The Relationship Guy

Relationship coach Laura Bedo joins host John Kenny to discuss the importance of understanding the female menstrual cycle and its impact on relationships. Laura explains how different phases of the cycle can affect a woman's energy, mood, and productivity, and how being aware of these changes can lead to better self-care and communication within relationships. She also touches on the perimenopause and menopause stages, highlighting the need for women to address any unresolved issues during this transformative time. Overall, this episode provides valuable insights into the connection between the female body, hormones, and relationship dynamics.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Understanding and tracking your menstrual cycle can help you optimise your productivity and energy levels throughout the month.

• The different phases of the menstrual cycle (menstruation, follicular, luteal) have different effects on hormones and mood, and being aware of these changes can help you navigate them more effectively.

• During menstruation, it's important to give yourself time to rest and rejuvenate, as your energy levels may be lower.

• The follicular phase is a time of increased energy and creativity, making it a great time to pursue goals and projects.

• The luteal phase, characterized by hormonal fluctuations, can bring up limiting beliefs and emotions that need to be addressed. Getting curious and working through these beliefs can lead to personal growth and transformation.

BEST MOMENTS

"Women are designed to run on a 28 to 34 day cycle. To get their peak performance in life, in dating, in all of the things, understanding that is the biggest game changer." 

"Women can have a literal rebirth every single month of who she is. If she's able to release physically, spiritually, mentally, that block, she's rebirthed as that new version of who she is.

"Knowing somebody's love language in any relationship is fascinating. If you don't know your love language, I would definitely advise to go and learn it." 

"The perimenopause is when the veil thins, which basically means your hormones and dopamine are flatlining. The things that need to be addressed will be coming up and it will be blocking you from living your full potential." 

"In the menopause, that's when you're in your wise woman phase. Everything has synchronicity and when you can anchor in that safety and be present, it's a game changer."

Links: www.johnkennycoaching.com

The Bicycle Affect: https://youtu.be/oO7XZGvdWno

Relationship Video course and 1-2-1 coaching: Relationship Ready Online Programme - John Kenny (johnkennycoaching.com)

To get in touch - email – [email protected] or book a complimentary call –https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min

If people want to order a copy of the book then they can just pay postage of £4.95 (RRP £8.99) - www.johnkennycoaching.com/podcast-book-offer

Want to be able to address the relationship issues in your life? - Why not book in for a complimentary call and we can discuss how you can get the new started with some new types of relationships - https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min

The Relationship Guy Podcast - https://omny.fm/shows/the-relationship-guy

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I am John Kenny, Award Winning Relationship Coach.

Coaching people to experience healthy loving relationships. Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose.

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This is a rerun episode - and a hugely significant thing to know about yourself and those you have relationships with - enjoy !

In this episode, John talks about the language of love itself, which communicates itself through many varied means, including subconscious, physical, psychological, sensual and of course, verbal.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• We have learned through our life experiences, the way we wish to be loved, respected and cared for by others. We each have a different means of listening to the language of love.
• An act of service refers not to servitude, but rather that actions speak louder than words. It is when others recognise your need and show love voluntarily.
• We have a primary way of feeling loved, and the people we're with will have methods, too. These may differ between people, so we must recognise this.

BEST MOMENTS
'If this is your love language, then you like positive words of affection'
'If someone gives you something that means something to you, it's not about what is costs, but the thought they put into it'
'This is where a lot of problems seem to occur, especially in the dating world'

VALUABLE RESOURCES
Links: www.johnkennycoaching.com
The Bicycle Affect: https://youtu.be/oO7XZGvdWno
Relationship Video course and 1-2-1 coaching: Relationship Ready Online Programme - John Kenny (johnkennycoaching.com)
To get in touch - email – [email protected] or book a complimentary call –https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min
If people want to order a copy of the book then they can just pay postage of £4.95 (RRP £8.99) - www.johnkennycoaching.com/podcast-book-offer
Want to be able to address the relationship issues in your life? - Why not book in for a complimentary call and we can discuss how you can get the new started with some new types of relationships - https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min
The Relationship Guy Podcast - https://omny.fm/shows/the-relationship-guy 

CONTACT DETAILS
Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/johnkennycoaching
LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-kenny-coaching
Insta – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennycoaching/
Twitter – https://www.twitter.com/johnkennycoach
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHTj9x6Tlo7lcIJITyx-tgQ
Clubhouse - @relationshipguy

ABOUT THE HOST
I am John Kenny, Award Winning Relationship Coach.
Coaching people to experience healthy loving relationships. Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose.

