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Do procrastination, complaining, and victim thinking impact your day-to-day life without you even realizing it? As part of our Mental Fitness Series, author John G. Miller joins us for an eye-opening episode about how we can shift negative thought patterns with his “Question Behind the Question” (QBQ) concept.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
[03:49] What Does “QBQ” Mean + How Is It Built on Negative Thought Patterns?
[06:15] “We Can Only Change Ourselves”
[08:10] The Importance of Acknowledging Our Feelings Then Moving Forward
[11:33] What Are “Incorrect Questions? And How Do They Perpetuate Victim Thinking?
[13:48] How Can Parents Balance Accountability And Consequences Without Falling Into Blame Or Fear-Based Parenting?
[17:52] What Question Can Shift Us From Procrastination to Purposeful Action?
[20:53] Have You Ever Said, “I'm Waiting on God for Answers”?
[23:58] The Power of Believing “I Can Only Change Me”
[26:40] Alicia’s Reflections: Are You Taking This Conversation as Personal Alignment, or Are You Taking Offense? Take Some Time With The Lord and Let It Simmer in Your Heart
RESOURCES:
Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.
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304: Stop Negative Thought Spirals: “Get Off the Mat” + “What Thoughts Will You Let Land?” (Mental Fitness Series)
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Do you deal with negative thought spirals? You have the ability to take control of your thoughts, and today I want to show you how. This is first episode of our mental fitness series where I’ll share practical tools and powerful reminders of what’s possible when we choose which thoughts we allow to “land” in our minds.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
[01:23] What is Mental Fitness and How Does It Help with Negative Thought Spirals?
[05:04] It’s Up to Us: Will We Rise to the Challenge and Take Control of Our Thoughts and Emotions?
[11:27] We Must Choose to Take Control of the Lies and False Mental Narratives That Keep Us Stuck
[15:19] We Must Decide That Mental Discipline Is Worth Training For
[17:53] Try This Practical Skill to Take Control of Negative Thought Spirals
RESOURCES:
Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.
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302: How Toxic Thinking Led to Infidelity and How Managing Emotions Led to Healing with Mark and Jill Savage
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Are father wounds unknowingly impacting your emotions in marriage? Sometimes, we do not realize where our emotional triggers in marriage come from, and today, we are shining the light on them. Join us as counselor Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield discusses how we can heal from father wounds and build emotional confidence along the way.
This episode discusses some heavier topics, so please take care of yourself and reach out for support or sit with the Lord if you feel triggered and extra tender after listening.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
[04:23] What Are Father Wounds?
[07:20] How to Know if a Struggle is Rooted in a Father Wound
[12:01] “The Father Wound Has a Strong Origin in Satan Himself”
[15:40] How Can We Break The Generational Cycle of Trauma?
[21:37] What Are The Signs of Father Wounds in Marriage and Parenting?
[24:43] The Importance of Addressing These Wounds
[27:29] Using The “HEAL” Acronym to Work Through Bitterness and Anger Towards Our Fathers
[34:48] Alicia’s Reflections: If This Was Triggering For You, Take Some Time to Take Care of Yourself Today and Reach Out For Additional Support if Needed
RESOURCES:
Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.
Connect with counselor Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield
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299: Emotions in Marriage: When Should You Share (and When Should You Not)?
300: Healthy Ways to Share Emotions in Marriage Using the A.D.D. Method
301: What to Do When Your Husband Shuts Down Emotionally with Sathiya Sam
302: How Toxic Thinking Led to Infidelity and How Managing Emotions Led to Healing with Mark and Jill Savage
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Navigating emotions in marriage isn’t always easy, but the right mindset can make all the difference. Today, marriage coaches Mark and Jill Savage join us to discuss the importance of changing your mindset in marriage because when you change your thoughts, you change your relationship.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
[04:23] Mark and Jill’s Story of Repairing Their Marriage After Infidelity
[12:11] The Concept of Emotional Constipation and Emotional Diarrhea
[15:15] How Did Emotions Play Into Their Marriage?
