Jude discusses the concept of Happiness As A Self-Defeating Solution and why aligning your thoughts and feelings in an attempt to be happy is paradoxically leading to disappointment and sadness. He shares his 4 steps to attaining lasting happiness.

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Resources:
Jude's Medium.com article - Happiness As A Self-Defeating Solution https://thedivorceddadvocate.medium.com/happiness-as-a-self-defeating-solution-fa83cf358dcc?sk=7ecd4b29334181cf39ea87837686c4f4
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 When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve an amazing life for you and your children. This week we discuss Step 5 which is to Master Your Psychology.

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Resources:
Jude's Medium.com article. Dads' Guide to Divorce Step 5: Master Your Psychology
https://thedivorceddadvocate.medium.com/dads-guide-to-divorce-step-5-master-your-psychology-d8625df4c11c?sk=d9fbd7b4be17dbc6f638e0673fcc9d38
The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle - https://www.eckharttolle.com/power-of-now-excerpt/
Mindfulness Toolkit - http://www.mindfulness.tools/
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
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Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/ 

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When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve an amazing life for you and your children. This week we discuss Step 4 which is to Optimize Your Environment. Jude also offers a special, FREE offer and massive discount!

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Resources:
Jude's Medium.com article. Dads' Guide to Divorce Step 4: Optimize Your Environment
https://medium.com/@jts4agape/dads-guide-to-divorce-step-4-optimize-your-environment-275d7ebf61ae
Willpower Doesn't Work - Benjamin Hardy - https://www.amazon.com/Willpower-Doesnt-Work-Discover-Success-ebook/dp/B073P421QC
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/ 

Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme  

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When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve an amazing life for you and your children. This week we discuss Step 3 which is to Upgrade Your Skills. Jude also offers a special, FREE offer and massive discount!

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Resources:
Jude's Medium.com article. Dads' Guide to Divorce Step 3: Upgrade Your Skills
https://medium.com/@jts4agape/dads-guide-to-divorce-step-3-upgrade-your-skills-bad1557fb9c3?sk=93221423f06b13098ad74dbed31b0cf6
Love and Logic parenting - www.loveandlogic.com
Happify.com's video on Mindfulness - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w6T02g5hnT4
Headspace.com's mindfulness meditations - https://www.headspace.com/mindfulness
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/ 

Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme  

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When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve an amazing life for you and your children. This week we discuss Step 2 which is to Strategize Your Actions. Jude also offers a special, FREE offer and massive discount!

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Resources:
Jude's Medium.com article. Dads' Guide to Divorce Step 2: Clarify Your Vision
https://medium.com/@jts4agape/dads-guide-to-divorce-step-2-strategize-your-actions-d93822d4f736?sk=1bfb99f92e7759d1f1bb20e7bf8c3f08
Reggie River's TedX talk - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5jSzcW7EtQk
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/ 

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In this episode Jude discusses why ignoring your problems will eventually lead to it becoming a dragon that will consume your life.

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Resources:
There's No Such Thing As A Dragon book - https://www.amazon.com/Theres-No-Such-Thing-Dragon/dp/0375851372/ref=sr_1_1?crid=24C9FDPVWS2FR&dchild=1&keywords=there+is+no+such+thing+as+a+dragon&qid=1601578217&sprefix=there+is+no+such+thing%2Caps%2C207&sr=8-1
Jordan Peterson's YouTube video about There Is No Such Thing As A Dragon - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J54FMA895OA
Jordan Peterson's YouTube video about Never Ignoring Small Signs - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAs0JKj9YzA
Jude's Medium.com article. Dads Guide to Divorce - Step 1 - Clarify Your Vision - https://medium.com/@jts4agape/dads-guide-to-divorce-step-1-vision-6d3dc0ee19b1?sk=e7349b5b69a9614fb641f305f2562d9a 
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/ 

Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme  

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 When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve an amazing life for you and your children. This week's show features Step 1 - Clarifying Your Vision and Direction. In it he gives you a simple 2-step process and specific ideas on how to implement them. He also offers a special, FREE offer and massive discount!

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Resources:
Jude's Medium.com article. Dads' Guide to Divorce Step 1: Clarify Your Vision - https://medium.com/@jts4agape/dads-guide-to-divorce-step-1-vision-6d3dc0ee19b1?sk=e7349b5b69a9614fb641f305f2562d9a
The Power of Commitment: A Guide To Active, Lifelong Love by Scott Stanley - https://www.amazon.com/Power-Commitment-Guide-Active-Lifelong/dp/0787979287
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/ 

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Jude discusses his recent article at Medium.com (https://medium.com/@jts4agape/the-dirty-word-sacrifice-509fd41795ec) The Dirty Word: Sacrifice. The concept of sacrifice has been badly distorted in our modern day society. Listen to learn why and how sacrifice can be beneficial to your life.

Resources:
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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Are you experiencing divorce from a narcissistic ex? Attempting to co-parent with a narcissistic ex? Duane Robert the founder of DadSurvivingDivorce.com and the DSD podcast joins Jude to talk about how to help men survive a narcissistic divorce. Topics discussed include:
What is narcissism?
What are signs of a narcissistic ex?
Strategies to deal with a narcissistic ex!

Resources:
Duane's website - www.DadSurvivingDivorce.com
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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Alain Dumonceaux the founder of TheAwakenedMan.net website and the Band of Brothers joins Jude to discuss the 5 Pillars of Man. 

5 PILLARS OF MAN
1 - Living a Purposeful Life
2 - The Man Box - Creating A New Identity
3 - The Psychology of Connections
4 - The Precepts - The Guide Posts For Living a Purposeful Life
5 - Marriage Success - Creating a Space For Two

Resources:
Alain's website - www.TheAwakenedMan.net
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life book - https://www.jordanbpeterson.com/12-rules-for-life/
Winning Your Wife Back Before It's Too Late book - https://www.goodreads.com/work/editions/1275832-winning-your-wife-back-before-it-s-too-late
The Good Fight book - https://store.lesandleslie.com/products/the-good-fight

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