In this heartfelt and thought-provoking conversation, Julie Bjelland, LMFT, and guest co-host Willow McIntosh explore why many sensitive and neurodivergent people—especially those with the Sensitive Autistic Neurotype—were never meant to “fit in.” Together, they share personal stories, clinical insights, and practical guidance on releasing the pressure to conform, reclaiming your authentic self, and honoring your natural needs. They discuss masking, nervous system care, the importance of intentional connection, and the unique role sensitive and autistic individuals play in creating a more compassionate world. Recorded live in the Sensitive Empowerment Community, this episode offers validation, encouragement, and a powerful reminder: your differences are your strengths, and the world needs your light.

About Your Hosts

Julie Bjelland, LMFT
Julie is a psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment. She specializes in high sensitivity and the Sensitive Autistic Neurotype, offering compassionate support through consultations, adult autism assessments, self-paced courses, and a global community. Her work includes a top-ranked podcast reaching listeners in 190 countries and a globally followed blog. Learn more at https://www.juliebjelland.com/

Willow McIntosh

Willow is a facilitator, international speaker, and founder of Inluminance. He specialises in facilitating Highly Sensitive People (HSPs), to recognise their innate High Sensory Intelligence® An ability to perceive truth of self in others and the energetic patterns at play in their environment. His area of expertise is training HSPs to align their work and purpose with these unique perceptual gifts. Having facilitated change and transformation in thousands of HSPs for more than 9 years, he is committed to bringing the importance of the trait into mainstream awareness globally. Learn more at http://inluminance.com/

In this episode, I’m sharing something deeply personal and profoundly urgent. After years of working with women around the world—especially sensitive and neurodivergent women—I’ve seen a heartbreaking pattern: a lack of belief in self, chronic disempowerment, silencing, medical dismissal, and burnout. And yet, it’s women who are most needed right now. We are the ones with the empathy, strength, and vision to rise and create change.

I explore how gender bias in research has harmed women’s health, how reproductive rights are being stripped away, how trauma and unprocessed stress are impacting our bodies, and why so many of us have been conditioned to stay small.

This episode is both a wake-up call and a collective invitation to rise—together.

You’ll hear about:

• The epidemic of disempowerment and chronic illness in women

• Gender-based violence and the reasons survivors stay silent

• How medical research has excluded women for decades

• The criminalization of miscarriage and reproductive injustice

• The impact of economic disempowerment and unpaid labor

• Intersectionality and why our liberation must include all women

• Medical gaslighting and the misdiagnosis of sensitive, neurodivergent women

• A vision for collective healing, empowerment, and action

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, unseen, or unsure where to begin—this episode is for you. You are not alone. And you were never meant to do this alone.

If you’re wondering what to do next, here are a few gentle first steps:

• Join my Sensitive Empowerment Community—a global space for education, connection, and healing. We rise stronger when we rise together.

• Explore one of my courses—I’ve created several to support you in burnout recovery, empowerment, and nervous system care.

• Work with me one-on-one—whether through coaching or consultation, I offer personalized support tailored to your needs.

• You can also explore a list of free resources available on my website.

Remember, healing gives us the energy we need to take action in our lives and in the world. You don’t have to do this alone—and you were never meant to.

I’d love to hear from you. Tell me how you’re taking care of your body and heart—and how we can rise above together.

Let’s do this. Let’s make a difference. The world needs us now more than ever.

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Julie Bjelland, LMFT, is a licensed psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment. She specializes in high sensitivity and adult-discovered autism and developed Sensitive Autistic Phenotype Assessments, which recognize the internal, high-masking traits often missed in traditional evaluations. Julie offers therapy, consultations, and autism assessments, and her global resources include online courses, a top-ranked podcast, and the Sensitive Empowerment Community. Her mission is to help sensitive and neurodivergent individuals thrive with self-understanding, compassion, and authenticity. Learn more at JulieBjelland.com.

In this deeply validating episode, Julie Bjelland, LMFT, explores 25 common traits within the sensitive autistic phenotype—a presentation of autism often overlooked in women and those socialized to mask. These traits offer insight into why so many highly sensitive people are discovering, often in adulthood, that they are actually autistic. If you’ve felt “different” your whole life or struggled to fit into neurotypical expectations, this episode may provide the clarity and self-compassion you’ve been seeking.

