Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver

The Power of Sibling Bonds in Supporting Your Parent with Laurette Foggini


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Have you ever thought, “I don’t live nearby but my sibling does.  Yeah, they’ve got it.  But shouldn’t I do more?”  

In this episode we’re talking with Laurette Foggini, a daughter, sister, caregiver and so much more.  Laurette Foggini has worked in eldercare for 14 years assisting 100’s of families throughout Northern California.  Her qualifications and certifications are numerous and include Certified Care Manager, Certified Senior Advisor, Senior Fitness Specialist.  But with all the professional experience, Laurette says she has learned more during her personal caregiving experience than in the 14 years of caring for others

Listen in as the sisters talk with Laurette about how, since early 2022 she’s been traveling back and forth between California and New York to help her brother provide the best care for their 93-year-old mother.   Laurette shares her transition from long distance caregiving to shared care with her brother.  Their bond in caring and support for one another makes some of the hardest dementia moments livable and laughable.


Key Takeaways:

  • As a live-in caregiver, make the space comfortable for you too!
  • Find the silver lining in the everyday activities.  Caregiving can be tedious but finding the little things that bring you joy can be the difference between laughter and tears.  
  • Don’t shy away from taking moments to yourself to enjoy some guilty pleasures.  It’s amazing how a store bought cup of joe can change your day!

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Learn More About Laurette Foggini 

Laurette has worked in eldercare for the past 14 years in Northern California.   Over the course of her career, she has assisted hundreds of families caring for loved ones facing challenging health issues.  Together she helps them identify needs, create care plans, connect to resources and arrange in-home care with professional caregivers.  

As a natural storyteller with a love for children’s books, Laurette wrote and published The Song in Lola’s Heart, about caregiving for someone with dementia.   The main character, Lola, is 6 and ¾ whose best friend is her grandmother, Babu (short for babushka).  The Song in Lola’s Heart can be purchased for $9.99 on Amazon.  

Connect with Laurette Foggini

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/laurette.foggini?mibextid=LQQJ4d

Linked In: http://linkedin.com/in/laurettefoggini

Book: The Song in Lola's Heart; can be purchased on Amazon

Other: Facebook Page for Book: https://www.facebook.com/TheSonginLolasHeart?mibextid=LQQJ4d;


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