If your friends are telling you to hire a PI to look into your husband, chances are he's doing something shady. So why did this marriage officially end over a disagreement over having kids and not...something else? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(04:26): How they met

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(11:12): The first signs something was wrong

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(15:13): Why she asked for a divorce

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(17:01): What she found out when looking for closure

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(26:24): Their secret engagement

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(24:24): Reflecting with the hindsight she has now

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(34:46): Reflecting on the relationship

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(37:05): Advice

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(47:40): Teaser

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When you feel like your partner is cheating on you, you usually have an idea as to who that person is, so how do you not feel crazy when you think they're stepping out on you...with their sibling? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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This Week We're Raising Awareness for Hubbard House in Jacksonville, FL: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(04:43): How they met

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(08:12): Introduction of the biological family

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(10:53): Finding the photos in his phone

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(17:33): The final straw

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(25:32): Reporting the incest

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(28:44): Reflecting on the relationship

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(34:18): Healing from the relationship

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(39:05): Advice

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(41:25): Teaser

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[CONTENT WARNINGS: abuse, sexual assault]

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The BUBD Live Podcast Recording release has been postponed- will be available June 18th, 2024

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This week we're raising awareness for Friends of Yates in Kansas City: https://friendsofyates.org/FOY/?page_id=55

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(04:52): How they met

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(09:58): The first break up

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(12:01): When they got back together

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(15:53): The second break up

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(19:37): Their secret engagement

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(24:24): The end of their relationship

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(30:07): Why her friends were concerned about their relationship

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(34:46): Reflecting on the relationship

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(37:05): Advice

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(40:57): Teaser

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Saying we have a lot to unpack from S3E11 would be an understatement. Trauma therapist Katherine Ripley joins the podcast again to explain the difference between Intimate Partner Violence and Domestic Violence. She explains how to identify it and how to plain a safe exit strategy if you or someone you love finds yourself in an abusive relationship.

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(00:00): Intro

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(00:27): Defining the difference between domestic violence and intimate partner violence.

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(04:18): Early signs that your partner may become abusive

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(09:24): How to create a safe exit plan if you're in an abusive relationship

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(11:48): Why victims may return to their abusers

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(13:55): How to accept that the person you love is abusive

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(16:17): First steps for victims of IPV

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(18:12): Words of encouragement for victims

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CW: Domestic Violence/Abuse

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This episode originally aired on March 21st, 2023.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(06:08): How they met

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(11:04): Introducing Sarah

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(12:27): How the couple became a throuple

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(22:28): When she decided she wanted out of the throuple

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(29:38): When the police were called

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(32:10): When charges were pressed

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(43:08): When she went to jail

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(53:01): When she went to trial for the first charges

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(01:05:00): Reflecting on what she's learned

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(01:14:00): Teaser

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CW: This episode discusses domestic violence, thoughts of suicide, child abuse, sexual assault, and gun violence.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(01:05): Submission #1

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(03:32): Submission #2

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(05:29): Submission #3

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(07:24): Submission #4

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(12:49): Submission #5

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(14:24): Submission #6

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(15:57): Submission #7

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(17:09): Submission #8

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(20:01): Submission #9

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(22:58): Submission #10

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