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In this episode, John Kenny interviews Helene Davidian, a spiritual healing channel, intuitive counselor, and life coach. Helene shares her journey from various careers to discovering her gift as a healing channel. She explains how she connects with spirit to channel healing energy through her head, arms, and hands. Discusses her work as a past life regressionist and stress management consultant. She shares fascinating stories of how past life regression has helped people overcome relationship and fertility issues. Helene's intuitive abilities and empathetic nature have made her a trusted source of support and healing for many.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Helene Davidian is a spiritual healing channel, intuitive counselor, and life coach specialising in stress management and empowering people to be their unique selves.
• Helene is a channel for healing energy, allowing it to flow through her during sessions. She prays and tunes in with the spirit to be used as a vessel for healing.
• In addition to healing, Helene also practices hypnotherapy and past life regression therapy. She helps clients explore past lives to uncover unresolved issues that may be affecting their current lives.
• Helene has a strong intuition and empathic abilities, allowing her to feel and understand the emotions and pain of others. She uses this gift to provide guidance and support to her clients.
• Trusting your gut and intuition is important, as it can provide valuable insights and protect you from potential harm. Helene emphasises the importance of listening to your instincts and following them, even if you don't fully understand why at the time.

BEST MOMENTS
"If everybody trusts their gut, not the brain, the brain fools you. But if you use your gut, and even if you don't know what it's about, just trust it. You'll find out later."
"Not every somebody came for me for a past life session. His wife brought him and he said to me, 'I don't believe in this.' So I said, 'Don't worry, your imagination will bring something up.' He brought one of the most amazing lives that I've ever heard up, and he said at the end, 'Where did that come from?' I said, 'It's your imagination.' And it solved his problem, which is why we do it."
"Everything's happened for a reason, and my mum is now, believe it or not, up there looking after little children, you know, ones like my age that I would have. That gave me a lot of comfort to know that's what she's doing."
"The gut or intuition is very important to me. It saved my life. If everybody listens to that, the brain gives you false information. When you meet somebody for the first time, check out in your gut, your intuition, what you feel about them because sometimes the brain will say they're fine and they might not be. So check it out, and you'll find out later which is right."
"If you get a very strong feeling not to go somewhere, please listen."

GUEST RESOURCES
Email: [email protected]

VALUABLE RESOURCES
Links: www.johnkennycoaching.com
The Bicycle Affect: https://youtu.be/oO7XZGvdWno
Relationship Video course and 1-2-1 coaching: Relationship Ready Online Programme - John Kenny (johnkennycoaching.com)
To get in touch - email – [email protected] or book a complimentary call –https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min
If people want to order a copy of the book then they can just pay postage of £4.95 (RRP £8.99) - www.johnkennycoaching.com/podcast-book-offer
Want to be able to address the relationship issues in your life? - Why not book in for a complimentary call and we can discuss how you can get the new started with some new types of relationships - https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min
The Relationship Guy Podcast - https://omny.fm/shows/the-relationship-guy 

CONTACT DETAILS
Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/johnkennycoaching
LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-kenny-coaching
Insta – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennycoaching/
Twitter – https://www.twitter.com/johnkennycoach
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHTj9x6Tlo7lcIJITyx-tgQ
Clubhouse - @relationshipguy

ABOUT THE HOST
I am John Kenny, Award Winning Relationship Coach.
Coaching people to experience healthy loving relationships. Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose.

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What is the power and, the limitations of our gut instincts in making decisions? John explores this topic and explains that whilst gut instincts can provide valuable insights and help us navigate complex situations, they are not always accurate or reliable. John delves into the connection between gut instincts and emotional intelligence, emphasising the importance of observing and managing our feelings effectively. He also discusses how our past experiences and beliefs can influence our gut instincts, leading us to make choices that may not serve us in building healthy and fulfilling relationships. John offers insights on how to recognise and challenge these patterns to attract better relationship outcomes.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Your instincts are important for paying attention to relevant aspects of our environment, but they may not always be right. They provide a sense or intuition about a situation, but they do not give a clear indication of a right or wrong answer.

• Feelings of unease, clarity, tension, or tightness in the body, goosebumps, butterflies, or even nausea can all be related to your gut instincts. They can also be accompanied by thoughts that keep returning to a specific person or situation, or feelings of peace, safety, happiness, or fulfillment.

