There’s a moment every single morning that most women blow right past.

The moment before the world rushes in.

Before your phone lights up.

Before your to-do list hijacks your nervous system.

That moment is where your power lives.

In this episode, I’m sharing the two questions I ask myself every morning — questions that didn’t just change my habits… they changed my identity.

Because here’s the truth I had to learn the hard way:

You can’t perform your way into a new life.

And behavior change without identity change is just burnout in prettier packaging.

This conversation goes straight to the root of how transformation actually works — neurologically, somatically, and in real life — and why the right questions rewire your brain faster than any morning routine ever could.

Inside, I take you deep into how to stop living from obligation and start living from sovereignty, pleasure, and choice.

Inside the Episode, We Explore:

🔥 Why most women try to change their lives from the outside in — and why it never sticks

🔥 The neuroscience of identity and how your brain is shaped by repetition

🔥 Why affirmations don’t work (and what does)

🔥 How questions prime your nervous system and perception

🔥 The two questions that anchor me back into truth every single morning

🔥 Why pleasure is not indulgence — it’s a compass

🔥 How to stop performing your life and start inhabiting it

This episode is simple, but not soft.

Grounded, but not polite.

And designed to bring you back into authorship of who you’re becoming.

Because when you decide who you want to be and how you want to feel — before the world tells you otherwise — everything changes.

That’s identity work.

That’s sovereignty.

That’s the rebellion.

Mentioned in the Episode:

⭐ The 7 Minute Rebellion Ritual → [Click Here]

⭐ DM Natty on Instagram → [@thefemininerebellion]

⭐ Join The Feminine Rebellion Community → [Join Here]

⭐ Explore The Feminine Rebellion Podcast on Youtube → [Watch Us Here]

If this episode stirred something in you…

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Let’s spread the rebellion —one intentional morning, one sovereign woman at a time.

I avoided this episode.

Hard.

Not in a cute, “I’ll get to it later” way — but in a full-blown reorganize-my-entire-apartment, clean-the-ceiling, pretend-this-isn’t-happening way.

And instead of waiting for inspiration to magically arrive…

I hit record anyway.

Because this episode isn’t about having your shit together.

It’s about what actually happens right before expansion — the resistance, the avoidance, the exhaustion, the “I have nothing to say” spiral.

And why none of that means you’re broken.

This week on The Feminine Rebellion Podcast, I take you inside a raw, unpolished moment I know you’ve lived too — the space between desire and action.

The place where your nervous system freaks out, your conditioning gets loud, and your brain starts telling you stories about laziness, failure, and not being ready.

Here’s the truth my body had to remind me of — and yours probably needs to hear too:

Resistance isn’t a character flaw.

It’s information.

And when you learn how to listen to it — without letting it run the show — everything changes.

Inside This Episode, I Share:

🔥 Why resistance and avoidance are nervous system signals, not proof you’re failing

🔥 How disconnection — not doing too much — creates exhaustion

🔥 The real reason waiting for inspiration keeps us stuck

🔥 Why the brain craves safety while the body craves expansion

🔥 How showing up messy rewires your nervous system for trust + momentum

🔥 Why “someday” is the most dangerous word in midlife

🔥 How to move forward without feeling ready

🔥 Why imperfect action is the rebellion

This episode is honest, unfiltered, and deeply embodied.

No performance.

No polish.

No pretending.

Just the truth I’ve learned (the hard way):

You don’t need more motivation.

You don’t need a better plan.

You don’t need to wait until you’re healed, rested, or inspired.

You need to move with your resistance — not let it stop you.

Mentioned in the Episode:

⭐ If you’re done playing small, done people pleasing, and done pretending  → [Join The Comeback]

⭐ Pleasure Pivot Course → [Get It Here]

⭐ The Rebellion Ritual → [Click Here]

⭐ DM Natty on Instagram → [@thefemininerebellion]

⭐ Join The Feminine Rebellion Community → [Join Here]

⭐ Explore The Feminine Rebellion Podcast on Youtube → [Watch Us Here]

If this episode landed in your body…

→ Share it with a woman who’s avoiding the thing that matters most

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And then — go do the thing you’ve been putting off.

Messy. Imperfect. Honest.

That’s not failure.

That’s freedom.

What if the reason you keep breaking your New Year’s resolutions has nothing to do with discipline…

and everything to do with the fact that you’ve been approaching desire completely backwards?

