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This week Melanie and I dig into some areas of personal dysfunction - practical things in our lives where we have largely operated as if we had no choice but to participate in poorly functioning systems (that sounds really serious, but I can assure that our discussion is not). We also spend some time celebrating the #5 Texas A&M Fightin' Aggies before we jump into the main focus of this episode: our 2020 Holiday Gift Guide, this week with gift ideas for teenage girls and guys.
All that to say: it's links aplenty in this week's show notes, and we hope that some of our gift suggestions will make your life a little easier this year. Next week we'll talk through our gift ideas for women and men, so GIDDY UP, everybody.
Hope y'all enjoy!
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Show Notes: (some are affiliate links)
- Threshold Gold Plated Utensil Holder
- Cereal containers
- Melanie's new printer
- Seychelles Offstage Chelsea boots
- Dolce Vita Huey Chelsea boots
- COOP HomeGoods pillow
- Offline Real Me Crossover High Waisted Legging
- Cattlebaron in Cashmere on IG
- Pure Sciences Neck Firming Cream
- Kleem Moisturizing Retinol Cream
Teenage Girls' Gift Guide
- Morgan Harper Nichols' prints
- Project 62 frame at Target
- Heather Schieder's prints
- UV LED Nail Lamp
- Galaxy Lights
- ABLE Rachel Wristlet (use promo code BIGMAMA25 for 25% off from now until the end of the year)
- ABLE Letter Necklace (use promo code BIGMAMA25 for 25% off from now until the end of the year)
- Retro Sweatshirts and t-shirts
-- Van Halen t-shirt dress
-- Red Hot Chili Peppers t-shirt
-- Beatles sweatshirt (all sizes)
- Disney+ Gift Subscription
- Chelsea boots in white (and here's a Zappos link)
- 4-in-1 charging station (great for girls or guys)
- Bath & Body Works Sweater Weather (any product in this scent)
- Massage gun for deep tissue (great for girls or guys)
- Desktop Bible verse calendar by Pearl & Rose Designs
Teenage Guys' Gift Guide
- Sports apparel (Melanie's favorite online retailer is Shop '47)
- Basketball shorts (Amazon Basics or Under Armour)
- Ice Mule
- Oofos Recovery Sport Slides
- Foot Massager
- Restaurant Gift Cards or Cash
- Spike Ball Set
- Goodfellow Knit Pajama Pants
- AirPods Pro (for girls or guys) - on sale at Amazon right now - $55 off
Show Notes:
- Prose (free in-depth hair quiz and 15% off)
- Thrive Market (sign up and receive a free gift of your choosing up to $24 in value)
- Native (use promo code BIGBOO for 20% off your first order)
- AcornTV (use promo code BIGBOO for 30 days free)
Well, we recognize that there's a lot going on this week (#election2020), so we do our best to PROVIDE SOME DISTRACTIONS. We talk about the storm that hit Birmingham last week, some exciting news in Melanie's family, and our unexpectedly reflective thoughts about 2020 in general and quarantine in particular.
We also discuss five of my current favorite things as well as the new devotional book I'm using in the mornings. Plus, we have a conversation about college football because DO YOU KNOW US AT ALL? :-)
Enjoy, y'all!
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Show Notes:
- Our Amazon Shop
- New Morning Mercies by Paul David Tripp
- Everyday Holy by Melanie Shankle
- Our beloved leather totes from Rural Route 3
- Stars Above Wide Leg Cozy Lounge Pants
- Dolce Vita Huey Suede Chelsea Boots
- Everspring Mandarin Ginger Dishwashing Liquid and Foaming Hand Soap
- Everspring Lemon & Mint Liquid Detergent
- Orolay Thickened Down Jacket
- Living Proof Dry Shampoo
- Somebody Feed Phil season 4 (IT IS A BALM)
Sponsors:
- Hydrant (use promo code BIGBOO for 25% off your first order)
- Magic Spoon (use promo code BIGBOO for free shipping)
- KiwiCo (use promo code BIGBOO for 50% off your first month)
- Thuma (use this link for free shipping on The Bed)
We recorded this episode when one of us (okay, it was me) was experiencing some significant sleep deprivation, but why let a little loopy-ness stop the podcast fun? We talk about an incredible meal we had in Pawhuska, a recent shampoo / conditioner revelation, and our new favorite TV show that's on Apple+.
In addition to all that goodness, Melanie shares an update on Imogene from Imogene's basement (we talked about it in episode 207), and she also weighs in with a verdict on her new pillow. COULD YOU EVEN IMAGINE MORE EXCITEMENT?
Hope y'all enjoy!
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Show Notes:
- P-town in Pawhuska
- Emily in Paris (this is not for the children)
- Ted Lasso (this is not for the children)
- Somebody Feed Phil (season 4 is out on October 30th!!!)
