Must the female victim be the one to leave the house in order for her abuser to be confronted? 

Abusers usually have a lot of support from their church staff. Why is it often such a continual battle for a victim to prove she is the actual victim?

Most churches focus on restoring abusive marriages. Is it unbiblical if the victim chooses never to go back to her abuser or to work toward reconciliation? 

Is it biblical for a pastor and his staff to not have to be open and honest with the victim about everything concerning her situation? Is misleading or being dishonest the victim biblical?