Julie discusses topics such as:

• Feeling out of place, misunderstood, or “not quite right”

• Social anxiety and communication challenges

• Sensory sensitivities and energy crashes

• Burnout, masking, and the impact of misdiagnosis

• Deep alone-time needs and strong emotional responses to injustice

You’ll also hear more about Julie’s unique approach to autism assessments, her free autism quiz, and how you can access community support and resources.

Resources Mentioned:

• 💻 Free Autism Quiz

• 📞 Schedule a Consultation or Diagnostic Assessment

• 🧠 Discovering Autism as an Adult Course

• 🤝 Adult-Discovered Autism Group (Free inside the Sensitive Empowerment Community)

• 📘 Guide for Understanding Autism in Women

• ALL Autism Resources for the Sensitive Autistic Phenotype

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If you found this episode helpful, please share it with your community. Together, we can help more people feel seen, supported, and empowered.

Julie Bjelland, LMFT, is a licensed psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment. She specializes in high sensitivity and adult-discovered autism and developed Sensitive Autistic Phenotype Assessments, which recognize the internal, high-masking traits often missed in traditional evaluations. Julie offers therapy, consultations, and autism assessments, and her global resources include online courses, a top-ranked podcast, and the Sensitive Empowerment Community. Her mission is to help sensitive and neurodivergent individuals thrive with self-understanding, compassion, and authenticity. Learn more at JulieBjelland.com.

We are all living in tumultuous times and it’s very easy to become overwhelmed. When our nervous system is out of balance, we are more likely to have heightened emotional responses to what’s going on around us.

In this insightful interview, Dr Melanie Joy shares how highly sensitive people can experience dysregulation due to high empathy, weakened boundaries, taking on the responsibility to create harmonious relationships and perfectionist tendencies.

Managing the intake of distressing media, challenges around co-parenting, difficult and intense conversations, diet and lifestyle are all discussed with helpful and practical strategies to help regulate the nervous system and keep us grounded and supported. Throughout the interview, Melanie shares a number of useful resources for guidance along the way.

You can learn more about Melanie at https://www.melaniejoy.org

Get more of Melanie's Resources on the podcast page of my website at HSPpodcast.com

~If you find this podcast helpful, please consider rating and sharing it with others so more sensitive and neurodivergent people can find it. I hope you'll consider joining our kindhearted family and our sensitive empowerment community where we host regular live events and meet and greets where you can make kind-hearted friends around the world, visit SensitiveCommunity.com

I focus on the concept of “glimmers”—those fleeting, positive moments that provide hope when life feels overwhelming. As someone who identifies as highly sensitive and neurodivergent, I share personal stories of grief, self-reflection, and the practical ways I train my brain to notice and savor moments of joy or relief. You’ll learn how cultivating glimmers can help regulate the nervous system, ease anxiety, and create anchors of stability and hope during challenging times.

Resources Mentioned

• Sensitive Empowerment Community: A safe space to share experiences and connect with peers who “get it.”

• One-on-One Sessions: Personalized video sessions with me from anywhere in the world.

• Online Courses: Seven courses designed to help sensitive and neurodivergent people reduce challenges and thrive.

• Practitioner Directory: Find therapists and coaches experienced in high sensitivity and neurodivergence.

• Free Self-Compassion Video: A simple technique for building kindness toward yourself.

• Website: Click the menu to explore all my resources in one place.

• Newsletter: Get gentle reminders, supportive insights, and special discounts.

• Guided Meditations: Explore guided meditations and more episodes on self-compassion, emotional regulation, and empowerment.

This episode dives into the concept of the “sensitive autistic phenotype,” highlighting how many highly sensitive adults are discovering they are autistic later in life. The discussion emphasizes the need to view autism holistically, recognizing the intersection with gender, race, and other identities, and focuses on strength-based approaches and self-advocacy for better well-being.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Julie Bjelland, LMFT

A consultant and specialist in high-sensitivity and late-discovered autism. A neurodivergent psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment, Julie is passionate about guiding sensitive and neurodivergent individuals to reduce challenges, improve their mental and physical health, flourish to their fullest potential, and embrace their authentic selves. Through her global support hub, Julie provides online courses, a supportive community, a podcast, articles, and webinars—all thoughtfully designed to reduce overwhelm, balance the sensitive nervous system, and foster resilience. As a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, Julie is devoted to creating safe, inclusive spaces where differences are celebrated and strengths are fully embraced. Discover more at JulieBjelland.com.