- Our Amazon Shop
- R&Co Dallas Biotin Thickening Shampoo
- R&Co Dallas Biotin Thickening Conditioner
- Coop Home Goods Pillow
- porcelain fluted coffee mugs
- Good Earth Sweet & Spicy decaf tea
- Black Rifle Beyond Black coffee
- Half Baked Harvest
- Cocina de Coco's King Ranch Chicken
Sponsors:
- NoteCube (use promo code BIGBOO for 20% off and free shipping worldwide)
- Best Fiends (download in the Apple App Store or Google Play)
We recorded this episode earlier this week when we were in Pawhuska, Oklahoma, so it's probably no surprise that we talk a little bit about our trip. Unfortunately, though, we recorded before we had the feast of our adult lives at Ree's P-Town restaurant Monday night, so we'll for sure have to talk about that next week. Perhaps we will have recovered from all the deliciousness by then.
We do cover some football ground this week - what with the Aggies defeating the Bulldogs and all - and we also answer one of your questions about the early days of motherhood. Plus, I share five favorites - NOW WITH THEME MUSIC - and Melanie tells us all about a recent shopping trip. FUN APLENTY, it is.
Y'all enjoy!
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Show Notes:
- Our Amazon Shop
- Pawhuska, Oklahoma
- Spicy Cowgirl coffee
- cast recording of Moulin Rouge! The Musical
- Karen Howell on Saban's coaching status
- Our friend / business manager Retha's A Better You webinar on Friday 10/23
- Offline Real Me High-Waisted Crossover leggings
- Stainless steel Yeti Ramblers for cold drinks
- All Rise by Gregory Porter on Apple Music and on Spotify
- L'anza Keratin Healing Oil Hair Plumper Finishing Spray
- Charles Hunter III on Twitter and on Instagram
- Center Stage reading glasses from Peepers.com
Sponsors:
- Magic Spoon (use promo code BIGBOO for free shipping)
- FabFitFun (use promo code BIGBOO for $10 your first box)
- Hydrant (use promo code BIGBOO for 25% off your first order)
This week was a real home run as far as our technical prowess, because something extra bizarre happened with my sound file the first time we recorded - so we had to re-record two days later.
We're just trying to stay on brand with 2020, apparently.
So what we have here is a barely-edited episode (which is why it's a little longer than normal) - just edited enough to put the ads in their appropriate places - and you'll have to trust that we did our best to stay enthusiastic even though what we would have really liked to do is quit. Look at our perseverance!
Enjoy, y'all. :-)
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Show Notes:
- Our Amazon Shop
- Universal Thread Amalia Fashion Boots
- Olukai Kalia Li - the shoes Perry bought and loved
- Emily in Paris
- Melanie's new magnifying mirror
- R+Co Dallas Biotin Thickening Shampoo
- R+Co Dallas Biotin Thickening Conditioner
- Coop pillow
- Revitabrow
- magnesium
- Bobbysue's Nuts
- Wind River by Bailey Caliber Outback hat
- Jessica Simpson house slippers
Sponsors:
- Best Fiends (download from the Apple App Store or Google Play)
- Hello Fresh (use code BIGBOO80 for $80 off across five boxes and free shipping on your first box)
- NoteCube (use code BIGBOO for 20% off and free shipping worldwide)
There's only one way to sum up how the college football weekend turned out for Melanie and me: it was not ideal. So on this episode we discuss our respective disappointments (in fairness, Melanie seemed to handle things much better than I did) and do our best to believe there are great football days ahead. You can almost smell the optimism.
We also talk about what Melanie's watching, why she wants some new living room chairs, and what in sam hill is going on with her computer (I complain a little about that last thing). If all that weren't enough, I confess some sentimental feelings and share my new booties obsession. DOESN'T THAT SOUND LIKE MORE FUN.
Hope y'all enjoy!
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Show Notes:
- Our Amazon Shop
- Lane Kiffin's suit
- Ted Lasso
- Emily in Paris
- Assets by Spanx at Target
- Pickwick & Co. Tamboti Wood Candle
- Dale Chelsea boots
- Dolce Vita Huey Suede Chelsea boots
- Crevo Maeve Suede Block Heel Chelsea boots
- Sorel Lolla Cutout bootie
- I took Melanie's advice about a Target "starter boot" and ordered these instead of the pricier Anthro booties
Sponsors:
- KiwiCo (30% off your first month plus free shipping)
- Hydrant (use promo code BIGBOO for 25% off your first order)
- Magic Spoon (use this link for free shipping)
Normally Melanie and I try to show some restraint during college football season, but this week, between the start of SEC football, Mike Leach's coaching debut with Mississippi State, and my Bulldogs winning in Baton Rouge, WE HAVE SO MUCH TO SAY. Thank you in advance for your patience with us during this very exciting time.
In addition to talking about football, football, and LO, MORE FOOTBALL, we discuss my day-o-fun at a student leadership retreat and five of Melanie's current favorites.
Enjoy, y'all!
