In any ethically non-monogamous situation, inevitably we're going to encounter a wave of emotion leftover from the decades we've all been conditioned for monogamous behavior.  Be it religion or family dynamics, living an ethically non-monogamous life often runs counter to our upbringing. That emotional wave can rapidly turn to panic and it's incumbent upon us to self-soothe...but what if you CAN'T?  What if it hits you like a truck and you don't know what to do?That doesn't happen to Casual Swinger, does it?  
 
This week we discuss why we need to self soothe, and some tips and tricks for helping yourself cope with that first wave of butterflies before it becomes a hurricane...of razor blades.
 
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The Panic Button - When Self-Soothing Fails

Follow the sexy misadventures of Mickey & Mallory, a casual lifestyle couple who are trying hard to be the family next door while being consensually non-monogamous.  From sex toys to the latest swingers in the news, you’ll hear our take on it.

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People find themselves entering a consensually non-monogamous relationship (aka "The swinging lifestyle") in SO many different ways and for different reasons.  One thing is almost universal though, at some point...the boys want a threesome.  Finding a single, willing girl who wants nothing more than to join a married (or attached) couple simply for their pleasure is SO rare she might as well be a mythical creature...aka, a "Unicorn."In tonight's Casual Swinger we break down a way that everyone can get what they want, and no Unicorns were harmed in the creation of this episode!Also, more on Podcast-A-Palooza, Revive Parties, Casual Swinger Week, and of course...WHISKEY of the MONTH!Links:Casual Toys
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The swinging lifestyle is fraught with pitfalls and challenges for the strongest of relationships, but one of the biggest challenges (and fears) couples face is the emotional connection that can occur as these relationships deepen.  We were joined by Scott & April from Naughty Gym to wade into these dangerous waters for relationships and some of the specific challenges they present...if it's not "lifestyle," and it's not "Poly..." what is it?LinksCasual ToysNaughty Gym
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Almost nothing is more shocking than opening an email or text message and seeing the stunning visage of someone's glorious phallus throbbing in all of it's majesty...especially when you didn't ask for it.What's the origin of the d!ck pic?  Why do guys keep sending them?Is it easier or harder on people who actually get paid to look at them?  (Pardon the pun)
Whatever the case, we were lucky enough to be joined by two of the amazing staff from Expansive Connections (www.expansiveconnection.com) to discuss not only the pictures themselves, but the motivations, the responses, and the outcomes of sending pictures of your family jewels to unsuspecting recipients.Dig in and learn more about the almighty d!ck p!c on this week's Casual Swinger!Bonus!The whiskey of the month is BACK!Check out the whiskey of the month this month, I.W. Harper Cabernet Cask Finish!Links:Expansive Connection
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"Content Creators" are absolutely everywhere these days.  The onset of personal content platforms has changed everything from the workplace to social media, right down to subcultures like the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle.In this return to form, Mickey & Mallory dig into the idea that content creators have irreparably and permanently changed the landscape of the lifestyle from a few different angles:1) As content creators ourselves2) As event promoters3) And finally, as a lifestyle coupleSpoiler alert...we don't agree!  Get in on this debate and hear a bit about what's been going on in our world!Links:Be Better @ Being Bad Week @ Hedonism II
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Casual Swinger Week 2023 was over SIX years in the making...and even we couldn't have predicted what would happen when we brought 130 souls to our favorite place on earth, Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica!
Hear our feelings on the events of the week and some of the amazing experiences from our perspectives before listening to PART TWO, the trip from the attendees perspectives.  
 
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The Panic Button - When Self-Soothing Fails

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