May 26, 2025

The Price Of Being Nice (feat. Sarah of Horrible Mean Bad Woman)

2 hours 2 minutes

This week on The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen are joined by Sarah, the fearless feminist creator behind Horrible Mean Bad Woman to unpack the societal cost of being “nice.” In our Tea Time segment, we discuss Halle Bailey’s custody battle with DDG, updates in the Diddy case, and a horrifying story out of Georgia where a brain-dead woman is being kept alive to carry a pregnancy to term.

In the main discussion, we examine how “niceness” has been weaponized to keep women small, compliant, and self-sacrificing, and how rejecting people-pleasing can be one of the most radical things a woman can do. We also dive into the sci-fi film Companion and its chilling metaphor for how some men view women as customizable emotional support systems, designed to serve.

🎧 This episode is a defiant reminder that “being nice” won’t save us. It just makes patriarchy more comfortable.

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

The hidden cost of people-pleasing for women

Emotional manipulation and the illusion of reciprocity

Why saying “no” is essential for self-preservation

Media narratives that center men’s needs over women’s

Feminist rage as an antidote to guilt and grief

How the film Companion reveals men’s desire for control and obedience

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:

Halle Bailey Granted Temporary Custody of Son Following Accusations Against DDG (BET)

What is Sean 'Diddy' Combs Charged With? (BBC)

Hospital Tells Family Brain-Dead Georgia Woman Must Carry Fetus (AP News)

Former Nurse Arrested After Woman in Vegetative State Gives Birth (ABC News)

Slave Breeding in the United States (Wikipedia)

Sarah’s Pillow Story TikTok

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:

Horrible Mean Bad Woman

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:

00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!

01:45 Halle Bailey & DDG, A Cautionary Tale

08:30 The Diddy Trial, Men Are Telling On Themselves

19:03 A Brain-Dead Woman Forced To Birth

28:29 Horrible Mean Bad Woman Joins Us

34:00 People-Pleasing Hurts Women

39:10 The Cost of Self-Sacrifice for Women

46:14 Rejecting Emotional Manipulation

59:04 Beauty Standards for Women vs Men

01:12:39 Men Are Trying To Pull Your Strings

01:17:09 Unlearning People-Pleasing

01:30:47 Exploring the Film Companion

02:00:00 Poll Results, Medical Gaslighting

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth.

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