• The brain is connected to your gust instincts, where brain cells lining the digestive tract evaluate and decode non-verbal cues like body language and energy. They help the brain analyze patterns and probabilities before the conscious mind has time to catch up.

• Gut instincts are not paranoia or anxiety. They arise in specific situations that require intuition and decision-making. Paranoia is an unjustified suspicion or mistrust, while anxiety involves negative future outcomes. Gut instincts, on the other hand, provide subtle signals about a situation or person.

• If our overall emotional intelligence (EI) is low then we can easily be misled by our gut instincts. If we haven't developed the ability to observe and manage our own feelings effectively, our gut instincts may lead us astray in relationships. Our past experiences and beliefs about ourselves can also influence our gut instincts and lead us to make poor choices. It is important to recognise and challenge these patterns to attract healthier and more fulfilling relationships.

BEST MOMENTS

"Your gut instinct is very important to ensure that you're paying attention to the most relevant aspects of your environment."

"Gut feelings are not paranoia and neither are they anxiety, although you may get similar bodily reactions and sensations."

"Without your gut instinct, you are likely to forever be stuck in what's called analysis paralysis at times, as you just can't think your way through making a choice or how you need to act."

"Your gut instinct could be leading you astray and you will continue to make bad choices for your life and the future of getting the healthy and fulfilling relationships you want."

"Although we can't go back and make a brand new start, we can start now and make a brand new ending."

Links: www.johnkennycoaching.com

The Bicycle Affect: https://youtu.be/oO7XZGvdWno

Relationship Video course and 1-2-1 coaching: Relationship Ready Online Programme - John Kenny (johnkennycoaching.com)

To get in touch - email – [email protected] or book a complimentary call –https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min

If people want to order a copy of the book then they can just pay postage of £4.95 (RRP £8.99) - www.johnkennycoaching.com/podcast-book-offer

Want to be able to address the relationship issues in your life? - Why not book in for a complimentary call and we can discuss how you can get the new started with some new types of relationships - https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min

The Relationship Guy Podcast - https://omny.fm/shows/the-relationship-guy

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LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-kenny-coaching

Insta – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennycoaching/

Twitter – https://www.twitter.com/johnkennycoach

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHTj9x6Tlo7lcIJITyx-tgQ

Clubhouse - @relationshipguy

I am John Kenny, Award Winning Relationship Coach.

Coaching people to experience healthy loving relationships. Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose.

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John is back with Joseph Maguire, an expert in reading body language and a negotiation whiz. Joseph spills the beans on how our looks and those little gestures we make can totally shape how we connect with others. Joe talks about checking out people's usual behavior and cluing into the messages our faces send – you know, the raised eyebrows, the nose scrunches, the smiles – they all say something! And guess what? The sound of our voice matters too! Joseph lets us in on how it can spill the beans on our true emotions and what we're really after.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• The lines between the eyebrows indicate a perfectionist side and a tendency to be self-critical. It is important to recognize and let go of the need for perfection.

• The eyebrows being relatively straight and thick suggest that logical and rational explanations are preferred, while abstract or vague language may be off-putting.

• The rounded face shape creates a friendly and approachable impression, making it easier for others to let their guard down and feel comfortable around you.

• The well-formed nose and rounded nose tip indicate a strong ability to express oneself and communicate in a friendly manner.

• The wide mouth suggests a talkative and chatty nature, with a preference for engaging in conversation. Silence can be uncomfortable, and speaking is an integral part of self-expression.

BEST MOMENTS

"Zen mind, beginner's mind, always recognize you're always in that fresh place of learning again."

"When we see somebody with rounded facial features like that, we automatically feel that this person's okay."

"Your mouth is relatively wide, so it tells me you're naturally very talkative, very chatty."

"Your chin is well formed and slightly prominent, so you're a very determined individual."

"Your eyes are naturally quite big, so there's a big element of being heart on sleeve."

USEFUL RESOURCES

Links: www.johnkennycoaching.com

The Bicycle Affect: https://youtu.be/oO7XZGvdWno

Relationship Video course and 1-2-1 coaching: Relationship Ready Online Programme - John Kenny (johnkennycoaching.com)

To get in touch - email – [email protected] or book a complimentary call –https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min

If people want to order a copy of the book then they can just pay postage of £4.95 (RRP £8.99) - www.johnkennycoaching.com/podcast-book-offer

Want to be able to address the relationship issues in your life? - Why not book in for a complimentary call and we can discuss how you can get the new started with some new types of relationships - https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min

The Relationship Guy Podcast - https://omny.fm/shows/the-relationship-guy

 

CONTACT METHOD

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LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-kenny-coaching

Insta – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennycoaching/

Twitter – https://www.twitter.com/johnkennycoach

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHTj9x6Tlo7lcIJITyx-tgQ

Clubhouse - @relationshipguy

 

ABOUT THE HOST

I am John Kenny, Award Winning Relationship Coach.

