In this episode, I critique the "Blackpill" as a comfortable blanket of victimhood for men, contrasting genetics with the learnable skill set of social circle game. I emphasize that women are attracted to pre-selection and status, arguing that showing other women choose you provides access to elite networks that cold approach cannot reach. I dismiss manifestation and The Secret as philosophies for the lazy, instead advocating for a mindset rooted in the "altar of action" and evolutionary psychology. Finally, I share personal updates regarding Rolo Tomassi's surgery and a heartfelt memorial for my close friend Katie Moore. 00:00 - Introduction and Cybertruck Discussion 01:16 - Legal Defenses and Castle Doctrine 02:00 - Persistence of Fame and Cancel Culture 03:22 - The Appeal of the Blackpill 04:29 - Skill Sets vs. Physical Genetics 07:15 - Short-term vs. Long-term Attraction Strategies 09:41 - Evolutionary Psychology and Pre-selection Evidence 10:55 - Critique of Manifestation and "The Secret" 15:52 - Action-Based Business Success vs. Hope 18:14 - Excuses vs. Personal Responsibility Mindset 20:42 - Hypocrisy in Public Branding 22:41 - Dangers of Inexperienced Influencer Advice 24:37 - Debunking Indicators of Interest (IOIs) 27:37 - Status and Social Circle Engineering 29:26 - Scientific Studies on Male Attractiveness 31:20 - Leveraging Social Proof for Elite Access 35:48 - The Social Circle Coaching Monopoly 39:18 - Declining Efficiency of Dating Apps 41:11 - Nightlife Fluency and Local Celebrity Game 43:50 - Manual Social Circle Construction Strategies 46:40 - Comparing Social Circle to Cold Approach 50:35 - Teaching Skill Sets to Average Men 53:10 - Identifying Comfort Signs vs. Attraction 56:56 - Psychological Triggers and the "Dadbod" Myth 58:50 - Academic Rigor in Dating Courses 01:00:24 - Logic in Business vs. Feeling in Dating 01:02:48 - Total Attraction Story: Looks and Status 01:04:24 - Statistical Racial Dynamics in Modern Dating 01:08:16 - Western Tropes and Unattractive Archetypes 01:11:16 - Personal Updates and Katie Moore Memorial ———————————————————— 🔥 Steal my blueprint for attracting signed models and attending VIP-only events in 21 days... Without dating apps or late-night cold approach: https://www.moamentoring.com/opt/yt 📈 I'm looking for world-class talent to help me create a world of fulfilled men ($30k+/mo job openings): https://www.moamentoring.com/jobs 💯 Affiliate marketer? Our affiliates can make up to six figs! https://www.moamentoring.com/affiliate If you liked this video you might also like: ———————————————————— #michael #michaelsartain #michael_sartain #michael_sartain_podcast

(Apologies for Rollo's audio. Fixed at 40:00) Andrew Wilson ​⁠( @The_Crucible ) is a commentator and debater best known for his appearances on the Whatever podcast and his sharp critiques of modern culture, religion, and gender dynamics. On The Michael Sartain Podcast, he discussed his background, worldview, and experiences in online media and debate. Rollo Tomassi ​⁠( @RolloTomassi ) is a best-selling author and recently finished his sixth book "Rational Male: Reignite" 00:00 - Introduction to Andrew Wilson and Rolo Tomassi 01:25 - The Meteoric Growth of Andrew Wilson's Platform and Viral Moments 03:39 - The Crucible Audience and the Lack of Engagement from the Christian Right 04:40 - The Bivo Debate on Cuckoldry and the Viral Fallout 06:23 - Career Transition: From Industrial Mechanic to Content Creator 07:54 - The Origin of the Whatever Podcast Arrangement 10:02 - The Red Pill as a Descriptive Data Packet and Refusal to Engage 11:55 - The Impact of Social Media/Dating Apps and "Female Narcissism" 14:37 - The Squandered Superpower of Female Youth and the Turn to Christianity 16:53 - Sewing Circle Christians: The Pursuit of Control and Status in the Church 17:59 - The Hidden War in Traditional Churches (Prodigal Daughter Scenario) 22:56 - The Suspect Timing of Conversion and the