In today’s episode, we’re diving into the powerful topic of sensory sensitivity and sensory overload, exploring how these experiences shape our lives and impact our wellness.

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Julie Bjelland, LMFT, is a consultant and specialist in high-sensitivity and late-discovered autism. A neurodivergent psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment, Julie is passionate about guiding sensitive and neurodivergent individuals to reduce challenges, improve their mental and physical health, flourish to their fullest potential, and embrace their authentic selves. Through her global support hub, Julie provides online courses, a supportive community, a podcast, articles, and webinars—all thoughtfully designed to reduce overwhelm, balance the sensitive nervous system, and foster resilience. As a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, Julie is devoted to creating safe, inclusive spaces where differences are celebrated and strengths are fully embraced. Discover more at JulieBjelland.com.

In this episode, Julie Bjelland explores the life-changing experience of discovering you're autistic as an adult. She shares personal insights and stories from others who have embarked on this journey, highlighting the emotional and physical costs of masking, the unique traits of late-discovered autism, and the power of finally understanding yourself. Julie discusses common challenges faced by autistic individuals, including sensory sensitivities, chronic health issues, and societal misconceptions. She also provides strategies for unmasking, embracing your authentic self, and finding supportive communities.

Julie encourages listeners to embrace neurodiversity, honor their needs, and connect with others on the same path. Resources like the Sensitive Empowerment Community and the Autistic Women’s Group are available to support listeners on their journey.

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Visit JulieBjelland.com for resources, courses, and support.

Julie Bjelland, LMFT, is a consultant and specialist in high-sensitivity and late-discovered autism. A neurodivergent psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment, Julie is passionate about guiding sensitive and neurodivergent individuals to reduce challenges, improve their mental and physical health, flourish to their fullest potential, and embrace their authentic selves. Through her global support hub, Julie provides online courses, a supportive community, a podcast, articles, and webinars—all thoughtfully designed to reduce overwhelm, balance the sensitive nervous system, and foster resilience. As a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, Julie is devoted to creating safe, inclusive spaces where differences are celebrated and strengths are fully embraced. Discover more at JulieBjelland.com.

In this episode, Julie Bjelland explores the powerful parallels between biodiversity in nature and neurodiversity in humanity. Discover how every unique mind contributes to the resilience, innovation, and balance of our world, much like every species plays a vital role in thriving ecosystems. Julie dives into:

Learn how we can collectively create a world that celebrates and supports neurodiversity as a vital strength.

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If you enjoyed this episode, please like, review, subscribe, and share it to help spread awareness and create a world where neurodiversity is celebrated.

Julie Bjelland, LMFT, is a consultant and specialist in high-sensitivity and late-discovered autism. A neurodivergent psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment, Julie is passionate about guiding sensitive and neurodivergent individuals to reduce challenges, improve their mental and physical health, flourish to their fullest potential, and embrace their authentic selves. Through her global support hub, Julie provides online courses, a supportive community, a podcast, articles, and webinars—all thoughtfully designed to reduce overwhelm, balance the sensitive nervous system, and foster resilience. As a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, Julie is devoted to creating safe, inclusive spaces where differences are celebrated and strengths are fully embraced. Discover more at JulieBjelland.com.

Dive into the topic of burnout recovery and prevention, particularly for sensitive and autistic individuals. Burnout is a pervasive challenge for many neurodivergent people, and Julie provides practical tools, strategies, and insights to help listeners identify, manage, and prevent burnout.

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Long-Term Resilience:

Takeaways: Burnout is not a personal failure but a sign that your body and mind need care. Recovery and prevention require intentional self-care, boundary-setting, and creating routines that align with your unique needs as a sensitive or autistic individual.

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Your well-being matters, and small steps can make a big difference. Take time to care for your beautiful, sensitive self. 🌟

I’m Julie Bjelland, LMFT, Consultant and Specialist in Late-Discovered Autism in Sensitive Women (AFAB), a neurodivergent psychotherapist, author, and founder of Sensitive Empowerment. I empower sensitive and neurodivergent individuals to embrace their authentic selves, improve their well-being, and thrive. Through my global support hub, I offer online courses, a supportive community, a podcast, articles, and webinars to reduce overwhelm and balance the sensitive nervous system. As a proud LGBTQ+ member, I am dedicated to creating safe, inclusive spaces for all.