Coaching people to experience healthy loving relationships. Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

John meets Dr Ricky Arenson, a leading Australian endocrinologist, husband, podcaster, stand-up comic, and author of ‘Women Are Superior to Men: The REAL Secret to a Fantastic Marriage, Joyful Parenting & Better Sex!’ in which he points out the important truths that couples are missing out in their relationships. John and Ricky discuss his early medical experience and his expertise, his move into the relationship field, and his advice on handling the marriage relationship and all important relationships in life.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Many people think they have a relationship problem but actually have a hormone problem.
• Ricky eventually moved from the medical side to the relationship side of medical practice.
• ‘Women are Superior to Men’ is about the typical male/female differences in a marriage.
• The thing we regret is not taking the opportunity to fix relationships.
• The secret of longevity is incredibly boring. It is to eat less, exercise more and don’t fill your body with toxins.
• Women are designed to have children and there is a skill set specific to women that comes with that.

BEST MOMENTS

 ‘I was an outdoor South African boy by nature and moved out to Australia and did all my specialist training here.’-Ricky

‘You don’t manage diseases most of the time in medicine you manage people.’-Ricky

‘Mothers are amazing and I wanted to celebrate the fact that we have these wonderful mothers.’-Ricky

‘Relationships can actually be really easy. They don’t need to be so difficult if we work on those things that get covered in your book.’-John

‘If it’s a hormonal issue I can identify that, and if it’s a marital issue, depending on its complexity, sometimes it needs to be referred on to someone but sometimes there’s simple things that I can deal with.’-Ricky

‘Masculinity and femininity were the tools we were given to attract each other and survive.’-Ricky

 

GUEST RESOURCES

Links: drrickyarenson.com 

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Links: www.johnkennycoaching.com

The Bicycle Affect: https://youtu.be/oO7XZGvdWno

Relationship Video course and 1-2-1 coaching: Relationship Ready Online Programme - John Kenny (johnkennycoaching.com)

To get in touch - email – [email protected] or book a complimentary call –https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min

If people want to order a copy of the book then they can just pay postage of £4.95 (RRP £8.99) - www.johnkennycoaching.com/podcast-book-offer

Want to be able to address the relationship issues in your life? - Why not book in for a complimentary call and we can discuss how you can get the new started with some new types of relationships - https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min

The Relationship Guy Podcast - https://omny.fm/shows/the-relationship-guy 

CONTACT METHOD

Facebook –

https://www.facebook.com/johnkennycoaching

LinkedIn –

https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-kenny-coaching


Insta –

https://www.instagram.com/johnkennycoaching/

Twitter –

https://www.twitter.com/johnkennycoach}

YouTube -

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHTj9x6Tlo7lcIJITyx-tgQ

Clubhouse - @relationshipguy

 

ABOUT THE HOST 

I am John Kenny, Award Winning Relationship Coach.

Coaching people to experience healthy loving relationships. Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose.

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With much of people’s dating habits being conducted using dating apps, online safety and well-being have often been a secondary concern for many of the more successful platforms. Meet Jay Dodds, the creator of the Bonkers dating app, a dating platform designed to not only be inclusive with all sexual orientations welcome but also open to casual and long-term relationship seekers alike. With safety as a primary concern, Jay has a refreshing new offering on modern dating and relationships to share.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Jay has previously worked in sound design for theatre and live productions of all kinds from musicals to stunt shows.
• Other dating apps tend to go for a large volume of users to meet their investor’s needs primarily through advertising. Bonkers has a full verification process and many added safety features.
• Bonkers is split into two sections, a casual and a long-term relationship section so the two aims cannot cause conflict.
• A star rating system encourages people to be polite and respectful.
• The app allows for video calling, phone calls and voice notes. With verified photos, you can feel assured before you commit to a date that you have seen the real person.