Doctrine of Forgiveness 24:48 - Andrew Wilson's Orthodox Christian Viewpoint and Criticism of Gullibility 27:00 - The Lying Pundits and the George Jenko Softball Interview 28:44 - The Online Ministry Problem: Brand Building over Message 31:09 - The Conflict of Clergy Lacking the Social Software Update 33:27 - Traditional Churches and the Low Divorce Rate Data 35:16 - Social Reinforcement as the Key to Marital Success 37:57 - Secular Marriage is Foolish: The Data on Divorce Rates 38:52 - Social Reinforcement and the Myron Gaines Effect in Politics 40:02 - Pre-Feminism Moral Authority and the Sexual Marketplace 42:27 - The Effect of Coverture Laws on Women's Finances 43:24 - The Role of Free Sex and the Price of Prostitution 45:14 - Anthropological Record and the Male Expendability Factor 46:34 - Marriage is a Religious Institution (Wilson's View) 47:51 - Feminism and Equality: The Endless Appeal to Men for Rights 48:58 - Schrödinger's Feminist: Girl Boss and Ultimate Victim in Superposition 51:49 - The Contradiction of Hypocrisy and the Destiny/Southern Op 01:00:22 - The Root Cause of Inter-Sexual Dynamics: Sexual Ethics 01:03:05 - Therapy Speak and Occultism in Modern Sexual Liberation 01:05:06 - The Soft Power of Women: Crystals, Tarot, and Chick Crack 01:08:37 - Christian Faith is Not Incompatible with Science 01:09:14 - Myron Gaines's 50-Woman Rule Refuted on Moral Value 01:12:41 - The Unequal Exchange of Value and the Ultimate Sacrifice 01:17:50 - The Schrödinger's Feminist Paradox Explained 01:21:05 - The Truth of the Southern Op to Silence Rolo Tomassi 01:28:44 - The Politics of Personal Destruction vs. Debating Ideas 01:37:09 - Covering Your Own Foul and the Age Gap Stigma 01:38:06 - Married Couples Have Little in Common (Opposite of Feminist View) 01:39:39 - The Cherry-Picking of "Dumb" Guests on Dating Podcasts 01:43:45 - The Audience's Need for Pushback Against Uno pposed Narratives 01:45:00 - The Misogynist Label and the Disappointment of Opponents 01:53:55 - Debate Preparation: Arguing in a Vacuum and Avoiding AI 01:56:33 - The Future of AI and Male Employment (Logistics vs. Clerical Work) 01:59:28 - The AI Influencer and Zoomers' Technological Adaptation 02:03:15 - King Wilson's Ideal Political and Social World 02:08:52 - Most Common Misconception of Andrew Wilson: Being a "Mean, Harsh Guy" ———————————————————— 🔥 Steal my blueprint for attracting signed models and attending VIP-only events in 21 days... Without dating apps or late-night cold approach: https://www.moamentoring.com/opt/yt 📈 I'm looking for world-class talent to help me create a world of fulfilled men ($30k+/mo job openings): https://www.moamentoring.com/jobs 💯 Affiliate marketer? Our affiliates can make up to six figs! https://www.moamentoring.com/affiliate If you liked this video you might also like: ———————————————————— #michael #michaelsartain #michael_sartain #michael_sartain_podcast

Jeremy Lee Miner (IG:@jeremyleeminer) an author, the founder of Seventh Level, and the creator of the NEPQ method (Neuro-Emotional Persuasion Questioning). He is recognized as a leading sales trainer, specializing in behavioral science and neuro-psychology to teach advanced persuasion techniques. ———————————————————— 🔥 Steal my blueprint for attracting signed models and attending VIP-only events in 21 days... Without dating apps or late-night cold approach: https://www.moamentoring.com/opt/yt 📈 I'm looking for world-class talent to help me create a world of fulfilled men ($30k+/mo job openings): https://www.moamentoring.com/jobs 💯 Affiliate marketer? Our affiliates can make up to six figs! https://www.moamentoring.com/affiliate If you liked this video you might also like: ———————————————————— 00:00 - Introduction to Jeremy Lee Miner and the Power of Status in Sales 01:28 - Status, Neuro-Psychology, and Pattern Interrupts 04:21 - The Behavioral Science of Identity Framing in Sales 07:46 - Behavioral Science vs. Traditional Sales