Host: Tristan Lim, Chief of Staff Network Fellow and Founder, Beyond Founders
Guest: BreeAnne Yek, Chief of Staff, Series A MedTech and luxury wellness startup
Episode Overview
Almost every piece of advice given to Chiefs of Staff points outward. Manage the principal, manage the team, run the process. BreeAnne Yek's argument is that none of it works until you can manage the one system you actually control, which is yourself.
She and Tristan Lim get into behavioral design as a core Chief of Staff skill, the difference between someone's intent and their skill, and what to do when a working relationship breaks past the point of repair.
About BreeAnne Yek
Bree started in Singapore's public sector at the Attorney-General's office, in knowledge management and training and development. Watching an enterprise system fail on contact with actual human behavior is where her people-before-process philosophy comes from. The system had been designed three years before she arrived, and the people who built it understood the workflow but not the humans running it.
She was headhunted into business development for oil and gas services, found she liked the revenue side of a business, and left in 2019 to build in climate. Her last startup was a Kickstarter-style platform that let people fractionally lend to climate projects, so the nonprofits and SMEs behind them could move off philanthropic capital toward something sustainable.
She's unusually direct about the two things she got wrong by the time that startup ended. She's now Chief of Staff to a Brazilian founder at a Series A, SF-based startup with a clinical device aimed at sports recovery and athletic performance. She works from Singapore.
Key Takeaways
- Understand how people already behave before you try to change anything. A process that makes sense on paper and falls apart in practice usually failed at the human layer, not the design layer.
- Assume good intent, then check for a skills gap. Most breakdowns with a principal aren't malice. They're communication, and communication is a skill that can be refined.
- Skill includes bandwidth. When someone overcommits, it's usually an honest misread of their own time and emotional capacity, not a broken promise. The same applies to you, which is the point.
- The best influence doesn't look like influence. Reflect the question back, let people work through their own thinking, then nudge the outcome slightly left or right. Asking directly for what you want rarely gets it.
- Ask whether it will kill the company in the next half hour. If not, drop the cortisol. But know which moments (fundraising, investor interest, user acquisition) genuinely can't wait, and move fast on those.
- Sometimes the repair is leaving. If you've honestly asked whether you adapted hard enough and you're still holding back the mission, someone else should take the seat.
Bree and Tristan met at a Chief of Staff Network event in Singapore earlier this year. This episode also picks up on Tristan's essay on life after being a Chief of Staff: https://www.chiefofstaff.network/blog/life-after-being-a-chief-of-staff
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