[19:48] How Can Couples Manage Their Toxic Thoughts and Emotions in Marriage?
[23:08] “Every Single Day We Have New Opportunities to Rewire Our Brains”
[31:44] The Importance of Daily Discipline & Changing Your Thoughts
[38:01] Alicia’s Reflections: What Are You Focusing on In Your Marriage?
RESOURCES:
Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.
Connect with marriage coaches Mark and Jill Savage
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299: Emotions in Marriage: When Should You Share (and When Should You Not)?
300: Healthy Ways to Share Emotions in Marriage Using the A.D.D. Method
301: What to Do When Your Husband Shuts Down Emotionally with Sathiya Sam
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How can we support the men in our lives in recognizing and processing their emotions - without it leading to conflict? If you’ve been looking for ways to improve communication in marriage, this episode is for you. International speaker Sathiya Sam joins us to share his insights on building emotional intimacy and preventing emotional shutdown in marriage.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
[04:13] What Emotional Challenges Do Men Face?
[05:56] Why is Anger The Most Socially Acceptable Emotion For Men?
[09:12] How Sathiya Helps Men Step Into and Emotionally Process More Passive Emotions
[13:36] How Can We Encourage the Men in Our Lives to Recognize and Embrace Their Emotions?
[17:57] Connecting Sexual Intimacy with Emotional Intimacy
[23:44] How Can We Help Men See The Importance of Emotional Expression?
[27:16] Supportive Ways to Approach an Emotionally Charged Topic
[34:45] Understanding Different Processing Styles - Verbal vs Internal Processor
[39:09] Alicia’s Reflections: How Can We Help Our Relationships By Presenting These Concepts From a Supportive Perspective?
RESOURCES:
Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.
Connect with international speaker Sathiya Sam
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299: Emotions in Marriage: When Should You Share (and When Should You Not)?
300: Healthy Ways to Share Emotions in Marriage Using the A.D.D. Method
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Are you looking for a tool to help you with expressing emotions in marriage? Last week we discussed why it is important to bring our emotions to God first, but what happens when we need to express our emotions in marriage? Join me today as I share how we can use the ADD method to build emotional confidence in our relationships.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
[00:39] The Importance of Working Through Our Emotions with God First
[02:51] 5 Ground Rules For Processing Emotions in Relationships
[11:05] Why Is It Important to Use Calming Techniques Before and After Intense Conversations?
[12:48] The First Step in Using the ADD Method For Emotions in Marriage - Acknowledge
[16:30] The Second Step in Using the ADD Method For Emotions in Marriage - Discern
[20:24] The Third Step in Using the ADD Method For Emotions in Marriage - Decide
[26:00] Want to Learn Additional Tools to Help You In Marriage? Stay Tuned for Upcoming Episodes!
RESOURCES:
Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.
How Emotionally Confident Are You? This 2-Minute Quiz Will Reveal Your Biggest Challenges in Managing Emotions (plus 3 Action Steps to Find More Calm and Peace Based on Your Persona!)
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299: Emotions in Marriage: When Should You Share (and When Should You Not)?
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We all desire emotional intimacy but should we share all of our emotions in marriage? Today we are exploring why emotional regulation and seeking God’s wisdom before we go to our partners with our emotions can strengthen our relationships. If you want to improve your mindset in marriage and create deeper connections, join me today!
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
[00:39] Emotions Are Healthy But They Do Not Have to Guide Our Future
[04:19] Feeling a Big Emotion? Take It to God First
[09:19] Do You Place Unrealistic Expectations on Your Partner?
[12:09] 2 Questions to Ask Yourself While Processing Your Emotions with the Lord
[16:08] Bringing Your Emotions to God First Strengthens Your Relationship with Him and Your Marriage
RESOURCES:
Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.
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296: Are You In an Emotionally Toxic Friendship?
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What’s your mindset around getting older as a Christian woman? Aging often impacts women’s confidence, especially in our western culture. In today’s episode (in honor of my 50th birthday!), we’re talking about uplifting ways to process your emotions and build godly confidence during this stage of life.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
[02:52] Are You Questioning Your Role, Body Changes, or Purpose During This Stage of Life?