Gurus: The Hard Way 09:13 - Breaking Predictable Patterns for Remote Closers 11:37 - Emotional Connection Without Buying Into the Prospect's Story 12:46 - Identity Framing to Prevent Objections and Create Certainty 16:02 - Overcoming the Fear of Change and the Real Reason for Objections 18:02 - The Role of Pain and Fear of Future Pain in Motivation 20:38 - The POB (Perception of Value) and the Superior vs. Inferior Complex 22:14 - Comparing NPQ to Traditional Sales Training: The Neuro-Emotional Persuasion Questioning Framework 24:34 - The Emotional Component and Avoiding Surface-Level Answers 28:23 - The Four Identities: Winger, Dabbler, Know-It-All, and Committed to Mastery 34:50 - The Know-It-All and the Need for Action over Theory 36:14 - Skill Level Breeds Confidence (The Neurosurgeon Analogy) 38:48 - Leading with Status over Money to Generate Genuine Desire 41:21 - The Power of Not Playing the Victim Card 43:50 - The Importance of Understanding the Why Behind Sales Techniques 44:11 - The Framing of an Offer (The Picture Frame Analogy) 46:02 - Exaggeration in Marketing and Avoiding FTC Issues 48:44 - The Power of the Problem Hook in Marketing 50:53 - Vocal Tonality, Status, and Selling from Stage Techniques 57:24 - Objection Prevention vs. Objection Handling (The Wrong Advice) 59:58 - Business Structure: High-Ticket Programs and Low-Ticket Offerings 01:02:14 - The Launch of 7Q.AI and the Future of AI in Sales Training 01:06:09 - The Importance of Learning from Experts Who Have Done It 01:09:11 - Respect for Amateurs and the Power of Testimonials 01:11:53 - Dealing with Burnout and The Importance of Peace in Relationships 01:25:39 - The Cost of Inaction and Investing in Problem-Solving Networks 01:28:29 - Scientific Impact: Constant Emotional Stress Drains Memory and Creativity 01:29:53 - The Mystery of Personal Life and Content Strategy 01:32:28 - Underrated Historical Event: The Eastern Front of World War II 01:34:36 - Uncomfortable Truth: The Uncertainty of Life After Death (Panspermia and Religion) 01:38:23 - Final Thoughts and How to Find Jeremy Lee Miner #michael #michaelsartain #michael_sartain #michael_sartain_podcast

Tristan Darshan (IG: https://www.instagram.com/tristandarshan/), Fulfillment Director at Men of Action 00:00 - Introduction to the Q&A session 00:46 - Speculating on why club culture is dying 01:29 - The transition from girl-centric to male-centric clubs 03:26 - The prioritization of "dollars per square foot" 04:36 - The vanishing Los Angeles nightlife scene 05:40 - The impact of corporate influence on nightlife 06:48 - The importance of making clubs female-centric 07:50 - The strangling of the "golden goose" 09:16 - The problem of clubs being male-centric before the economic downturn 10:24 - What makes a club "girl-centric" vs. "guy-centric" 12:29 - The role of social media in nightlife and dating 13:17 - The golden rule of prioritizing women over money 14:26 - The paradox of dying clubs vs. top-tier clubs 15:47 - The unsustainable business model of paying DJs millions 16:51 - The impact of social media and dating apps on women's need to go out 19:35 - The ineffectiveness of dating apps for the average man 20:53 - The discrepancy in social media validation between average women and men 22:20 - The importance of social circle over cold approach 25:06 - The origins of girl-centric clubs 27:40 - The definition of the "best club" 29:04 - The future of nightlife and the shrinking of inventory 30:22 - The "coagulation" of attractive women in a few venues 31:07 - The effect of obesity on the number of "perfect tens" 32:41 - The benefits of being on the "other side" of nightlife 34:46 - Using nightclubs as a training ground 37:04 - Overcoming common challenges in nightclubs 39:03 - The feeling of empowerment after mastering a difficult environment 40:15 - A discussion on the death of Charlie Kirk and the "Kobe Bryant effect" 42:36 - The narcissism of celebrating someone's