In this solo episode, Natty Frasca dismantles the entire “do more, be better” goal-setting machine and offers a radical alternative: make your pleasure comeback first.

Because here’s the truth most women feel in their bones by midlife— you can’t white-knuckle your way into expansion. But you can pleasure your way there.

This episode is about nervous systems, embodiment, and why so many high-achieving women look successful on the outside while feeling numb, contracted, or dead inside.

This is not about indulgence.

This is about aliveness.

Inside This Episode, We Explore:

🔥 Why traditional goal-setting keeps women stuck in contraction

🔥 The nervous-system difference between willpower and expansion

🔥 Why midlife women feel successful on the outside but numb inside

🔥 How pleasure regulates the nervous system (not indulgence—biology)

🔥 Why you can’t numb pain without numbing desire

🔥 The shift from DO → HAVE → BE to BE → HAVE → DO

🔥 How to begin your 2026 pleasure comeback—starting now

You don’t need more discipline.

You don’t need to try harder.

You don’t need to fix yourself.

You need more permission.

More pleasure.

More truth.

More aliveness.

Your pleasure isn’t a reward you earn after you’ve done enough.

It’s the foundation that makes a life worth living possible.

Mentioned in the Episode:

⭐ If you’re done playing small, done people pleasing, and done pretending  → [Join The Comeback]

⭐ Pleasure Pivot Course → [Get It Here]

⭐ The Rebellion Ritual → [Click Here]

⭐ DM Natty on Instagram → [@thefemininerebellion]

⭐ Join The Feminine Rebellion Community → [Join Here]

⭐ Explore The Feminine Rebellion Podcast on Youtube → [Watch Us Here]

This is not a recap.

This is not a “best of.”

This is a shedding.

In the final episode of 2025, Natty records from her bed—cozy, unpolished, unapologetic—and invites you into a threshold moment between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming.

2025 has been the Year of the Snake:

a year of release, rupture, and transformation.

A year of shedding identities, roles, relationships, beliefs, and survival patterns that no longer fit.

And what’s underneath all that shedding?

Your real self.

Wild. Alive. Hungry for more.

This episode is about honoring what you’ve released…and preparing your nervous system, your body, and your spirit for what’s next.

Because 2026 is the Year of the Horse.

And horse energy doesn’t tiptoe.

🐍 The snake sheds to survive.

🐎 The horse runs to live.

Inside the Episode, We Explore:

🔥 Why shedding is not loss—it’s liberation

🔥 The neuroscience of contraction vs. expansion

🔥 How survival roles (good girl, peacekeeper, emotional manager) quietly suffocate aliveness

🔥 What women are actually shedding in midlife—and why it’s irreversible

🔥 Why letting people be disappointed is a nervous-system skill

🔥 The truth about productivity, worth, and the performance of “having it together”

🔥 How snake energy (release) creates the space for horse energy (movement)

🔥 What it means to stop shrinking and start running toward your life

🔥 Why power, pleasure, and presence are inseparable

🔥 A somatic invitation to feel what you’re done carrying—and what you’re ready to claim

Reflection Questions to Sit With:

• What did you shed in 2025?

• What role, belief, or responsibility finally fell away?

• What skin are you actively crawling out of right now?

• What kind of horse energy do you want to call in for 2026—freedom, power, movement, stamina, wildness?

• Where are you ready to stop managing and start running?

Mentioned in the Episode:

⭐ If you’re done playing small, done people pleasing, and done pretending  → [Join The Comeback]

⭐ Pleasure Pivot Course → [Get It Here]

⭐ The Rebellion Ritual → [Click Here]

⭐ DM Natty on Instagram → [@thefemininerebellion]

⭐ Join The Feminine Rebellion Community → [Join Here]

⭐ Explore The Feminine Rebellion Podcast on Youtube → [Watch Us Here]

One Last Truth:

You didn’t shed all that skin just to stand still.

2025 asked you to release. 2026 is asking you to move.

Let the horse run.

Here’s the truth most midlife women were never taught:

You’re not exhausted because you’re not organized or productive enough.

You’re exhausted because you’ve been saying yes to everyone and everything for decades — at the cost of yourself.

We were conditioned to believe that being a “good woman” meant being available, accommodating, agreeable, and endlessly flexible.

That love is earned through usefulness.

That saying no makes you selfish, difficult, or unlovable.

So we said yes.