BEST MOMENTS

‘Our whole mission is to put the fun back into dating while keeping people safe.’-Jay

‘That’s when we really started to drive it in the direction of becoming the Uk’s safest dating app.’-Jay

‘Being a relationship coach, the nightmare stories I hear about people going onto apps and looking for relationships and they end up being ghosted and all manner of things, led down the garden path by people that say they want relationships.’-John

‘We’ve had to brainstorm on what all the issues are that users are currently facing and continue to face and how do we address it because, again, I think that all the other apps are just growing they’re not really thinking about this.’-Jay

‘You’re paying to constantly create this false sense of yourself of what you think you should be giving to the world.’-Jay

‘When you can really genuinely start to like yourself, you then get that confidence where you can love someone else.’-Jay

GUEST RESOURCES

 bonkersapp.com

VALUABLE RESOURCES 

Links: www.johnkennycoaching.com

The Bicycle Affect: https://youtu.be/oO7XZGvdWno

Relationship Video course and 1-2-1 coaching: Relationship Ready Online Programme - John Kenny (johnkennycoaching.com)

To get in touch - email – [email protected] or book a complimentary call –https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min

If people want to order a copy of the book then they can just pay postage of £4.95 (RRP £8.99) - www.johnkennycoaching.com/podcast-book-offer

Want to be able to address the relationship issues in your life? - Why not book in for a complimentary call and we can discuss how you can get the new started with some new types of relationships - https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min

The Relationship Guy Podcast - https://omny.fm/shows/the-relationship-guy 

CONTACT METHOD

Facebook –

https://www.facebook.com/johnkennycoaching

LinkedIn –

https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-kenny-coaching

Insta –

https://www.instagram.com/johnkennycoaching/

Twitter –

https://www.twitter.com/johnkennycoach}

YouTube -

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHTj9x6Tlo7lcIJITyx-tgQ

Clubhouse - @relationshipguy

 

ABOUT THE HOST 

I am John Kenny, Award Winning Relationship Coach.

Coaching people to experience healthy loving relationships. Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

John explains what a Relationship Coach does and what they can provide for you. He offers advice on finding a coach that meets your needs, what you should look for, what you can expect from coaching, online or live coaching, personal experience, and what you can hope to achieve from a relationship with a Relationship Coach.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• To find your best type of coach, identify your needs before you start to look. 
• A trained coach in relationship coaching is preferable.
• Some personal experience in relationship issues is also desirable in a coach.
• There are different types of relationship coaches such as marriage coaches, work coaches and dating coaches.
• Relationships affect all areas of our lives, so relationship coaching covers a massive area of your well-being. 

BEST MOMENTS
‘One thing I would definitely look for is someone who has some kind of qualifications in coaching too.’
‘As relationships are very emotive, very personal things have come up for these people and the coach has had no idea how to deal with what’s come up.’
‘If you’re looking for a relationship coach that is going to help you then it’s maybe better if you find someone who has had similar experiences to you.’
‘When I’m with my clients I can use my experience, I can use my knowledge to make a very educated guess on what they’re going through and what might be able to help them move forward.’
‘Ultimately, a coach is there to help you along the way and to ask those great questions but to hold you accountable for the changes that you need to make in order to get to the space that you need to get to.’  

VALUABLE RESOURCES
Links: www.johnkennycoaching.com
The Bicycle Affect: https://youtu.be/oO7XZGvdWno
Relationship Video course and 1-2-1 coaching: Relationship Ready Online Programme - John Kenny (johnkennycoaching.com)
To get in touch - email – [email protected] or book a complimentary call –https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min
If people want to order a copy of the book then they can just pay postage of £4.95 (RRP £8.99) - www.johnkennycoaching.com/podcast-book-offer
Want to be able to address the relationship issues in your life? - Why not book in for a complimentary call and we can discuss how you can get the new started with some new types of relationships - https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min
The Relationship Guy Podcast - https://omny.fm/shows/the-relationship-guy 

CONTACT METHOD
Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/johnkennycoaching
LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-kenny-coaching
Insta – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennycoaching/
Twitter – https://www.twitter.com/johnkennycoach
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHTj9x6Tlo7lcIJITyx-tgQ

Clubhouse - @relationshipguy
ABOUT THE HOST
I am John Kenny, Award Winning Relationship Coach.
Coaching people to experience healthy loving relationships. Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

John talks to Allison Jayne Ewing, EFT Practitioner, Dating Coach, Author, and Founder & Owner of Inspired Life Tapping LLC. As with many other therapies, EFT works on the premise that the body contains energy channels that become blocked or unbalanced, which leads to emotional and physical illness. Using tapping techniques, the Emotional Freedom Technique corrects these imbalances. By clearing these blocks, Allison provides her clients with the ability to manifest the life of their dreams. Using her own personal experiences and knowledge, Allison co-founded Dating After Your Divorce to help women find single, available men to love and adore them. 