death 45:19 - The failure of "cancel culture" 47:04 - The different forms of censorship 48:42 - The issue of "gatekeeping" in media 51:07 - The importance of difficult conversations 52:56 - The victimhood mindset on social media 53:52 - The red pill movement as a response to hopelessness 55:27 - The truth about gender norms and hypergamy 57:56 - The concept of the "red pill" as a lens, not an identity 59:22 - The red pill straw man argument and the 80/20 rule 01:03:08 - Describing a double standard without condoning it 01:05:28 - Why "mid-women" are more difficult to deal with 01:10:29 - Why average men have a harder time meeting attractive women 01:12:35 - The "grenade" friend and the mid-woman 01:14:48 - How to handle mid-women and the importance of surrounding yourself with high-value people 01:17:03 - Concluding the Q&A segment and call for future questions ———————————————————— 🔥 Steal my blueprint for attracting signed models and attending VIP-only events in 21 days... Without dating apps or late-night cold approach: https://www.moamentoring.com/opt/yt 📈 I'm looking for world-class talent to help me create a world of fulfilled men ($30k+/mo job openings): https://www.moamentoring.com/jobs 💯 Affiliate marketer? Our affiliates can make up to six figs! https://www.moamentoring.com/affiliate If you liked this video you might also like: ———————————————————— #michael #michaelsartain #michael_sartain #michael_sartain_podcast

Stirling Cooper (IG: @stirlingcooper) is a former Australian adult performer and male escort turned men's self help coach. He's also a coach for the War Room and The Real World.ai. ———————————————————— 🔥 Steal my blueprint for attracting signed models and attending VIP-only events in 21 days... Without dating apps or late-night cold approach: https://www.moamentoring.com/opt/yt 📈 I'm looking for world-class talent to help me create a world of fulfilled men ($30k+/mo job openings): https://www.moamentoring.com/jobs 💯 Affiliate marketer? Our affiliates can make up to six figs! https://www.moamentoring.com/affiliate If you liked this video you might also like: ———————————————————— #michael #michaelsartain #michael_sartain #michael_sartain_podcast 00:00 - Podcast Introduction 00:36 - Modern Dating Issues 01:29 - Social Media's Effect on Dating 02:22 - Social Media and Competition in Dating 03:24 - Dating as a Commodity 04:11 - Personal Branding in Dating 05:40 - The Importance of Your Social Media Profile 06:40 - The Decline of "Cold Approach" Dating 07:54 - How to Improve Your Instagram Photos 09:43 - Using Candid Photos for Social Proof 11:57 - Three Types of Photos for Dating Profiles 13:49 - The Concept of "Pre-selection" 16:35 - How Professional Competence Attracts Women 18:00 - Status and Attention 23:38 - How the Media Misleads Men About Dating 27:47 - What Women Say vs. What They Do 31:44 - The Power of Social Proof 34:11 - Women's Innate Value vs. Men's Self-Improvement 38:09 - How to Spot Red Flags and High Body Counts 40:54 - Why Good-Looking Men Give Bad Advice 45:30 - The Term "Toxic Masculinity" 46:08 - Why Women Aren't Attracted to Morality 48:19 - Evolutionary Psychology and Attraction 51:24 - The Role of Hormones in Men 56:30 - The Decline of Risk-Taking in Men 01:01:13 - The Media's View of "Red Pill" Content 01:03:47 - The "Boss Babe" Dating Problem 01:06:56 - Dating Advice for Women with Fewer Partners 01:11:07 - Misconceptions About Attracting Women 01:15:35 - Misconceptions About Attractive Women 01:17:16 - The Importance of Being Non-Judgmental 01:20:01 - The Role of Stoicism for Men 01:25:37 - Personal Accountability vs. Blame 01:31:07 - Male Feminists and Their Lack of Influence 01:35:55 - Common Limiting Beliefs of Male Clients 01:40:20 - The Rise of "Beta" Males 01:42:22 - The Importance of Boundaries 01:45:39 - Accountability Over Blame 01:49:15 - Understanding Women's Nature 01:52:50 - Historical Influences 01:58:38 - Biggest Misconceptions About the Field 01:59:34 - A Truth Women Won't Admit 02:01:54 - Sterling Cooper's Work and Products 02:03:21 - Final Thoughts and Wrap-up

