Breaking up is hard enough, but when you have to do it multiple times because your ex, well, doesn't want to be your ex.... it's even tougher. This week we'll hear from a man (there's a third time for everything!) who says he tried ending his relationship but his ex insisted they were divinely chosen to be together. How did he finally break things off? We'll get the deets when we break down this week's break up.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(06:12): How they met

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(10:34): The red flags

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(16:58): The initial break up

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(22:39): The final break up

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(31:48): When it finally ended/the aftermath

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(35:06): Reflecting/advice

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(44:07): Teaser

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On your wedding day, the last thing you're expecting is for your fiancee to walk in and cancel on you. Like, could we not have had this conversation two years ago?! This ex-bride says that's exactly what happened to her. After she attended her wedding (alone) she thought that was the end, but a few months later she'd get a call from him that would send her spiraling.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:01): How they met

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(06:56): The start of their major problems

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(20:58): When calls off their engagement

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(28:29): Attending her wedding alone

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(33:31): The calls she got from him after their engagement ended

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(39:40): Reflecting/advice

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(49:27): Teaser

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Usually I'd say "the other woman" never owes you anything, but if they're your best friend they should at the very least think twice before having an affair with your husband. This week's interviewee says her best friend had at least one baby with her soon-to-be-ex-husband. Why did she stay with him for years after? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:55): How they met

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(09:35): The red flags

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(12:52): What the relationship was like

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(17:00): What actually ended the relationship

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(24:09): Learning more after the break up

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(31:40): Advice/reflecting

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(45:31): Teaser

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Liberty Shultz, best known for documenting her 50 first dates on social media, joins Abby to talk about how to be more comfortable being uncomfortable in dating and relationships.

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Usually I'd say "the other woman" never owes you anything, but if they're your best friend they should at the very least think twice before having an affair with your husband. This week's interviewee says her best friend had at least one baby with her soon-to-be-ex-husband. Why did she stay with him for years after? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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This week we're raising awareness for I am Voices Inc. in Charleston, SC: http://www.iamvoices.org/

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:36): How they met

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(11:49): The red flags

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(18:56): Why end the relationship long after the infidelity?

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(24:28): Why forgive him, but not the bestie?

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(26:09): Reflecting/advice

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(30:33): Teaser

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Relationship expert Kate Mansfield joins Abby in London to explain how men communicate differently than women do in relationships.

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Nelly, the #1 Dating Coach for High-Value Women & Men joins Abby on the podcast to talk about manifesting your dream relationship...and even drops some personalized advice for her on how to land her next relationship.

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Relationship expert Kate Mansfield joins Abby in London to tell you how you can tell if your new boo just really likes you....or if you're getting love bombed.

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