[07:42] The Importance of Refocusing Our Thoughts on The Reality of Life
[09:58] 5 Powerful Truths to Focus on as We Grow Older
[19:52] 5 Action Steps We Can Use to Support Us As We Navigate Aging
RESOURCES:
Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.
Want to restore your soul in beautiful Tuscany? Join us for an unforgettable 10 days of rejuvenation, exploration, and fun in Italy!
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262: Learning to Age Gratefully with Heather Creekmore
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How can you believe in God’s love when the wounds of the past feel overwhelming and you’re dealing with broken trust? Whether you’ve dealt with a betrayal in a relationship, hardships in life, or church hurt - you are not alone in what you’re going through. If you are having difficulty trusting God after you’ve been hurt, today’s episode with author Rachael Adams will bring some healing into your life.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
[05:15] Have You Been Hurt and Are Doubting God’s Love?
[09:08] How Can We Use God’s Love to Start Over in Unthinkable Situations?
[12:40] How Can The Idea of “Loving Fearlessly” Help Us to Move Forward When We Are Wounded?
[17:00] What Can We Do If We Feel Unloveable and Undeserving of Receiving God’s Love?
[21:06] I Read All of The Bible Verses and Still Don’t Feel God’s Love - What Do I Do?
[22:56] Reflecting on 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
[25:06] Alicia’s Reflections: We Cannot Gloss Over The Difficult Moments - Be Willing to Sit in The Muck
RESOURCES:
Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.
Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!
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Friendships are a beautiful gift from God, but have you ever experienced a toxic friendship that crossed emotional boundaries? In today’s episode, I share key signs of a toxic friendship and how to set boundaries around them – especially if you struggle with people-pleasing.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
[02:04] What is an Emotionally Toxic Friendship?
[05:11] “A Healthy Friendship is Based on Mutual Truth and Care”
[08:37] How Do Friendships Vary in Purpose and Support?
[11:54] Are You in an Over-Dependent Relationship?
[18:37] Tools We Can Use to Set Boundaries in Toxic Friendships
[22:53] Do You Want The Fear of Offending Someone to Stop You From Making Healthy Choices in Friendships?
[25:00] Should We Always Bring Up Boundaries in Toxic Relationships?
[27:20] Friendships Do Not Replace Our Relationship With God
RESOURCES:
Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.
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Ready to know how to manage emotions for more calm, stronger relationships, and a closer walk with God? Want to implement the concepts discussed in my book "Emotional Confidence"? Then join the Emotional Confidence Club!
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You love God. You want peace… but your emotions feel loud, exhausting and overwhelming.
If you’re tired of feeling anxious, emotionally exhausted and stuck in overthinking loops,…
Most Christian women were never taught how to manage emotions in a healthy, biblical way, especially in the middle of real life.
I’m Alicia Michelle, an ICF-certified life coach (ACC, CPLC), NeuroCoach and author of Emotional Confidence. I’m also the host of this multi-award-winning podcast, where I help Christian women learn how to manage emotions using brain science and Scripture so they can respond with calm, clarity and confidence — not emotional chaos.
On the podcast, we talk honestly about anxiety, fear, emotional overwhelm, people-pleasing, perfectionism, disappointment and navigating emotions in marriage, motherhood and family life. You’ll learn practical emotional management tools that help you acknowledge what you’re feeling while still honoring biblical truth.
With nearly half a million downloads and 7 years running, by God’s grace this podcast has helped tens of thousands of Christian women build emotional confidence rooted in faith.
I’m so glad you’re here! Join me every Monday for a new episode and let's talk about how to stop reacting emotionally and start responding with clarity, calm and confidence.
🎁 Want a simple place to start? (FREE GIFT FOR YOU!) 🎁
I created a free 7-day course called Notice + Name Your Feelings to help you slow down and understand what you’re actually feeling — without judgment or overwhelm.
It’s a short, practical tool that helps you stop spiraling and respond with more peace and clarity.
Start the free course here: AliciaMichelle.com/feelings

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