“How do you balance it all?”

Here's the truth… balance is overrated.

In this episode, we break down why the real key isn’t trying to evenly juggle everything — it’s learning how to prioritize what matters most in the season you’re in, and making sure your priorities actually match what you say you want.

The real key is learning how to prioritize the right things in the right season, and making sure your priorities match the life you say you want.

In this episode, we discuss:

✅ Why “balance” doesn’t work in real life

✅ How to prioritize based on seasons

✅ What to do when goals and priorities don’t align

✅ Why rigid schedules can block growth

✅ The difference between family commitments and legacy building

✅ How to stop letting guilt and outside voices control you

✅ The discipline people never see behind the wins

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In this episode of The Self Talk Experience, Darnell and Traci dive into a game‑changing concept: The Power of One.

It’s not just the one action that changes your life—it’s the way that one action makes you feel that starts a chain reaction. When you do the thing you said you would do (even if it’s just a part of it), you begin to build trust with yourself. That self‑trust leads to new standards, new habits, and a new level of life.

In this video, you’ll learn:

• Why focusing on big numbers and big goals can feel overwhelming—and how breaking them down into one more action makes them doable.
• How small wins (like 50 pushups instead of 500) can shift your mindset and create momentum.
• The power of accountability and how challenges (push‑up challenges, stair climber commitments, etc.) can pull you out of your comfort zone.
• Why your mind looks for evidence to support what it already believes—and how changing your self talk helps you attract more good.
• How to stop speaking in absolutes like “nobody,” “always,” and “never,” and start seeing the truth about your progress.
• The importance of raising your standards—you’re not stuck, your expectations have just grown.
• Real life examples of doing one uncomfortable thing: writing letters to speak up, getting back 

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Welcome back to a brand new season of the Self Talk Experience with Darnell & Traci Self! This first episode of 2026 is all about intentionality, boundaries, honest conversations, and setting yourself up to elevate this year—in your faith, family, finances, health, and relationships. We'll talk about

1. Why Intentionality Changes Everything

If you don’t intentionally choose better, you’ll unintentionally default to what’s easy and available—whether that’s food, habits, finances, or relationships.

2. The Difference Between Boundaries and Rules

Boundaries are about you and how you protect your peace.

3. How To Choose what to continue, adjust, or remove in the new year.

4. Tough Conversations & Relationship Growth

How to use planning time to have real, honest conversations about what each person needs.

5. Accountability, Habits & Execution

Why execution—not just hoping, wishing, and writing goals—will shape your 2026.

and so much more!

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in today's episode we are going to dive into why it's not just about knowing what you want to change, but understanding what you are changing towards. We'll also dive into:

• Embrace Change Mindfully: Change is inevitable, but it's crucial to be intentional about what you want to change to. Identify your new goals and make deliberate plans to reach them.
• Trust and Communication in Relationships: Successful pivoting often requires trust in one another, particularly in partnerships. Open communication can facilitate seamless transitions.
• Positive Self Talk: The way you converse with yourself can significantly influence your reality. Focus on affirming your abilities and potential rather than dwelling on past shortcomings.
• Goal Adjustment Is Normal: Goals may change several times through the year and that’s okay. Pivot your plans, just make sure you're still moving in the right direction towards something that excites you.
• Prepare for Setbacks: Anticipate and plan for unexpected setbacks in your goals, so they don't derail your progress. Keep motivated by shifting focus to what can be controlled or changed in the situation.

and so much more!

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Ever wondered why some people effortlessly conquer challenges while others struggle? Dive in and discover how the power of self-talk can transform your life beyond your wildest dreams! In this episode we learn that it's not merely about achieving outcomes but evolving into the person capable of sustaining success. Whether you're seeking to strike professional triumphs or personal peace, it starts with intentional living and reshaping your narrative. We will also dive into :

Self-awareness and Growth:The importance of acknowledging your habits, such as procrastination, and working towards becoming the person you aspire to be by understanding and addressing the root causes.

