We share insights about dissociation and therapy gained from watching one of the husband’s musicals. We share about how protecting ourselves can also isolate ourselves, and about boundaries, and about safety requiring some flexibility. We discuss the experience of learning to tolerate memories, the feelings that come with them, and the questions that result. We talk about the pacing that goes with that process. Around 21 minutes, there is a trigger warning for sharing about the experience of receiving a blessing from the husband (mention of prayer and God in passing, but not in detail) - words of healing spoken to each of us individually.