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Show Notes:
- Our Amazon Shop
- Lane Kiffin and his baseball jersey
- Weekend at Bernie's in the stands
- Mike Leach says last Saturday was "better than average"
- Coach Leach's postgame speech
- Pickwick & Co. Leather, Tobacco, & Woods candle
- Revitabrow
- Goodfellow & Co. quilted pullover
- Family Savvy's Spicy Hamburger Soup
- Spotify Time Capsule playlist (this is the one Spotify made for me - but any Spotify user has one)
- Opal Ice Machine
- Melanie's new cereal bowls
- Poppies on Blue china
Sponsors:
- Hydrant (use promo code BIGBOO at checkout for 25% off your first order)
- Prose (use the link for 15% off your purchase and a free in-depth hair quiz)
- Best Fiends - download on the App Store or Google Play
- Living Proof Live Simulcast (use promo code BIGBOO5 for $5 off your simulcast ticket) (this is always one of our favorite events of the year!)
If listening to Melanie and me troubleshoot our technical issues is your idea of quality podcast material, then this, my friends, is going to be the episode of your dreams. Our ish-ahs are thanks to a clicking noise that I believe to be the result of a short in one of Melanie's USB ports, but what matters most, I think, is that Melanie's reactions to the whole situation are SOLID GOLD.
In addition to our showing off our technical prowess, we also spend some time in this episode talking about SEC football, homegating food, Coach O's Power Hour, the delightfulness of dresses, and Melanie's 162nd closet cleanout of 2020.
Hope y'all enjoy!
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Show Notes:
- Mississippi State / LSU in 2014
- Coach O's Power Hour
- The Social Dilemma
- Beach Read by Emily Henry
- Sophie's latest dress BFF (Melanie would say to wait until it's on sale - which is what I did)
- The Good Word series from The Old Try
- Thrive Causemetics Brilliant Eye Brightener
- Altra Timp 2.0
Sponsors:
- Hydrant (use promo code BIGBOO to save 25%)
- Acorn (use promo code BIGBOO to get your first 30 days for free)
- FabFitFun (use promo code BIGBOO to get $10 off your first FFF box)
If you listened to last week's episode, then you won't be surprised to learn that the first thing we address on this episode is WHAT IN THE WORLD HAPPENED WITH THE BOOTIES? It might well be the biggest cliffhanger in the history of our little podcast. Our own version of Who Shot JR?, only with shoes. And no oil fortune. And no guns. But other than that, IDENTICAL.
In addition to a booties update, we talk about foot problems, Perry's upcoming 50th birthday, books, and my new favorite socks. And of course we talk about high school football and college football because we sort of enjoy it. You may have picked up on that.
Thanks for listening, y'all!
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Show Notes:
- Marc Fisher Oshay booties (Melanie got them 1/2 price in Cloud)
- Farm Rio Benicia wide-legged pants (I got these on sale, and Melanie would tell everybody to wait patiently because they will go on sale again)
- Our friend and business coach Retha, who is determined to make me develop routines so that I better manage my time :-)
- Cloth & Stone Zia buttondown
- The meme Alex posted (ALL IN FUN, everyone - ALL IN FUN)
- The last play in the Hillcrest / Wetumpka game
- Gait Happens on IG
- Balega UltraGlide Friction-Free No Show Socks for Men and Women
- Kleem Organics Anti-Aging Retinol Moisturizer
- In Five Years by Rebecca Serle
- David Foster: Off the Record
- Ted Lasso on AppleTV+
- @nextdoorlife on Instagram
- Emily Freeman's Autumn playlist
- Erin Moon's Faith Adjacent episode about Hamilton
- Free People Arden tee
- AE Voop oversized tee
- Offline Real Me high-waisted legging
Sponsors:
- Native (use promo code BIGBOO for 20% off your first order)
- Prose (use this link for your free in-depth hair quiz and 15% off)
- Care/of (use promo code BIGBOO50 for 50% off your first order)
You'll be shocked to know that we talk about football on this episode (including our favorite stay-up-to-read-the-post-game-news wins), and we also break down a little Real Housewives because, well, WE ARE STILL IN A PANDEMIC.
On top of all that excitement, we discuss what we're reading, five things I'm enjoying right now, and the harrowing situation with Mel's most recent booties order from Nordstrom.
Please do enjoy.
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Show Notes:
- Our Amazon Shop
- Kirk Herbstreit on GameDay
- State / Auburn game in 2014
- A&M / Bama in 2012
- LuAnn singing "Happy Birthday" to Dorinda on RHONY
- Outfits on this year's RHOBH reunion
- "Viva La Diva"
- The Heir Affair
- Majesty by Katherine McGee
- In Five Years by Karen Serle
- Transcendent Kingdom by Yaa Gyasi
- Our business coach, Retha
- Our 200th episode playlist on Apple Music
- Our 200th episode playlist on Spotify
- I've Got a Testimony by Melvin Crispell, III
- Chef's Table: BBQ
- Pilcro cords from Anthropologie
- OPI Muse of Milan Collection
- Suzi Talks with Her Hands
Sponsors:
- KiwiCo (get 30% off your first month plus FREE shipping on any crate line)
- Thrive Market (use the link to start your risk-free membership and receive a gift up to $22 in value)
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