Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

The One Sided Relationship: What It Tells Me About You


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Have you ever found yourself in one sided relationship where you are doing ALL the work? Where you are giving, and giving, and giving – and getting little to nothing in return?

Why do you find yourself one way relationships again, and again, and again? The simple answer is this:

You attract the type of relationship you think you deserve. (Tweet it!)

So how do you change that narrative? How do you start believing that you’re worth more? How do you block out the lies that tell you you’re not capable, able, deserving, or worthy?

Why am I always in a one sided relationship?

On today’s episode, I talk to a woman who is struggling with one way relationships in every aspect of her life: from dating, to friendship. She finds that she is in a pattern of putting in all the effort, but getting nothing back in return.

I also talk through the three types of relationships you need to have in your life, because learning to recognize which type of relationship you are in will let you know whether or not it’s time to WALK AWAY from a one sided relationship.

Friends – this episode is SO JAM PACKED WITH AMAZING INFORMATION!!!

Give this episode a quick listen, and then leave your 5-star rating and review on iTunes! It helps to get the word out and challenge others to move toward God’s best for relationships…because you always attract the type of relationship you believe you deserve! (Tweet it)

Single, dating, or married this show has something for you. Tune in to today’s show to hear licensed counselor, Debra Fileta, as she answers her caller through this unscripted conversation in Episode 004 of the Love + Relationships Podcast.

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Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast?  Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to learn more.

Resources Mentioned on the Love + Relationships Podcast and Additional Show Notes:

Learn to let go of the labels in Section 1 of, True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life

Read some more about How To Deal With One Way Relationships in this TLD Article!

Let go of the labels and cling to God’s truth about who you are in Christ.

Ready to have a brave conversation about marriage? Check out my latest book, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me

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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta PodcastBy Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

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