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The Brendan Scholefield Show episodes

June 19, 2024 Inner Work VS. Outer Work - Ep. 043
Entering mature manhood with both feet requires doing the "inner-work". A man must get right with himself, his past, and where he comes from. Once he's done this, he is freed up to do the "outer work" of acquiring, accomplishing, achieving, and becoming the man that he wants to be. In today's episode, Brendan explains the ins and outs of what can be a complicated and confusing topic for many men.
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(00:50) Updates
(04:55) Intro
(05:16) Defining Inner Work vs Outer Work
(08:56) Men fall into these two extremes
(12:05) Which is more important? Which should a person start with?
(14:11) Why do men avoid inner work?
(18:51) How to actually do inner work.
(25:22) How does Christ tie into all of this?
33 min
June 12, 2024 Dr. David Edgington | Abusive Wives & The Sins Of Women - Ep. 042
Is a wife's sin her husband's responsibility, and is there even such a thing as an "abusive wife"? Our highly feministic culture usually suggests that any wrong a wife does in her marriage was somehow triggered by her husband's poor behaviour or poor performance. This thinking leads to not only a whole lot of marriage dysfunction, but sadly a whole lot of divorce.
In the first ever Masculine Revival Podcast interview, Brendan sits down with Dr. David Edgington to discuss several controversial topics pertaining to marriage and how a couple can flip an unhealthy marriage dynamic into a functional one that honours each other and God.
Grab Davids Book, The Abusive Wife: Ministering To The Contentious Woman - GET IT HERE
View Davids Website - HERE
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1 hr 12 min
June 07, 2024 How To Tell If She Is The ONE - Ep. 041
Join Brendan for the much anticipated 41st episode of the show as he briefly addresses parting ways with Mike, and then dives into the topic of how to properly assess compatibility for marriage and how to know if a woman is worth marrying!
New content coming out weekly again. Thank you for your patience and understanding!
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🔹 Brotherhood (Men’s Groups)
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33 min
April 24, 2024Catholicism, Dating Advice & The New World Order - Ep. 040
Brendan & Mike answer 16 questions from the audience on a variety of topics.
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INTRO (00:50)
Why are men waiting to get married later? (02:35)
Should you pursue women when you are early 20s? Or trust will provide? (06:45)
Tips on long distance dating? I met a guy I like but he is on the other side of the country… (09:14)
Should we worry about the new world order, conspiracies, and other hard issues? (12:53)
Can Mike explain how he became catholic, sad to hear this… Brendan are you catholic, or just mike? (15:23)
Thoughts on Mark Driscoll calling out the pastor for having a male stripper at that mens event? (29:00)
Courtship app. I’m based in Toronto, 38y Female. Should I try it? Are there many men in the pool? More info please. (31:40)
Why do you think some men struggle to commit to a godly relationship? (32:52)
What to do if your partner is into conspiracy theories? To be fair, he helped me not to get the vax… (36:30)
How to convince someone who believes they have no incentive to get married without shaming? (40:34)
Ever thought about starting a tribe network to connect with like-minded men? Any local groups in california? (42:55)
How do you personally disciple your wife as her spiritual authority? (43:40)
How do you talk to a brother in Christ about his failing at being a leader in his marriage? (47:33)
With rampant materialism and greed in the world, how should we view money as christians? (49:36)
When do we begin the rebellion against the reptilians that are making the frogs gay? (51:56)
In a time where I want to be single, what should a young man be focusing on? (52:52)
57 min
April 17, 2024 Masculine Development Through Strength Training- Ep. 039
Join Mike for a solo-episode where he shares about his strength training and weight-loss journey, as he offers advice on where to start, why strength training is important, the negative aspects of gym culture, how to approach the gym as a Christian, and more!
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🔹 Brotherhood (Men’s Groups)
Structured, high-accountability men’s groups for those serious about leveling up in life, faith, and leadership
https://masculinerevival.com
🔹 Couples Coaching
Strengthen your marriage or relationship with my personalized support
https://masculinerevival.com/couples
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36 min
April 10, 2024 The Self-Help Delusion - Ep. 038
A deep dive into the world of self-help, healing and personal development. Too often men and women get lost in doing "inner work" and endlessly obsess over trying to heal and improve themselves. In this episode, Brendan and Mike bring some clarity to what can be a confusing topic for many. Join us for yet another entertaining and informative episode!

