Schauer Thoughts

The Real Downside of Intentionally Misunderstanding People


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This week in the communal Schauer we’re discussing the actual, neurological, downside of intentionally (not accidentally) misunderstanding others! Now I do want y’all to know that there is a difference between genuine debate and being an obtuse pr*ck, so please don’t assume I’m saying “never disagree again.” You can understand (comprehend) someone but you do not have to validate their augment (apply positive or negative moral judgement) because those are two separate processes in the brain. Other than that, please enjoy this episode, have an amazing week, and I hope you feel *a moderate to intense* experience of delight with this new information!


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Olivia Unplugged Tiktok

https://www.tiktok.com/@olivia.unplugged?_t=ZT-90APwzxxDNG&_r=1

  • Such an incredible creator and account, definitely recommend following her!

  • Life In Three Dimensions: How Curiosity, Exploration, and Experience Make a Fuller, Better Life - Shigehiro Oishi, PhD


    Why We Sleep - Matthew Walker PhD


    Use Powerful Intentions to Become Your Authentic Best 

    https://newayscenter.com/powerful-intentions-authentic-best/

    • Helpful resource for positively framing intentions

    • The influence of intentions on dream content 

      https://academic.oup.com/sleepadvances/article/5/1/zpae088/7912101


      How the Little-Known Zeigarnik Effect Impacts Everyone Daily

      https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/natural-order/202209/how-the-little-known-zeigarnik-effect-impacts-everyone-daily


      The Art of Sustainable Performance: The Zeigarnik Effect

      https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-030-46463-9_10


      Dreaming and offline memory processing

      https://www.cell.com/current-biology/fulltext/S0960-9822(10)01360-6?_returnURL=https%3A%2F%2Flinkinghub.elsevier.com%2Fretrieve%2Fpii%2FS0960982210013606%3Fshowall%3Dtrue


      The Neuroscience of Goals and Behavior Change

      https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5854216/#:~:text=This%20habit%20learning%20process%20also,with%20in%20the%20first%20place.


      The neural bases of feeling understood and not understood

      https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4249470/#nst191-B33

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