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When Eights Finally Trust: Power, Vulnerability & Faith with Deanna Sudom

Wholehearted Enneagram: A Year Through the Types | Type Eight | Episode 1 of 4

What if the most powerful person in the room is also the most guarded, and for very good reason?

Enneagram Eights are often misread as bulldozers. The memes paint them as intense, controlling, and hard to be around. But underneath that strength is something most people never get close enough to see: one of the most tender, loyal, justice-driven hearts in the entire Enneagram.

In this episode, Amy sits down with spiritual director and co-teacher Deanna Sudom to open the Wholehearted Enneagram Eight month. Together they explore what's really driving the Eight's intensity, why vulnerability feels so costly to them, and what it looks like when an Eight finally learns to trust God, others, and themselves.

Both Amy and Deanna are raising Enneagram Eight daughters, which means this conversation comes with a level of tenderness and firsthand insight you won't find in a meme.

Whether you're an Eight, love an Eight, or just need to access your inner Eight this season, this episode is for you.

In this episode:

• What most people miss about the Eight's assertiveness and anger
• The core fear driving the Eight's need for control and what they're really longing for
• False scripts the Eight might believe, and the voice of love that counters each one
• Why vulnerability feels like weakness to an Eight and why that's worth examining
• How Eights experience God, where they connect, and where they resist
• The spiritual practice that can shift everything: naming vulnerability out loud
• A scripture that reframes weakness as the very place God's power shows up

Deanna Sudom is a spiritual director and co-teacher on the Wholehearted Enneagram Podcast.

https://www.simplywholehearted.com/deanna-sudom

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