Jeran Campanella, widely known as @jeranism was once a leading figure in the Flat Earth community, creating content, debating scientists, and building a large following around his beliefs. His perspective changed dramatically after he joined an expedition to Antarctica, where he witnessed the 24-hour sun, an experience that convinced him the Earth is a globe. Since then, he has openly shared his transformation, facing heavy criticism and backlash from the Flat Earth community, while offering a rare insight into the mindset and journey of someone who publicly changed sides in such a controversial debate. ———————————————————— 🔥 Steal my blueprint for attracting signed models and attending VIP-only events in 21 days... Without dating apps or late-night cold approach: https://www.moamentoring.com/opt/yt 📈 I'm looking for world-class talent to help me create a world of fulfilled men ($30k+/mo job openings): https://www.moamentoring.com/jobs 💯 Affiliate marketer? Our affiliates can make up to six figs! https://www.moamentoring.com/affiliate If you liked this video you might also like: ———————————————————— 00:00 - Introduction to Jeranism and the Antarctica Trip 02:22 - Jeran's Journey into Flat Earth Belief 06:04 - Key Flat Earth Arguments and Their Refutations 09:27 - The Flat Earth Map and the Southern Hemisphere 12:43 - The Perils of Debating Flat Earthers 15:13 - Jeran's Doubts and The Antarctica Experience 19:47 - The Falsifying Evidence from Antarctica 22:48 - The Community's Reaction and the Dave Weiss Incident 29:37 - The Dangers of Not Having a Scientific Model 30:46 - The Rise of Flat Earth and the Role of the Internet 34:20 - Debunking the Antarctic Military Base Myth 41:14 - Disconnecting from the Conspiracy Community 45:59 - The Misconception of Flat Earth in Christianity 51:17 - The Absurdity of the Conspiracies and the Community 59:58 - The Distinction Between Jaron and Other Flat Earthers 01:05:07 - The Danger of a Good Debater in a Bad Position 01:06:44 - The "Default Position" Fallacy 01:09:06 - Debunking Common Flat Earth Arguments (Airplanes, Flight Paths) 01:22:42 - Debunking Moon Landing Conspiracies 01:28:44 - Future of Space Travel and the Van Allen Belt 01:31:05 - The Proclivity of Attractive Women to Believe in Flat Earth 01:32:26 - The Danger of "Truther" Mentality 01:34:18 - The Experience of Being Attacked by the Community 01:37:37 - The "Wit Effect" and Blind Belief 01:53:49 - Documentary on the Antarctica Trip 01:54:11 - The Burden of Performance and Objective Reality 01:56:38 - Final Advice for Those on the Fence 01:59:10 - The Toxic Community and Intellectual Honesty 02:05:28 - Final Thoughts and Guest Information

Dr. Bill Wong, also known online as @DrSwole He's a pro-natural physique bodybuilder, a medical doctor specializing in radiology, and a fitness content creator on YouTube. His channel is dedicated to science-based approaches to bodybuilding, health, and fitness. ———————————————————— 🔥 Steal my blueprint for attracting signed models and attending VIP-only events in 21 days... Without dating apps or late-night cold approach: https://www.moamentoring.com/opt/yt 📈 I'm looking for world-class talent to help me create a world of fulfilled men ($30k+/mo job openings): https://www.moamentoring.com/jobs 💯 Affiliate marketer? Our affiliates can make up to six figs! https://www.moamentoring.com/affiliate If you liked this video you might also like: ———————————————————— 00:00 - Intro 00:41 - The Bro Science vs. Hard Science Debate 01:09 - Dr. Bill Wong's Journey into Natural Bodybuilding 02:30 - Debunking Fitness Myths and the Optimal Male Physique 08:23 - The V-Taper, HRT, and Peptides 10:29 - Intermittent Fasting and Its Pros and Cons 11:59 - The Benefits of Cold Plunges and Sauna Use 13:12 - The Potential for Older Natural