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🔹 Brotherhood (Men’s Groups)
Structured, high-accountability men’s groups for those serious about leveling up in life, faith, and leadership
https://masculinerevival.com
🔹 Couples Coaching
Strengthen your marriage or relationship with my personalized support
https://masculinerevival.com/couples
🔹 1:1 Mentorship for Men
Focused coaching for men committed to personal growth, purpose, and leadership
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INTRO (00:50)
What are your thoughts on self-help as a whole? Is it all bad? (04:11)
Should men always being growing/striving? (13:30)
Is self-love something that men and women should be striving towards? (22:15)
Should people do “inner work” or try to find healing prior to entering a relationship? (30:15)
How can a person actually find resolution and healing? (39:00)
How can a person get over a victim mindset? (40:40)
Would you change anything on your own personal development journey if you could go back and do it over again? (46:00)
54 min
April 03, 2024The Marriage Vibe Check (It's Time To Get Real..) - Ep. 037
Hard truths and sobering reminders about the reality of marriage and married life. If you want a thriving marriage, are in a rut in your marriage, or need a mindset overhaul when it comes to your marriage, we've got you covered in this episode.

Get Brendan's Marriage Check in HERE
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🔹 Brotherhood (Men’s Groups)
Structured, high-accountability men’s groups for those serious about leveling up in life, faith, and leadership
https://masculinerevival.com
🔹 Couples Coaching
Strengthen your marriage or relationship with my personalized support
https://masculinerevival.com/couples
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Focused coaching for men committed to personal growth, purpose, and leadership
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INTRO (00:50)
Marriage does not exist to make you happy. (03:50)
Online relational content often causes more harm than it does good. (14:15)
Thinking that all relational problems stem from your man’s lack of masculinity is delusional. (19:18)
Anything less than radical responsibility and extreme ownership in your marriage is a failure on your part. (24:50)
“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (27:25)
Holding onto bitterness, resentment and being unforgiving will destroy your marriage. (34:50)
Stop fantasizing about what would be, or could be, or should be, and face reality. (39:15)
46 min
March 27, 2024Stop Playing House: Get Married Or Move On - Ep. 036
Discussing living together before marriage, boyfriend/girlfriend culture, the glory of being a husband and father, and how to approach courtship properly!

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🔹 Brotherhood (Men’s Groups)
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https://masculinerevival.com
🔹 Couples Coaching
Strengthen your marriage or relationship with my personalized support
https://masculinerevival.com/couples
🔹 1:1 Mentorship for Men
Focused coaching for men committed to personal growth, purpose, and leadership
https://masculinerevival.com/mentorship
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INTRO (00:50)
Our stories, did we play house? (05:05)
What do you think about boyfriend/girlfriend culture? (10:08)
Why is playing house wrong and why should a couple not live with each other before marriage? (24:29)
What should a couple do if they are already living together before marriage? (33:55)
How should a couple properly navigate being boyfriend and girlfriend? (36:12)
51 min
March 13, 2024Cancel Culture, Political Correctness & Prepping - Ep. 035
How should men navigate cancel culture? Should men disregard political correctness entirely? Do we believe in "Agenda 2030" and are we preppers? Brendan & Mike discuss all of this and more, and also share their story of (almost) being cancelled by their payment processing company last week!
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🔹 Brotherhood (Men’s Groups)
Structured, high-accountability men’s groups for those serious about leveling up in life, faith, and leadership
https://masculinerevival.com
🔹 Couples Coaching
Strengthen your marriage or relationship with my personalized support
https://masculinerevival.com/couples
🔹 1:1 Mentorship for Men
Focused coaching for men committed to personal growth, purpose, and leadership
https://masculinerevival.com/mentorship
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INTRO (00:50)
How do you think that men should navigate cancel culture? (09:43)
Would you quit a high paying job if the culture was extremely woke and gay? (16:59)
What is "political correctness"? (21:17)
Should men be true to their convictions and disregard political correctness entirely? (26:10)
Do you believe in agenda 2030? (32:50)
With that being said, what do you think about the concept of "prepping"? (40:19)
Do you think prepping is biblical? (43:11)
51 min
March 06, 2024 The Hard Truth About Being A “Nice Guy” - Ep. 034
Brendan & Mike discuss “nice guy syndrome” exploring what it is, where it comes from, why it’s a problem, and ultimately what a man should do about it if he has it!

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🔹 Brotherhood (Men’s Groups)
Structured, high-accountability men’s groups for those serious about leveling up in life, faith, and leadership
https://masculinerevival.com
🔹 Couples Coaching
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INTRO (00:50)
What is nice guy syndrome? (06:00)
Where do you think “nice guy syndrome” comes from? (10:25)
What are some problems that men will run into when they are stuck in the nice guy routine? (19:50)
Why do women not trust or respect nice guys? (27:37)
How can a man overcome nice guy syndrome? (32:43)
What should a woman do if she is with a guy who has nice guy syndrome..? (41:55)
52 min

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