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Saying we have a lot to unpack from S3E11 would be an understatement. Trauma therapist Katherine Ripley joins the podcast again to explain the difference between Intimate Partner Violence and Domestic Violence. She explains how to identify it and how to plain a safe exit strategy if you or someone you love finds yourself in an abusive relationship.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Intro

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(00:27): Defining the difference between domestic violence and intimate partner violence.

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(04:18): Early signs that your partner may become abusive

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(09:24): How to create a safe exit plan if you're in an abusive relationship

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(11:48): Why victims may return to their abusers

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(13:55): How to accept that the person you love is abusive

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(16:17): First steps for victims of IPV

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(18:12): Words of encouragement for victims

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This episode originally aired on March 21st, 2023.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(06:08): How they met

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(11:04): Introducing Sarah

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(12:27): How the couple became a throuple

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(22:28): When she decided she wanted out of the throuple

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(29:38): When the police were called

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(32:10): When charges were pressed

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(43:08): When she went to jail

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(53:01): When she went to trial for the first charges

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(01:05:00): Reflecting on what she's learned

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(01:14:00): Teaser

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CW: This episode discusses domestic violence, thoughts of suicide, child abuse, sexual assault, and gun violence.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(01:05): Submission #1

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(03:32): Submission #2

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(05:29): Submission #3

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(07:24): Submission #4

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(12:49): Submission #5

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(14:24): Submission #6

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(15:57): Submission #7

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(17:09): Submission #8

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(20:01): Submission #9

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(22:58): Submission #10

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Your sugar daddy of 3ish months goes MIA right before your big vacation...when all of a sudden you get a ransom note from his # asking for 500k. Obviously a scam right?! This week's guest got way more than she bargained for when he finally came back into her life....and revealed the months long investigation he as a part of. What went down?! Let's find out when we break down this week's break up.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:45): How they met

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(18:24): When the went MIA

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(27:24): When he came back

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(32:00): Where did he go for all those months?

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(49:33): Looking back on her sugaring experiences

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(54:46): Advice/reflection

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(58:00): Teaser

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When you and your new boyfriend have to shack up with your ex, things are bound to get uncomfortable. This week's guest says her shared lease with her ex turned into a shared nightmare with her new boyfriend after her break up. How did they get here?! Let's find out when we break down this week's break up.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(04:32): How they met

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(12:16): Her last straw

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(16:40): The break up

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(20:52): When he wouldn't move out

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(24:51): Reflecting/Advice

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(27:40): Teaser

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Sometimes you have to be your own PI when you think your partner is cheating on you. When a gut feeling leads her to pay up to Tinder to see if her mans was out there looking for a side-piece, she was surprised how quickly she was able to find his profile. How did these two college sweethearts get to this place?? Let's find out when we break down this week's break up.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(05:22): How they met

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(09:58): The demise of the relationship

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(14:04): What led to the Tinder profile creation

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(19:19): Why she stayed

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(21:32): The social media posts

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(22:16): Reflecting/advice

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(25:35): Teaser

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