We all wanted our kids to talk.

We persisted, we prayed, and we paid for them to learn this skill.

And now… they have it.

But sometimes, that means hearing words that **sting**.

“I hate you!”

“That was terrible.”

“You’re annoying.”

After all that effort to help them communicate, **this** is what we get? It can feel like a punch to the gut.

But here’s what I want you to remember: *it’s not personal.

In this episode of *The Autism Mom Coach*, we’re breaking down:

•  Why autistic kids communicate so bluntly (and why it’s not the same as being rude).
•  How to stop taking their words personally—so you can respond, not react.
•  The simple mindset shifts that help you decode what they *actually* mean.
•  Why staying calm matters more than forcing politeness.

Tune in now to learn how to handle these moments with more understanding, less stress, and a whole lot more patience.*

Many of my clients have had this moment: “Wait… I think my husband is autistic.”Maybe it’s how literal he is. Maybe he hates socializing, disappears at family gatherings, or doesn’t pick up on emotional cues. And then there’s this—when you say *“I’m fine”*… *he actually believes you.

At first, it’s a relief—finally, an explanation! But then comes the frustration, the sadness, the overwhelm. What does this mean for your relationship? For your emotional connection? For the life you imagined?

In this episode, I’m breaking down:

• The emotional rollercoaster of realizing your spouse might be autistic.
• Why a diagnosis—*or his agreement with it*—doesn’t actually change your relationship.
• How your *thoughts* about him shape your experience more than anything else.
• Why even small efforts can be meaningful (if you choose to see them that way).
• The difference between accepting your spouse *as he is* and settling for less than what you want.If this is something you’ve been grappling with, you’re not alone. Tune in now for real talk, practical shifts, and a new way of looking at your relationship.

Listen now on *The Autism Mom Coach*!*

In this week's episode, I am sharing with you one of my favorite poems.

It is called “The Gift” by Dr. Shefali Tsabary, a clinical psychologist and author who teaches that children **aren’t here for us to "fix"—they are here to teach us**.

And who knows this more than Autism parents?

Tune in now to hear The Gift and how you can apply it to your Autism parenting journey today.

The Gift

Dr. Shefali Tsabary

In this episode, I’m answering a listener’s question: How can I teach my child patience—and how can I become a more patient parent? Patience isn’t something we’re born with—it’s a skill. And like any skill, it can be learned and improved with intention. But here’s the key: If you want to teach your child patience, you need to model it first.

I’ll walk you through practical strategies to:

• Build your own patience so you can demonstrate it in everyday moments
• Set SMART, achievable goals to help your child develop patience step by step
• Use tools like timers and narration to make waiting more predictable
• Reinforce patience with positive support—not pressure

If you ever feel like patience is impossible in your home, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn simple, actionable steps to help both you and your child build this essential skill. Ready to take this work deeper? Book a free consult with me at talkwiththeautismmomcoach.as.me.

Ever find yourself running through worst-case scenarios like, “What if my child has a meltdown in public?” or “What if I’m missing something critical?” This is anticipatory anxiety. It’s that relentless “what if” loop that keeps you stuck in fear, bracing for problems that haven’t even happened yet.

In this week’s episode of The Autism Mom Coach, I’m breaking down what anticipatory anxiety really is, how it shows up in your life, and why it’s stealing your energy. Plus, I’ll teach you a powerful strategy called positive projection to stop the cycle and start parenting with more confidence.

Don’t forget—my free webinar, “Stop Walking on Eggshells and Start Parenting with Confidence,” is happening tomorrow. I’ll go even deeper into how to break free from bracing for your child’s emotions. Register through the link here or my Instagram bio.

In this episode, we dive into the hidden costs of walking on eggshells as an Autism parent. I share my personal experience and insights from working with families across the country who struggle with this issue.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://theautismmomcoach.com/151

I'm shining a bright light on what it really means to walk on eggshells as an Autism parent. I share insights on how this impacts both you and your child, and most importantly, I provide actionable strategies to help you break free from this draining cycle. Get ready to reclaim your confidence and learn how to parent from a place of calm and stability.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://theautismmomcoach.com/150

Learn how to identify the limiting beliefs and stories that are holding you back, and how to reframe your thinking to find the opportunities for growth and progress. I also share some of the ways I help my coaching clients use reflection to create new patterns and strategies for themselves and their children. If you're ready to leave regret behind and embrace a fresh perspective, this episode is for you!

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://theautismmomcoach.com/149

I revisit the important topic of how coaching changes everything, helping you make the progress in your life that you really want to see. Tune in this week to discover how coaching changes the game for Autism parents. I share my own story of finding a coach who truly understands Autism and my experience as a Special Needs parent, and you’ll learn the foundational tools that helped me really embrace what coaching has to offer.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://theautismmomcoach.com/148

Learn how to step back from emotionally charged moments and view them from a more lighthearted, observer's perspective. This emotional distancing tactic, rooted in cognitive behavioral therapy, can help reduce stress, create space between you and the situation, and empower you to respond intentionally rather than react emotionally as an Autism parent.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://theautismmomcoach.com/147