and self care. She helps women struggling with midlife changes, such as menopause, as well as those on a path of healing and reclamation. Her own transformational success story of surviving the impact of sexual and domestic violence and now living a life she loves, has left her passionate about inspiring others to do so themselves. Dance and somatic movement has always been her medicine, grounding her work in the trust that the body holds a profound intelligence and all we need is already within us.

Sara's intention is simple: to help people come home to themselves so they can create, lead, relate, and live from a place that feels deeply aligned, intimately connected and fully alive.

Key Topics:

⭐ Trauma Recovery, Sexual Healing & Reclaiming Intimacy ⭐ Embodiment, Somatic Awareness & Mind-Body Connection ⭐ Vulnerability, Emotional Honesty & Authentic Expression ⭐ Shame, Self-Worth & Relationship Triggers ⭐ Communication, Consent & Conscious Intimacy ⭐ Trust, Safety & Secure Relationship Building ⭐ Self-Awareness, Personal Responsibility & Pattern Breaking ⭐ Self-Trust, Inner Authority & Living in Alignment

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