Yes when we were tired.

Yes when our bodies screamed no.

Yes when we were already overextended.

Yes when we were quietly abandoning ourselves to keep the peace.

And over time?

That yes addiction drained our energy, flattened our desire, and disconnected us from our power.

This week on The Feminine Rebellion Podcast, Natty breaks down the most misunderstood two-letter word in women’s lives: NO — and why learning to say it is one of the most radical, life-reclaiming acts a midlife woman can make.

Because here’s the reframe that changes everything:

No is not mean.

No is not selfish.

No is not rude.

No is honest.

No is self-respecting.

No is how you protect your energy, your time, and your life force.

And this episode will give you both the permission and the language to start using it — without over-explaining, apologizing, or betraying yourself.

Inside the Episode, You’ll Learn:

🔥 Why so many women are addicted to saying yes

🔥 What your no actually means

🔥 The neuroscience of boundaries

🔥 Why boundaries are internal commitments, not punishments

🔥 Why saying no feels so terrifying at first

🔥 Exactly how to say no (without guilt or explanation)

🔥 What actually happens when you start setting boundaries

Because here’s the bottom line:

Boundaries don’t make relationships weaker.

They make them real.

And the people who get angry when you say no?

Those are the people who were benefiting from you not having one.

Mentioned in the Episode:

⭐ If you’re done playing small, done people pleasing, and done pretending  → [Join The Comeback]

⭐ Pleasure Pivot Course → [Get It Here]

⭐ The Rebellion Ritual → [Click Here]

⭐ DM Natty on Instagram → [@thefemininerebellion]

⭐ Join The Feminine Rebellion Community → [Join Here]

If this episode hit you in the body with a YES…

→ Share it with a woman who’s been giving herself away for far too long

→ Leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review on Spotify

Because your no is powerful.

Your boundaries are not negotiable.

And your life gets to feel like yours.

Say no.

Mean it.

And watch everything reorganize around your truth.

Most midlife women think something is “wrong” with them:

the anxiety, the tight chest, the shallow breath, the exhaustion, the shutdown, the constant sense of being on edge.

But here’s the truth no one ever taught us:

You’re not broken.

You’re contracted.

Contraction isn’t a personality flaw.

It’s not “just anxiety.”

It’s not you being dramatic.

Contraction is a nervous system response — your body collapsing inward every time you move away from your truth, silence your voice, or perform a version of yourself the world prefers.

And if you’ve been living contracted long enough?

You start to believe that tight, small, folded-in version of you is who you are.

This episode is your reminder:

You were never meant to live contracted.

You were meant to expand.

Natty goes deep into the mechanics — physical, emotional, cultural, and neurological — of why so many midlife women feel stuck, numb, burnt-out, or “not themselves”…  and exactly how to reclaim the expansion your body has been begging for.

Inside the Episode, You’ll Learn:

🔥 What contraction actually is

🔥 The subtle ways contraction shows up daily

🔥 How the performance trap forms

🔥 Why midlife becomes the reckoning

🔥 The truth about expansion

🔥 What expansion actually feels like

🔥 The 3-step process to move from contraction to expansion

Because you cannot mindset your way out of contraction.

Expansion is a body process — one that requires truth, nervous system safety, community, and practice.

And the most powerful reminder of all:

The expanded version of you isn’t missing — she’s trapped under years of contraction, waiting to be released.

Mentioned in the Episode:

⭐ If you’re done playing small, done people pleasing, and done pretending  → [Join The Comeback]

⭐ Pleasure Pivot Course → [Get It Here]

⭐ The Rebellion Ritual → [Click Here]

⭐ DM Natty on Instagram → [@thefemininerebellion]

⭐ Join The Feminine Rebellion Community → [Join Here]

If this episode hit your body with a YES…

→ Send it to a woman who’s been living contracted for too damn long

→ Leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review on Spotify

Because the world doesn’t need more women shrinking. It needs women who can finally exhale — and expand into the fullness of who they are.

We’ve been taught to disconnect.

To dim ourselves.

To live from the neck up while our bodies run on fumes — managed, suppressed, and silenced by responsibility, resentment, and the performance of being “fine.”

But here’s the truth your culture never gave you:

Your turn-on is not gone.

Your aliveness is not missing.

Your pleasure did not disappear.

It got buried.

Under decades of caretaking.

Under being the reliable one.