Bodybuilders 15:28 - Evolutionary Psychology and Muscle Hypertrophy 16:25 - The Value of Lifting and Consistency in Fitness 17:34 - Debunking Red Light Therapy and the Importance of Sunlight 18:24 - Hydration and Caffeine Use 21:34 - Sourcing Reliable Research for Fitness 22:15 - Using AI as a Research Assistant 23:41 - Dating and Attraction: What Women Want vs. What They Say 26:22 - The Actions of Women vs. Their Words 28:58 - The Influence of Advertising and Social Media on Dating Narratives 30:41 - The Impact of Physique on Attraction 33:23 - The Unspoken Language of Female Attraction 34:12 - Understanding Genuine Attraction vs. Time Wasters 37:23 - The Balance of Attraction and Comfort in Relationships 41:05 - The Different Forms of a Man's Value 42:25 - The Power of Pre-Selection and Social Proof 44:26 - Debunking the "Dad Bod" Myth 46:27 - The Societal Denial of Hypergamy 47:32 - Uncomfortable Truths About Men and Women 48:43 - The Myth of "Just Be Yourself" 50:08 - The Importance of a Strong Social Circle for Long-Term Dating 50:51 - How to Find a Good Long-Term Partner 55:07 - The Dangers of High Novelty-Seeking and Low-Quality Relationships 56:26 - The Pressure to Settle Down and Its Consequences 58:05 - The Importance of Dating Multiple Women to Gain Experience 01:03:03 - The Definition of Sexual Market Value for Men and Women 01:06:02 - The Role of Jealousy in Men and Women 01:07:32 - The Link Between Fitness and Mental Well-being 01:10:24 - Diet Recommendations for Fitness and Muscle Growth 01:14:45 - The Truth About CrossFit and Other Fitness Fads 01:17:30 - The Importance of Progressive Overload in Workouts 01:18:51 - Addressing Symmetrical Physique and Training Imbalances 01:20:53 - Prioritizing Sleep Over Early Morning Routines 01:21:56 - A Widely Held Belief That Is Wrong: Personality is Static 01:23:46 - The Underrated Power of Technology and Social Media 01:25:29 - Misconceptions About Natural Bodybuilding and Training Frequency 01:26:44 - Dealing With Online Haters and Embracing Controversy 01:28:44 - How Social Media Status Impacts Dating 01:31:26 - A Misconception About Dr. Bill Wong's Personality 01:32:56 - The Rise of Fit Women in Smaller Cities and Their Lifestyle 01:36:00 - Final Thoughts #michael #michaelsartain #michael_sartain #michael_sartain_podcast

Bill Walsh, a global business strategist and expert in scaling startups to billion-dollar companies, shares his extensive knowledge on entrepreneurship, sales, marketing, leadership, and personal development. Walsh draws from his diverse background as a currency trader and business coach to explain key strategies for building successful companies and personal brands ———————————————————— 00:00 – Intro 01:00 – Bill Walsh's Background in Trading 03:15 – Life in the Currency Trading Pits 05:00 – Early Lessons on Markets & Timing 06:30 – Building Businesses Through Partnerships 09:10 – Social Proof & Relationship-Based Growth 11:20 – Affiliate Marketing and Joint Ventures 13:00 – Burnout, Reinvention, and GoDaddy Partnership 15:00 – Launching "Business in a Box" Globally 16:30 – Speaker Training & Selling from Stage 19:10 – The Wayne Newton Effect in Sales 21:15 – Selling with Emotion vs Logic 23:05 – Handling Objections Before They Arise 25:10 – Authentic Selling & Audience Fit 27:20 – Why Women Speakers are in Demand 29:00 – Bringing Value to Other People's Events 31:00 – The Promoter Mindset for Speakers 33:20 – How Social Media Fits Into Live Event Promotion 35:10 – Specialists vs Generalists – Pick Your Lane 37:20 – Networking With High-Level People 39:25 – Conversation Skills That Build Trust 41:10 – Choosing Your One Thing & Making Hobbies Secondary 43:00 – Attraction Marketing & Becoming "The Source" 44:40 – Pricing for Value, Not Just Time 46:20 – Differences Between 6, 7, 8, and 9-Figure Companies 49:00 – Delegating to Scale Your Business 51:10 – Building Leadership Teams in Big Companies 53:20 – Mapping Roles with the "Hats" Exercise 55:10 – Rain Maker Summit & Grants for Business Growth 57:30 – Spotting "NPCs" in Your Organization 59:10 – Building Loyalty & Retaining A-Players 01:01:10 – Bonuses, Recognition, and Surprise Income 01:03:00 – Keeping a Sales Team Consistent 01:04:50 – Referral Programs & Why They Matter 01:06:00 – Closing Thoughts & Key Takeaways

