Pam and Mike Estes are military caregivers with an extraordinary story of dedication and resilience. At age 19, their son Jason, a brave veteran, faced severe challenges with a traumatic brain injury and burns during his service in Iraq. From the life-altering phone call that started it all, Pam and Mike's journey has been marked by their strength and determination, all while navigating the complexities of the healthcare system.

Their story isn't just a testament to their family's love and commitment; it's an inspiring tale for military families who find themselves in similar caregiving roles. Pam and Mike's experiences underscore the importance of seeking support, adapting to changing circumstances, and never giving up in the face of adversity.

In this episode, we'll delve into their remarkable journey, uncovering the valuable insights and guidance they've gained over the last 17 years. Join us as we explore their story, drawing inspiration from their unyielding spirit and discovering the essential lessons they have to offer for anyone on their caregiving journey.

In this episode, you will be able to:

• Discover the unique caregiving experiences of military families and gain insights into their journeys of resilience and strength.
• Explore the challenges caregivers face and learn how they navigate the healthcare system, inspiring your own caregiving journey.
• Understand the importance of support organizations for military caregivers and learn how they can provide valuable resources and guidance in your caregiving role.
• Find out how to discover activities and therapies that can drive recovery for your loved ones with brain injuries, boosting their progress and well-being.
• Discover self-care strategies for caregivers in challenging situations, empowering you to take care of yourself while caring for your loved one with a brain injury.

About Pam and Mike:

Caregivers for son Jason, who was severely injured in an IED blast in Baghdad, Iraq on December 11, 2005. Jason suffered a traumatic brain injury, 2nd and 3rd degree burns to 60% of his body, and multiple leg fractures leading to a lower leg amputation. 

Both worked at full-time jobs (Mike, a Systems Engineer, and Pam, a Payroll Manager) while caring for Jason until their move from MD to VA in 2016. Following the move to VA, Mike and Pam have continued their caregiver roles and advocating for continued therapies. Mike has participated in the Wounded Warrior Project Caregiver’s Summit (which led to caregiver benefits). Pam was a member representing caregivers on the VA Advisory Committee of OIF/OEF Veterans and Families appointed by VA Secretary James Nicholson.

Mike and Pam also have a daughter and son-in-law and, in 2020, welcomed a grandson.

Wounded Warrior Project
www.woundedwarriorproject.org
Matt Schultz (based out of Jack

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