Under being the good girl, the peacekeeper, the one who holds it all together while slowly losing access to herself.

Under a life that looks incredible on paper — and quietly feels numb on the inside.

This week on The Feminine Rebellion Podcast, Natty takes you straight into the heart of what midlife women have been told (explicitly or implicitly):

that turn-on is something you grow out of,

that desire fades,

that feeling alive is for younger women,

that your spark is a phase — not a power source.

It’s all bullshit.

Turn-on isn’t sexual fluff — it’s your life force, your intuition, your compass, your power.

And this episode is your reminder that reclaiming it isn’t indulgent… it’s survival.

Inside the Episode, You’ll Learn:

🔥 What turn-on actually is

🔥 How girls are conditioned out of their aliveness 

🔥 Why midlife women feel “dead inside” 

🔥 How disconnection from turn-on disconnects you from intuition, creativity, joy + power

🔥 Why turn-on is not indulgent 

🔥 The exact steps to excavate your buried turn-on 

🔥 How saying “no” to what drains you + “yes” to what lights you up rewires your entire nervous system

🔥 Why a turned-on woman is ungovernable 

This episode is part reclamation, part revolution, part deep-within-your-bones remembering.

Turn-on isn’t a treat you earn. It’s your birthright.

And reclaiming it will change everything.

Mentioned in the Episode:

⭐ If you’re done playing small, done people pleasing, and done pretending  → [Join The Comeback]

⭐ Pleasure Pivot Course → [Get It Here]

⭐ The Rebellion Ritual → [Click Here]

⭐ DM Natty on Instagram → [@thefemininerebellion]

⭐ Join The Feminine Rebellion Community → [Join Here]

If this episode lit a spark in you…

→ Share it with a sister who’s starving for her aliveness

→ Leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review on Spotify

Let’s spread the rebellion — one fully alive, turned-on woman at a time.

We’ve been taught to push through.

To override.

To live from the neck up while our bodies quietly suffocate under stress, resentment, and responsibility.

But here’s the truth your culture never gave you:

Your brain is not stuck.

Your desire is not gone.

And your body has been waiting your whole f*cking life for this moment.

This week on The Feminine Rebellion Podcast, Natty cracks open the taboo we’ve all been quietly carrying at midlife: the lie that pleasure fades, that desire dries up, that our turn-on disappears.

It doesn’t.

It gets buried.

Under decades of people-pleasing.

Under performance.

Under autopilot living.

Under burnout so deep your nervous system can’t even register safety, let alone pleasure.

And that’s exactly where this episode takes you — into the neuroscience of your desire, and how you can literally rewire your brain for pleasure, aliveness, and that full-body f*ck yes you’ve been starving for.

Inside the Episode, You’ll Learn:

🔥 How neuroplasticity works — and why you can rewire your brain for pleasure at ANY age

🔥 Why your brain has been conditioned to prioritize stress, productivity, and self-abandonment over joy

🔥 The “well-worn pathways” of depletion — and how to bushwhack new trails toward desire, ease, and turn-on

🔥 Why your nervous system resists pleasure (even when you consciously want it)

🔥 How to build new neural pathways using 30-second micro-moments of pleasure

🔥 Why pleasure feels unsafe to exhausted women — and how to teach your system that pleasure is safety

🔥 The daily practices that retrain your reticular activating system to find pleasure instead of problems

🔥 Why choosing pleasure is a radical, political act that disrupts patriarchy at the root

This episode is part science, part rebellion, part deep exhale — the kind that drops you back into your body after years of hovering above it.

Because your desire didn’t disappear.

It was buried alive.

And this is your excavation.

Mentioned in the Episode:

⭐ Pleasure Pivot Course → [Get It Here]

⭐ The Rebellion Ritual → [Click Here]

⭐ DM Natty on Instagram → [@thefemininerebellion]

⭐ Join The Feminine Rebellion Community → [Join Here]

⭐ If you’re done playing small, done people pleasing, and done pretending  → [Join The Comeback]

If this episode lit a fire in you…

→ Share it with a sister who’s craving her circle

→ Leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review on Spotify

Let’s spread the rebellion—one fierce, sister-fueled woman at a time.

We’ve been taught to numb out.

To override.

To live from the neck up while our bodies whisper, then scream, for attention.

And yet — your pleasure, your desire, your turn-on?

They’re not frivolous.

They’re fundamental.