Jamie Lynn is a marriage and family therapist, FHM cover model, and returning guest on the podcast. She openly shares her personal journey through abuse, healing, and professional growth, offering insight into mental health, narcissism, and self-worth. Her experience gives her a powerful and compassionate voice in both therapy and public conversations. 00:00:00 – Intro 00:01:12 – Clarifying The Drama 00:02:25 – Is He a Narcissist or Just Not Into You? 00:03:37 – Patterns vs Red Flags 00:04:50 – Empathy or Lip Service? 00:06:02 – Women and the Victim Mindset 00:07:15 – Misusing Pop Psychology 00:08:27 – Victimhood as an Identity 00:09:40 – Manipulation Through Guilt 00:10:53 – The Trap of Empath Label 00:12:05 – Nobody Really Cares 00:13:18 – "That Won't Work for Me" Syndrome 00:14:30 – Linking Therapy & Fitness 00:15:43 – Physical Health, Mental Health 00:16:55 – Skirting Around the Truth 00:18:08 – What Body Positivity Hides 00:19:20 – Therapists and Avoidance 00:20:33 – CBT vs Real Change 00:21:46 – Rewiring the Brain 00:22:58 – Behavioral Activation Basics 00:24:11 – Depression vs Inactivity 00:25:24 – The "Just Move" Advice Debate 00:26:36 – Labeling People Isn't Helpful 00:27:49 – Diagnosing Doesn't Fix It 00:29:01 – Narcissist vs NPD 00:30:14 – Court-Ordered Therapy Explained 00:31:27 – Behavior Without Remorse 00:32:39 – Stop Dating Red Flags 00:33:52 – Healing Without Closure 00:35:04 – Bullet Removal Analogy 00:36:17 – Imposter Syndrome or Self-Doubt 00:37:30 – Split Thinking in Success 00:38:42 – The Root is Low Self-Esteem 00:39:55 – Specific vs Situational Confidence 00:41:07 – Authenticity vs Insecurity 00:42:20 – Childhood Trauma & Belief 00:43:32 – Abusive Home Life 00:44:45 – Religious Confusion & Abuse 00:45:57 – Growing Through Education 00:47:10 – Forgiveness Is For You 00:48:22 – Letting Go of Justice 00:49:35 – Closure Is Not Reconnection 00:50:48 – Resentment Bonds You 00:52:00 – Forgiveness and Spiritual Freedom 00:53:13 – Narcissist Still Controls You 00:54:25 – Heal to Stop Obsessing 00:55:38 – Abundance as Antidote 00:56:51 – Betrayal Still Hurts 00:58:03 – Forgiveness Is Daily Work 00:59:16 – Busy Over Bitter 01:00:28 – Power of Forward Vision 01:01:41 – No One Is Coming to Save You 01:02:53 – How She Met Her Ex 01:04:06 – Attracted to Power 01:05:18 – First Signs of Manipulation 01:06:31 – Creating Jealousy Early 01:07:43 – Triangulation Tactics 01:08:56 – Control Through Insecurity 01:10:08 – Going to Therapy After Abuse 01:11:21 – Why She Chose Psychology 01:12:34 – Knowing Her Purpose Early 01:13:46 – Happiness Through Work 01:14:59 – Not Idle, Not Depressed 01:16:11 – Focus on the Future 01:17:24 – Saving Herself, Not Waiting 01:18:36 – First Red Flags in Marriage 01:19:49 – Idealizing False Safety 01:21:02 – Ignoring the Warning Signs 01:22:14 – When Love is a Trauma Bond 01:23:27 – Psychological Abuse Isn't Loud 01:24:39 – The Power of Projection 01:25:52 – Living for Someone Else 01:27:04 – Silence as a Weapon 01:28:17 – Leaving Without Closure 01:29:30 – Self-Worth After Breakup 01:30:42 – Dating While Healing 01:31:55 – Falling Into Old Patterns 01:33:07 – Looking for Safe Chaos 01:34:20 – Why Trauma Feels Like Home 01:35:33 – Fantasy Relationships 01:36:45 – Emotional Safety vs Excitement 01:37:58 – Recognizing Real Love 01:39:10 – Drama Isn't Chemistry 01:40:23 – Trust Takes Time 01:41:35 – Slow is Safe 01:42:48 – Conflict Avoidance Patterns 01:44:01 – Learning to Speak Up 01:45:13 – Boundaries Are Self-Love 01:46:26 – When to Walk Away 01:47:38 – Coaching vs Counseling 01:48:51 – What Clients Really Need 01:50:04 – Accountability Over Validation 01:51:16 – The Truth About Change 01:52:29 – Helping People Who Won't Help Themselves 01:53:41 – Final Thoughts on Narcissism 01:54:54 – Leaving the Past Behind 01:56:06 – Stay Grounded in Reality 01:57:19 – The Power of Reflection 01:58:31 – Own Your Healing 01:59:44 – Thank You Jamie Lynn

