In this episode of Ask a Recruiter, Leah Ova sits down with executive recruiter Deepali Vyas to unpack what really happens behind closed doors after an interview ends. From why highly qualified candidates get rejected to how power dynamics, executive presence, and unspoken bias influence hiring decisions, this conversation reveals the real factors that determine who gets the offer—and who doesn’t.

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January job searches are colliding with historic burnout. In this Ask a Recruiter episode of The Lonely Office, Leah Ova is joined by Bryan Creely, founder of Life After Layoff, to break down what’s really happening in the 2026 job market and how candidates can regain momentum. Drawing on Glassdoor data showing 77% of job seekers feel pessimistic heading into the new year, Bryan shares practical strategies for standing out, avoiding “spray and pray” burnout, and building a job search that actually works when competition is at its highest.

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Jared's answering Slack messages from a cabana in Tulum, mouse jiggler running, calendar blocked just enough to avoid suspicion. This episode of The Lonely Office explores the rise of “quiet vacationing,” why nearly half of workers admit to doing it, and what it reveals about trust, PTO, and modern workplace culture. Is this a clever workaround—or a sign something deeper is broken at work?

Hosts:

Matt Sunbulli

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Aaron Calafato

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Leah Ova

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Editorial:

Brooks Borden

Ken Wendt

Senior Audio Engineer:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ken Wendt ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Research:

Matt Sunbulli

Zaid Safe

Aaron Calafato

Breaking into the job market has changed — but so have the ways candidates can stand out. In this Ask a Recruiter bonus episode, Emily Durham talks with TLO's Leah Ova about practical strategies Gen Z job seekers can use to improve their chances, from getting applications opened to building real connections and showing confidence in interviews. A clear, encouraging guide for navigating entry-level hiring right now.

In this Best of 2025 special, The Lonely Office revisits the conversations that helped job seekers make sense of a new normal—where old career rules broke down and new ones quietly took shape. From power versus status, to remote work as negotiation, to AI’s real impact on hiring, these moments cut through the hype and name what’s actually happening beneath the headlines. Not shortcuts or silver bullets—just sharper language, better frameworks, and a little more agency for navigating work when certainty is gone. This is a great episode to recap 2025 and get ready for 2026!

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Hosts:

Matt Sunbulli

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Aaron Calafato

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Leah Ova

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Editorial:

Brooks Borden

Ken Wendt

Senior Audio Engineer:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ken Wendt ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Research:

Matt Sunbulli

Zaid Safe

Aaron Calafato

In this special TLO Ask a Recruiter episode, Leah Ova dives into the realities of senior-level hiring with Amy Lentz, Chief People Officer at Toms and the HR strategist behind Hack Your HR. Amy breaks down why the path to director, VP, and C-suite roles feels so different and how seasoned candidates can successfully position themselves for leadership roles. From networking that actually moves the needle to navigating salary expectations and switching industries later in your career, this conversation delivers practical, grounded guidance for anyone aiming for their next big step.

Job seekers today are told to “network harder,” but what happens when networking fails to nepo hires? Also is networking just nepotism with better branding? In this episode, we break down why the line between the two and why in the current job market that line is blurrier than ever.

Matt Sunbulli

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Aaron Calafato

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Leah Ova

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Editorial:

Brooks Borden

Ken Wendt

Senior Audio Engineer:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ken Wendt ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Research:

Matt Sunbulli

Zaid Safe

Aaron Calafato

A young attorney finds herself trapped in a workplace where the expectations keep shifting and the finish line keeps moving. Her story mirrors what so many job seekers are facing in 2025: disappearing opportunities, unclear roles, and leadership that prioritizes itself over its people. In this episode, Matt, Aaron, and Leah break down how to recognize these red flags early and how to safeguard your career before you get stuck running someone else’s race.

Hosts:

Matt Sunbulli

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Aaron Calafato

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Leah Ova

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Editorial:

Brooks Borden

Ken Wendt

Senior Audio Engineer:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ken Wendt ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Research:

Matt Sunbulli

Zaid Safe

Aaron Calafato

Layoffs are rising, AI is being blamed, but the data doesn’t agree. Challenger reports the highest October cuts since 2003 with AI as the #2 reason, while Yale’s 33-month BLS analysis finds no real disruption in high-AI-exposure jobs. We break down the confusion, the “AI layoff boomerang,” and why companies still struggle to get actual ROI from AI.

Hosts:

Matt Sunbulli

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Aaron Calafato

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Leah Ova

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Editorial:

Brooks Borden

Ken Wendt

Senior Audio Engineer:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ken Wendt ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Research:

Matt Sunbulli

Zaid Safe

Aaron Calafato

A new trend is spreading through Silicon Valley’s AI startups as job seekers are being sold “hard mode” as a badge of honor. What began as a protest against overwork in China has quietly become a recruitment pitch in America, with some companies normalizing 80-hour weeks as proof of passion and purpose. In this episode, Aaron, Matt, and Leah unpack the rise of the 9-9-6 culture, the strange mix of ideology and ambition driving it, and whether burnout has become the new benchmark for success. Because if working nonstop is the future of innovation, who’s really winning?

Hosts:

Matt Sunbulli

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Aaron Calafato

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Leah Ova

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Editorial:

Brooks Borden

Ken Wendt

Senior Audio Engineer:

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ken Wendt ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Research:

Matt Sunbulli

Zaid Safe

Aaron Calafato