This week on The Feminine Rebellion Podcast, I sit down with the absolute powerhouse Dr. Nan Wise — certified sex therapist, affective neuroscientist, and author of Why Good Sex Matters — to unpack the science behind pleasure, the seven emotional systems wired into your mammalian brain, and why we are living in a full-blown pleasure crisis.

And my god… this conversation will rearrange you.

Dr. Nan’s research proves what so many of us have felt in our bones:Pleasure is not optional. Pleasure is survival.Pleasure is your nervous system’s pathway back to aliveness, vitality, and sovereignty.

We dive into:

🔥 The seven emotional systems your brain is wired with — and how modern life hijacks dopamine + buries joy

🔥 Why social media has flattened our pleasure pathways and fried our seeking system (yep, it’s science, not weakness)

🔥 How trauma, people-pleasing, and chronic vigilance keep women in survival mode

🔥 The orgasm reset — why climax floods your brain with neurotransmitters that boost clarity, creativity, and calm

🔥 The truth about why women struggle with desire (hint: it’s not hormones — it’s disconnection, fear, and mental load)

🔥 Why pleasure is activism — and how embodied women become impossible to manipulate

As Dr. Nan says: “Your pleasure is your most powerful resistance.” “Your body is the portal, not the problem.” “When women own their desire, patriarchy doesn’t stand a chance.”

This episode is electric.

Visceral.

A reclamation.

Because here’s the rebellious truth:

Your nervous system is your oracle.

Your desire is data.

Your pleasure is medicine.

When you stop outsourcing your power and start listening to your body, you stop contorting yourself to fit a broken system — and begin to rise in your full, sovereign aliveness.

Mentioned in the Episode:

⭐ Why Good Sex Matters by Dr. Nan Wise → [Grab a Copy]

⭐ Follow Dr. Nan on social media → [@askdoctornan]

⭐ Pleasure Pivot Course → [Get It Here]

⭐ The Rebellion Ritual → [Click Here]

⭐ DM Natty on Instagram → [@thefemininerebellion]

⭐ Join The Feminine Rebellion Community → [Join Here]

⭐ If you’re done playing small, done people pleasing, and done pretending  → [Join The Comeback]

If this conversation lit something up inside you —

→ Share it with a sister who’s ready to rise.

→ Leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review on Spotify.

This is the rebellion.One woman remembering her pleasure at a time.

We’ve been trained to live from the neck up — to think harder, push faster, and keep performing even when our bodies are screaming enough.

But your body?

She’s been telling you the truth all along.

This week on The Feminine Rebellion Podcast, I sit down with the luminous Jen Aks — embodiment teacher, author of Your Body is Speaking, and creator of The Power of Gesture — to explore what it really means to lead from your body instead of your burnout.

This isn’t about doing more.

It’s about remembering how to feel.

Because as Jen says, “Mindset is half the story. The other half is bodyset.”Your body carries wisdom your mind can’t access — and when you start listening, everything changes.

Here’s what we get into:

🔥 Why “mindset” alone will never get you where you want to go — and the missing piece you’ve been craving: bodyset

🔥 How your emotions are actually data — not drama — and how to decode them for guidance

🔥 The neuroscience of embodiment: how moving your body literally rewires your brain for resilience, confidence, and joy

🔥 Jen’s 3E Framework — Embody, Empower, Elevate — for leading your life from truth instead of from trauma

🔥 What happens when you stop fighting your feelings and start letting them move through you

This episode is a full-body permission slip.A reclamation of the feminine intelligence that’s been buried under perfectionism and productivity.

Because your body isn’t the problem — she’s the portal.Your nervous system isn’t weak — it’s your most powerful compass.And your emotions? They’re the language of your aliveness.

When you start honoring what your body already knows, you stop chasing the next version of yourself and start becoming the truest one.

Mentioned in the Episode:

⭐ Watch Jen’s TEDx Talk → [The Power of Gesture]

⭐ Join her free Tuesday classes → [Schedule Here]

⭐ Grab Jen’s Book → [Grab Here]

⭐ Pleasure Pivot Course [Get It Here]

⭐ The Rebellion Ritual → [Click Here]

⭐ DM Natty on Instagram → [@thefemininerebellion]

If this episode made your body say “YES” —

→ Share it with a sister who’s ready to feel again.

→ Leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review on Apple or Spotify.

This is the rebellion — one body, one truth, one gesture at a time.