Her indie musician bf wrote and performed a song about them breaking up for her...while they were still together! Would you stay with someone who was already planning the end of the relationship?!

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This week we're raising awareness for Abuse Counseling & Treatment, Inc.: https://actabuse.com/

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:28): How they met

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(14:19): The wrong parts of the relationship

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(17:31): The start of the relationship

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(23:33): Their continued relationship after the break up

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(37:17): Being afraid of rejection in your relationship

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(41:52): The good things about the break up/lessons learned

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(44:28): Figuring out how to escape her ex

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(48:08): Teaser

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You know that friend that won't break up with their toxic partner? Admit it we all have one...and this week...we're talking to one of my coworkers who says he stayed because his ex wouldn't let him dump her....

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This week we're raising awareness for My Sister's House in Charleston: https://www.mysistershouse.org/about-us

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:30): How they met

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(13:36): The breaking point for him

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(20:34): When he got back together with her

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(23:09): The final break up

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(32:03): The overlap time of his two relationships

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(43:36): How men/women view commitment

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(51:31): Teaser

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We haven't spent enough family time this holiday season...so let's keep it in the family this episode....This week we have a submission a la TikTok where a woman says her husband and mother had an affair that led to their divorce!

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This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(04:41): How they met

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(13:51): The first major problem in their relationship

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(20:17): When her mom became enmeshed in the relationship

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(28:56): Possible Grooming Behavior

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(35:01): Discovering the affair

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(47:11): Confronting her mother and husband

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(57:30): The aftermath of the conflict

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(01:05:00): The continuation of the affair post-conflict/divorce proceedings

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(01:09:46): Therapy journey/domestic violence resources

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(01:13:39): Reflecting/advice

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(01:19:32): Teaser

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[CONTENT WARNINGS: miscarriage/loss of child, infertility, domestic violence, grooming]

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This episode originally aired on Dec. 8th, 2022

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You already know Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin are already a bit messed up...so we decided to make a whole episode talking about their attachment issues! LCSW Kat Schneider joins the podcast as well to give a professional take on attachment styles and even relates them to 'The Office' characters!

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(02:26): Episode break down/our personal attachment problems

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(16:15): Conversation with LCSW Kat Schneider

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This reply episode originally aired on Dec. 6th, 2022

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This week we're raising awareness for The Hubbard House in Jacksonville, FL: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(05:28): This week's submission

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(7:03): How they met

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(10:39): Introducing her best friend

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(12:01): When her boyfriend confessed their betrayal

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(15:05): Why she stayed with her boyfriend

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(18:27): How the relationship developed after the infidelity

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(23:48): The final straw for her

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(32:14): Healing after the breakup

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(36:26): Advice for "starting over" after a long-term relationship

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(37:52): Teaser Clip

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(01:00): Submission #1

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(02:21): Submission #2

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(04:23): Submission #3

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(06:35): Submission #4

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(08:44): Submission #5

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(10:12): Submission #6

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(11:27): Submission #7

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(13:32): Submission #8

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(14:39): Submission #9

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(16:08): Submission #10

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Season 5 Kicks off on January 2nd- here are some of the submissions we may get to do deep dives on next year....

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(01:50): Submission #1

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(04:05): Submission #2

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(05:30): Submission #3

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(07:00): Submission #4

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(09:07): Submission #5

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(10:54): Submission #6

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(12:09): Submission #7

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(14:16): Submission #8

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(16:19): Submission #9

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(18:42): Submission #10

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Amy from New Perspectives: https://newperspectivesforlife.com/

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