The only thing lonelier than singleness is feeling alone in your marriage. When this week's interviewee said she felt her husband pulling away, she thought it was just because they were growing apart. It wasn't until after the divorce that she found out the distance between them ran much deeper than personality differences. We'll hear about the shocking call between the ex-wife and the new GF, when we break down this week's break up.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(06:16): How they met

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(11:08): The first signs something was off

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(15:44): The end of their marriage, aftermath

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(18:01): The shocking call from her ex's new GF

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(19:31): Reflecting

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(26:08): Advice/healing from the divorce

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(31:08): Teaser

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Brawny model and eating disorder advocate, Ryan Sheldon bares it all on his escapades as a gay man looking for love in the digital swipe culture hellscape that is modern dating. F*ckboys Are Boring is a raw, hilarious dating guidebook for everyone.

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Getting cheated on isn't good. Getting cheated on with 50 or so people is really not good. Getting cheated on by someone who knows they're putting your health at risk.....you know the rest.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(06:19): How they met

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(10:17): The red flags

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(14:58): His final straw

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(21:28): Reflecting/advice

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(26:49): Teaser

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You know what they say...those that break up together...show up at their mutual exes' job and confront him together. Right? This Bonnie & Clyde duo plotted to make a scene after finding out they were being played and of course nothing goes to plan. Let's get the details when we break down this week's break up.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(07:07): How they met

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(08:18): The red flags

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(13:03): Confronting the ex-gf

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(16:05): Plotting to confront him

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(23:15): Reflecting/advice

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(26:43): Teaser

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This episode originally aired in Season 5

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We haven't spent enough family time this holiday season...so let's keep it in the family this episode....This week we have a submission a la TikTok where a woman says her husband and mother had an affair that led to their divorce!

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(06:41): How they met

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(15:51): The first major problem in their relationship

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(22:17): When her mom became enmeshed in the relationship

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(30:56): Possible Grooming Behavior

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(37:01): Discovering the affair

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(49:11): Confronting her mother and husband

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(59:30): The aftermath of the conflict

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(01:07:00): The continuation of the affair post-conflict/divorce proceedings

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(01:11:46): Therapy journey/domestic violence resources

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(01:15:39): Reflecting/advice

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(01:21:32): Teaser

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[CONTENT WARNINGS: miscarriage/loss of child, infertility, domestic violence, grooming]

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If you've decided to open up your bf's phone, you already know something is up....but what exactly? When a mutual friend sends you sus screenshots from an app you never thought you'd see your man on, you decide to do some digging and end up finding information that could change your life entirely. We got all the deets when we broke down this week's break up!

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(05:17 ): How they met

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(10:22): The first signs something was wrong

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(14:57): Why she stayed

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(17:22): Confronting him/the aftermath

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(21:38): Advice

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(22:24): Teaser

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