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[CW: kidnapping, sexual assault, intimate partner violence]

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(04:47): How they met

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(11:32): When she started to learn about his past

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(19:56): When she started to see his true colors

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(28:10): When she started to ask questions

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(32:555): When she broke up with him

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(38:10): The suspicious "closure" dinner

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(44:28): Figuring out how to escape her ex

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(51:10): The aftermath/the court cases

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(57:47): Reflecting/what she learned

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(01:01:00): Teaser

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[CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, kidnapping, suicidal ideation]

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Thank you to Candice from The Christian Closet for coming on!: https://www.thechristiancloset.com/

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(04:52): How they met

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(06:58): The first break up

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(09:01): When they got back together

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(12:53): The second break up

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(16:37): Their secret engagement

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(21:24): The end of their relationship

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(27:07): Why her friends were concerned about their relationship

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(31:46): Reflecting on the relationship

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(34:05): Advice

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(37:57): Teaser

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[This episode originally aired during Season 2)

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Timestamps:

(00:00) - (01:01): Intro

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(01:01) - (04:28): Discussing the season/submission

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(04:28) - (05:17): How they met/the "love" story

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(05:17) - (07:06): Red Flags

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(07:06) - (12:43): When things took a turn for the worst

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(12:43) - (15:30): Forming the plan

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(15:30) - (19:12): Executing the plan

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(19:12) - (23:18): How her ex fought back

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(23:18) - (27:20): The unexpected aftermath

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(27:20) - (33:55): Reflecting on the situation/advice/moving on

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(04:02): How they met/the early relationship

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(07:25): The first signs of infidelity

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(15:16): How he handles the first confrontation

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(23:39): The aftermath of the second bout of infidelity

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(27:45): Reflecting on the mistress' part in it

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(30:18): Reflecting on her ex's part in it

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(35:17): Reflecting on why she was in this relationship

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(39:24): How TikTok impacted her break up

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(44:11): Advice she'd give after this experience

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(45:34): Teaser

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This week's main episode also touched on SA. Hear Amy and I's conversation on codependency and SA here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5KjJ9fJRkAwYE0Z4PMn0af?si=ILYLEbUyQRWN60z407amBQ

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:51): How they met

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(05:31): The cracks in their relationship

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(08:29): When the relationship really started to fall apart [CW: sexual assault]

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(11:52): The final straw

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(14:11): Reflecting on her SA

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(16:46): Reflecting on reasons why she stayed in the relationship

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(19:23): How his family played into the break up

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(23:37): How she moved on from the relationship

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(27:56): Healing from her SA

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(33:02): Advice

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(36:33): Teaser

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[CONTENT WARNINGS: Sexual Assault]

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