The guests are Tristan Darian (IG: https://www.instagram.com/tristandarshan/), Fulfillment Director at Men of Action and co-host of Access Vegas, and Casey Herszog, (IG : https://www.instagram.com/casey.herzog/) Head Coach at Men of Action. Both have coached thousands of men, specializing in helping clients overcome limiting beliefs, take action, and build powerful social circles. 00:00 – Limiting Beliefs Are Holding You Back 01:02 – Why Most Men Stay Stuck 02:15 – Conforming Kills Ambition 03:08 – No Shame, No Progress 04:29 – Stop Settling for Less 05:20 – Regret Comes Later 06:31 – Take Action Instead of Overthinking 07:20 – Fear of Change Holds You Back 08:13 – Thinking Isn't Enough 09:03 – Why Guys Sabotage Themselves 10:20 – Take More Action 11:12 – What the New You Would Say 12:24 – Smart Guys Sabotage Too 13:16 – Business Solves Problems 14:08 – You Look Like You Don't Matter 15:20 – Red Pill Made Men Quit 16:12 – Game Isn't Just for Looks 17:06 – Clubs Aren't Working Anymore 17:59 – Why You Never Got Her 19:16 – Dating Market Is Tough 20:06 – Too Good Isn't Always True 21:24 – Just Take a Step 22:13 – Everyone Gets That Text 23:00 – Therapy Doesn't Solve It 24:22 – Action Is How You Win 25:24 – Belief Comes After Action 26:04 – Inner Game Isn't the Answer 27:18 – Confidence Comes From Action 28:31 – Some Courses Are Scams 29:28 – Do It Even If You Don't Want To 30:58 – Build Confidence Through Action 32:17 – Real Change Happens Fast 32:45 – Inner Game Comes From Reps 33:32 – Build Social Circle Quickly 34:23 – Proof Through Social Media 35:23 – Weak Confidence Breaks Fast 36:21 – Disrupt Her Expectations 37:11 – What Good Photos Look Like 38:39 – Your Feed Looks Lonely 39:47 – Preselection Actually Works 40:40 – How a Ring Changes Perception 41:29 – Bad Advice From Good-Looking Guys 42:25 – Apps Favor Top Guys 43:35 – Cold Approach Isn't Enough 44:30 – How Casey Started 45:43 – Social Circle Builds Over Time 47:03 – Getting Results Gets Easier 47:54 – Start With a Few 48:41 – You Build the Environment 49:53 – Show Your Value 50:36 – Not Everyone Wants Models 51:02 – When Things Run Smoothly 51:45 – One Girl Doesn't Always Satisfy 52:39 – You Don't Have to Sleep With Them 53:30 – Why She Wants to Open Things 54:22 – It's Harder to Keep Her 54:52 – Culture Can Hold You Back 55:37 – Don't Be Affected 56:26 – Most Guys Care Too Much 57:13 – Respect Individual Differences 58:05 – Your Mom Can't Guide You 58:33 – Playing It Safe Doesn't Win 59:26 – Talking to Women Helps 59:52 – Stop Valuing Useless Opinions 01:01:00 – Most Advice Is Bad 01:02:01 – That Common Advice Doesn't Work 01:03:33 – Change How You See Yourself 01:04:39 – Do What's Needed 01:05:56 – Why Trying Hard Works 01:06:54 – You Might Not Be Ready Yet 01:08:07 – Build Confidence Through Reps 01:09:20 – Success Doesn't Equal Results 01:10:13 – Game Beats Money 01:11:02 – Some Guys Still Fail 01:12:45 – Poor Skills Ruin Chances 01:13:30 – Don't Ruin It With Instagram 01:14:56 – Real Coaches Help 01:16:16 – Use Your Time Better 01:17:02 – Drinking Hurts Your Game 01:18:12 – Most People Don't Support You 01:19:06 – Real Testimonials Matter 01:20:00 – Why They Use This Program 01:21:09 – Digital Changes in Dating 01:22:07 – You Don't Need Alcohol 01:23:00 – Drinking Lowers Your Chances 01:24:42 – Don't Drink During the Program 01:25:34 – Stop Caring What They Think 01:26:32 – Alcohol Doesn't Help Confidence 01:27:29 – Ditch the Crutches 01:28:26 – Confidence Comes Naturally 01:29:01 – Be Clear and Assertive 01:29:44 – Give Yourself the Green Light 01:30:32 – Act Now, Don't Wait