• Intentional Relationships: The need to building intentional and meaningful relationships with people who inspire and hold you accountable, aiding in personal and professional development.
• Self-talk and Personal Development: Focusing on the power of positive self-talk and how it impacts your daily life and decisions. Practicing self-talk is essential for breaking negative thought patterns and achieving goals.
• Overcoming Fear and Self-sabotage: Strategies for overcoming self-sabotage and fear by having a supportive network and adopting a mindset that challenges and shifts limiting beliefs.
• The "Become" Philosophy: The importance of becoming the person needed to reach desired outcomes, rather than solely focusing on the end result. Success is about evolving into a better version of oneself to maintain and grow beyond achievements.

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Who do you want to be ? Really? Can the way you talk to yourself change your life's trajectory? From lighthearted college memories to deep discussions on self-growth, this episode offers insights on transforming your self-talk to create the life you want.

Darnell and Traci are going to unpack :

• Self-Awareness: Understand how self-perception influences your internal dialogue and affects what or whom you bring into your life.
• Envisioning the Future: Discover ways to imagine your future self and shift your current self-talk accordingly.
• Affirmations: Learn the value of being around people who affirm and support your growth.
• Practical Tips: Identify your strengths and areas for improvement, and set goals to enhance your mindset.

and so much more!

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Ever wondered why the word 'no' might just be your new secret weapon to unlocking unlimited potential in every aspect of your life? Stay tuned to discover how redefining this one word can set the course for your success!

Join Darnell Self in this enlightening episode of the Self Talk Experience Podcast as he dives deep into the concept of saying "no" and how it can be a positive force in your life. Have you ever thought about how saying "no" could actually bring you closer to your goals and help you maintain focus on your priorities? Darnell explores the art of self-talk, and how reframing our internal dialogue can create a more intentional and fulfilling life.

Learn why "no" is a complete sentence and how it helps prioritize your goals without unnecessary explanations.

Discover how self-talk impacts your daily decision-making and personal growth.

Understand how "no" can redirect you toward paths aligned with your goals, acting as a personal GPS.

How to transform the perceived negativity of "no" into a powerful tool for resilience and goal achievement.

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What if the change you've been avoiding is actually the key to unlocking the future you've always dreamed of? Join us as we reveal how altering your self talk can guide you down the road less traveled, leading to the success and happiness you've been seeking.

We'll unpack :

Embracing Change: Recognize that change is a natural part of life and often necessary for growth. Staying in familiar territory can lead to stagnation.

Why Your Perspective Matters: Your viewpoint on change can transform your experience. A positive mindset can make challenging transitions feel like opportunities rather than burdens.

Self Talk's Impact: What you tell yourself about yourself determines your reality. Positive self-talk can lead to improved outcomes and personal development.

Fear and Courage: Fear often accompanies change, but it's also where courage is cultivated. Facing fears can lead to personal strength and growth.

Community Influence: Surround yourself with people who practice positive self-talk and embrace change constructively. Their energy and mindset can positively influence your journey.

and so much more!

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Sometimes later becomes never and Don't allow it to become an emergency before it becomes urgent.

In this episode Darnell opens with a strong message on the significance of taking immediate action—"Do it now, because later often becomes never."

He'll also unpack :

Self Talk and Its Impact: Explores how our internal dialogue shapes our external realities and what we attract in life.

Breaking Down Goals: Emphasizes dividing goals into actionable, manageable steps and achieving small wins to maintain motivation.

Prioritization: Discusses the crucial distinction between urgent and important tasks and how to prioritize effectively.

Strategies for Success:

Set clear and specific goals.

Create a schedule and stick to it.

Minimize distractions by creating a supportive environment.

Stay accountable by involving others in your journey.

Practice self-compassion to maintain a positive self-image and resilience.

Visualize success to stay motivated and focused.

and so much more!

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Join Darnell and Traci Self in a deeply engaging episode of the Self Talk Experience! This episode dives into the transformative power of positive self-talk, the importance of defining personal success, and how healthy comparison can propel you forward to your goals.

They Dive into :

Discovering how the law of attraction practically shapes your reality.

Learning to redefine success by your own standards and avoid harmful comparisons.

Gaining insights into building confidence through small wins and consistency.

Understanding the dual role of comparison: as a tool for inspiration and self-reflection.

and so much more!

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