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Allison was divorced herself and at that point was a Psychotherapist and decided to specialise in Relationship Psychology.   
• Using her unique perspective, Allison has written ‘Find Love Again: Learn to Date like a Goddess’.
• Tapping is the technique of stimulating particular acupressure points to prevent the fight or flight reaction of the amygdala to stress points.
• Combined with the identifying of false beliefs this method can change someone’s dating habits, mistakes and assumptions.
• Women are afraid to hand over control and should be open to receive what their male partners want to give.  

BEST MOMENTS
‘At some point this occurred to me I should really put all this into a book because I knew I had this unique perspective and knowledge as a therapist and had all this real life story.’-Allison
‘What I feel makes the book magical is that I have this very unique third ingredient of EFT Tapping and my whole theory behind dating and what is the basis of the book is you can magnetise to you anything that you want in life as long as you clear what’s blocking you.’-Allison
‘When we are actually looking to date someone if we’re focusing on people that we think want to date younger women then the only guys that we are going to end up talking to are also going to be the ones that want to date younger women.’-John
‘Gratitude is a natural state, but if you have bitterness or resentment in the way you can write 3 things you’re grateful for all day long and it’s not going to shift if you’re feeling all these yucky things that are blocking.’-Allison 

VALUABLE RESOURCES
Links: www.johnkennycoaching.com
The Bicycle Affect: https://youtu.be/oO7XZGvdWno
Relationship Video course and 1-2-1 coaching: Relationship Ready Online Programme - John Kenny (johnkennycoaching.com)
To get in touch - email – [email protected] or book a complimentary call –https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min
If people want to order a copy of the book then they can just pay postage of £4.95 (RRP £8.99) - www.johnkennycoaching.com/podcast-book-offer
Want to be able to address the relationship issues in your life? - Why not book in for a complimentary call and we can discuss how you can get the new started with some new types of relationships - https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min
The Relationship Guy Podcast - https://omny.fm/shows/the-relationship-guy

CONTACT METHOD
Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/johnkennycoaching
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ABOUT THE HOST
I am John Kenny, Award Winning Relationship Coach.
Coaching people to experience healthy loving relationships. Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose.

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John explains how important it is to value and accept ourselves to be able to create successful relationships in our lives. How can you be sure that you have fully embraced yourself moving forward?    

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• It is an ongoing process to reprogram and uncover false beliefs about oneself.  
• Self-acceptance can help with your moods and demeanour and improve your inner contentment and happiness.
• If you are not self-accepting, you will constantly be seeking external approval.
• Appreciate your appearance for what it is and do not constantly compare to others.
• Having boundaries in your life and being positive about your decisions is all about having trust in yourself.

BEST MOMENTS
‘How do I know that my relationship with myself has improved?’
‘What is self-acceptance? In a nutshell, it’s the process of recognising and embracing and affirming yourself including your strengths and weaknesses, and your individuality, as well as the part you play in the bigger picture of life.’
‘It can be difficult to avoid comparing yourself to others especially when scrolling through social media.’
‘If you need to make a life-changing decision then that’s no problem as you trust yourself.’
‘With self-acceptance, you become comfortable in your own company, you don’t need the company of others to feel comfortable.’ 

VALUABLE RESOURCES
Links: www.johnkennycoaching.com/resources
The Bicycle Affect: https://youtu.be/oO7XZGvdWno
Relationship Video course and 1-2-1 coaching: Relationship Ready Online Programme - John Kenny (johnkennycoaching.com)
To get in touch - email – [email protected] or book a complimentary call –https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min
If people want to order a copy of the book then they can just pay postage of £4.95 (RRP £8.99) - www.johnkennycoaching.com/podcast-book-offer
Want to be able to address the relationship issues in your life? - Why not book in for a complimentary call and we can discuss how you can get the new started with some new types of relationships - https://calendly.com/johnkennycoaching/30min
The Relationship Guy Podcast - https://omny.fm/shows/the-relationship-guy 

CONTACT METHOD
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LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-kenny-coaching
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Twitter – https://www.twitter.com/johnkennycoach
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHTj9x6Tlo7lcIJITyx-tgQ
Clubhouse - @relationshipguy

ABOUT THE HOST
I am John Kenny, Award Winning Relationship Coach.
Coaching people to experience healthy loving relationships. Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.