Ever received a “thank you” so thoughtless it made you question your entire working relationship?
In sales, success is never solo—but too many high-performers forget that when it's time to show appreciation. This episode explores the true cost of transactional gratitude and how it erodes trust, loyalty, and long-term collaboration.
In this episode you will:
- Hear the real story behind a $37 gift that became a lasting leadership lesson.
- Discover why generic appreciation gestures fail—and what meaningful gratitude really looks like.
- Get practical steps sales leaders can use to coach their teams into building stronger ops relationships.
Hit play to learn how to turn year-end appreciation into a long-term advantage your entire team feels and values.
Postscript: Here’s another ridiculous little anecdote from a podcast listener.
When I bought [Construction Supply Company in South Carolina] we only had five outside sales reps and one of them was 70 percent of our gross profit. He was a real prima donna who treated all of the inside salespeople and drivers like dogsh** on his shoes. I always got complaints from those who had to work with him so, the first Christmas after buying the company, I suggested to him that he give some token of appreciation to those people who helped him make over $200K a year. His response to me was, “Those people are getting paid to do those jobs. Why should he have to give them anything extra?” I wasted some breath explaining to him why and he finally said he would take my advice and give a Christmas present to everybody he worked with.
A week later, I had our branch manager come to me with a $25 Chili's gift card he had gotten from our top salesperson. He would have been better off giving him nothing than insulting him with the Chili's gift card. To add insult to injury he then expensed those gift cards. I, of course, denied the expense and my relationship with our top salesperson went downhill from there.
If some people aren't raised right, there's just nothing you can do about it.
If you’re ready to stop competing on price and start having the right sales conversations that win business, send us a note at [email protected]—let’s talk.
In The Craft of LBM Sales, we tackle real-world sales challenges in the lumber and building materials industry, including handling sales objections, improving phone sales, and what to do when you can't close deals. Learn how to land new business, strengthen your negotiation skills, and build a reliable sales pipeline—even if you currently have no sales process in place. We also explore proven sales techniques, value selling strategies, overcoming sales rejection, hitting your sales goals, and navigating tough conversations around discounting.